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Bailey Girl has earned her wings today.
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20 October 2014 - 9:33 pm
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I think you might be able to see the photos.  My heart sank when I seen the box... I cried for hours.  Everyone on here holds me up, this is my place to hide. I just don't want to deal with the world.

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20 October 2014 - 9:36 pm
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I love this family of mine!  Thanks for always being here.  It just stinks... I'm sorry for always being a Debbie downer... hopefully the link that Jerry sent will help.  I have not called yet. sad

Sally, the markings on the sculpture are incredible... the back photo is unreal, the head tilt and the markings are all Bailey.  Rachael Crawley did an amazing job, she's awesome.

 

Never in my life have I felt like this. 

But honestly it's my support on here that keeps me going.  I still want to give up but I need to try to move on... it's just hard.

Love and tight tight hugs!

Tracy and Bailey

 

October 2, 2014      Bailey Sweet Irish Cream

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This is before the vet arrived this is how they were laying.  They stuck together always... Bella knew, this breaks my heart.  October 2, 2014

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20 October 2014 - 10:15 pm
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These photos ar so beautiful! Bailey is truly a Beauty Queen! So glad you have photos like this. They are Bailey's way of reminding you of the thousands and thousands of happy sun loving days! Beautiful memories!

Thanks for shring these. We love her...and you!!

I. LOVE how you set up the bottom picture....the powerful words....the"puffy clouds in heaven" and our beautiful Bailey Girl! Yeah,can't get over the colorig and the head tilt. Captured her essence so well!

Yeah, the depth of despair, the painful loss, there IS nothing that can prepare you for the void...and I know you feel like it will never end. We all PROMISE you, although it is always with you, it is not always at that suffocating level... Sure, the sadness is there, but :not non stop z24/7.....you do jave Bella to help put color back in your day. She needs you andnyou need her...and we need you and Bailey needs you to keep jer legacy alive!!

Oh, and when you check out the Grief Counseling link, please share with us, okay? You'll be ableto help all of us with some of the cioing skills yiu learn.. thank you!

Gonna scroll back up and look at these pictures again..they make me smile!

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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20 October 2014 - 10:23 pm
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Oh gosh....I just saw the pic of Bailey and Bella together!!!!!!!

I know that gave each of them comfort. There is no fear in those pictures....just contentment...peace....connection....a knowing that nothing can separate them....and you.

Bailey looks almost relieved in her picture....she knows she's embarking on another adventure pain free where she can run free!

Such a magnificent soul.....we love Bailey Girl...and Bella too!

Keep these pics coming! We LOVE them!!!!! Do you jave any pupoy pics?

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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21 October 2014 - 4:52 am
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Tracy Beautiful is the word!   Hope fully it will bring a smile to your face when you look at it. It will remind you that she is happy being an angel! I know it cannot take away your pain but it will help.  Stay connected we are here for you!

Laurie 

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21 October 2014 - 7:08 am
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Tracy,

So good to hear from you! That ornament, WOW WOW WOW!!! What a special, beautiful gift. I know you and your family will cherish it always!

Thank you for sharing those touching pictures, those were tough moments, but they are beautiful, Bailey is beautiful, and well Bella, her name says it all. :) Bailey looked so content and completely wrapped in love.

As you know by now some days are worse than others, the gloomy days, the stressful days, those are some of the hardest I think, but then again we never know when it'll hit us harder than others. If it's nice out today in MO enjoy the sunshine on your face and think of beautiful, beaming Angel Bailey full of warmth and love surrounded by the best of the best!

Lots of love,

Rachel and Snaggliest Angel Theodore

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21 October 2014 - 7:30 am
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Oh Tracy...I'm so glad you finally checked in.  I too am sorry you had a tough day yesterday but receiving that precious gift was definitely a sign from Bailey that her spirit still surrounds you and your family.  The sculptor did a beautiful job of capturing Bailey's essence that's for sure.  Such a beautiful and precious keepsake...it definitely deserves to stay out all year on your mantel.

And the pictures of Bailey and Bella...just lovely.  They are both extraordinary girls!!

I'd like to suggest a task for today along with some of the others you've received.  Nothing to big as we're taking baby steps right now.  I'd like to suggest drawing a nice warm bubble bath and just lay back and let the warmth of the water surround you.  Maybe eat a few pieces of chocolate while you're soaking...winker

Hang in there girl...your family needs you and we need you here as well!!

HUGS

Sahana and her Angel Leland  

Leland

November 17, 2009 - June 30, 2014

May you finally be healthy and running free at the Rainbow Bridge. Until we meet again my sweet boy!

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21 October 2014 - 10:01 am
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Ohhhh I LOVE that ornament, what a magical piece of art! Sue is so sweet, she is a Dane Mom through and through. How wonderful to have her helping you through this too.

We are so proud of you! You did it, you called your doc, you opened the package, you took steps you thought you couldn't take!!!

Glad you got the photos figured out. And your new thyroid meds. That is going to make a HUGE difference. Now it means you have to leave the house to go pick them up right? Soooo...why not go for a little walk with Bella while you're out, just to get some fresh air in a park or someplace nice and surrounded by nature?

OK the calendar. Just email me a photo and I will make sure it gets in there. Can't wait to see it.

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20 November 2014 - 4:10 pm
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First, I'm sorry for staying away so long.  I need everyone more than you know.  My husband just said I shouldn't have abandoned you.  I really don't mean to and I am here. My health was not good so I was seeking help and I am doing better.  Today lots of tears and I of course come running here... you all help me I should be helping you!!!

Today I received a really nice card that a donation had been made in Bailey's name from Animal Health and Healing and when I opened it I lost it.  What a sweet gesture and in memory of my girl, they made a donation to Longmeadow Rescue Ranch which is a branch of our Humane Society, elderly horses and dogs... a wonderful place to volunteer.

I'm doing ok I guess, I just want her back.  It is so hard as you know.  I thought the new puppy would help but she looks so much like Bailey right now. (not sure if that is a good thing)

 

Love and tight hugs.

Tracy and Bailey Girl

 

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20 November 2014 - 5:07 pm
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Tracy,

No apologies.  The nice thing about this community is that there are members here going through all stages of this disease, so you are never alone.  And, those of us who have lost our babies understand, believe me.  The loss is devastating and will stay with you for a long time to come.  Eventually it will get easier, I promise.  In the meantime, we are here if you need us.  Hugs.

 

Lisa

Zeus was a Husky mix diagnosed with Osteosarcoma at age 11.  A visible lung met and suspicious spot on his liver meant a poor prognosis-six weeks was our vet's best guess. We decided to fight for our boy and his right front leg was amputated on 12/1/11. We did six rounds of chemo, changed his diet and spoiled him completely rotten. We were blessed with 10 great months after diagnosis. Against the odds, the lung met remained a single met and grew very little over those months. A wonderful furbaby with the most gentle spirit, he fought with a strength that we never imagined he possessed. We have no regrets...
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20 November 2014 - 6:09 pm
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Tracy Tracy Tracy- We do not feel abandoned!  We all grieve differently, and know that you had a tough (putting it mildly) time.  The best thing you could do for us is to get well yourself. Remember we are Sweet Baileys Tribe and have been given the task of keeping an eye on you.whatever

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20 November 2014 - 8:25 pm
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No apologies needed.  I said to someone here the other day- you take when you need, you give when you can.  You know there are no judgements here, no grudges held.  

When Maggie passed I adopted another black pug- a boy this time, nothing like Maggie.  But still, two black pugs.  Yes, sometimes it made things hard, but overall for me it was a good thing to have something to focus on.  

It got better for me, it will for you too.  Come here whenever you need, give back when you are able.

 

Karen and Spirit Maggie

Tri-pug Maggie survived a 4.5 year mast cell cancer battle only to be lost to oral melanoma.

1999 to 2010

 

              Maggie's Story                  Amputation and Chemo

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20 November 2014 - 9:25 pm
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Oh sweet Tracy! It IS wonderful to hear from you! No, you have not abandoned us at all!!! You are doing your best to get through each day...and you ARE!
And I KNOW Bailey is proud of you.

The Animal Health and Healing Center clearly were touched by you and Bailey. What a lovely way to pay tribute to you both. Such a beautiful gesture.

As Laurie reminded you, we are part of Bailey's Tribr and she wants us to keep an eye on you. If your health jas been compromised, is it because, in part, because you are not taking care of yourself....eating....sleeping....taking your thyroid pills...eating chocolate? If ailey's Tribe needs to start making daily assignments to help you along, let us know!

Be easy on y ourself Tracy. Youve seen enough posts here to know the grief is devasting and it does not go away auickly. An intense journey, an intense love. brings forth an intense grief like no other.

Bailey brought Gracie to you...trust that she knows this was THE best choice for both of you!

Wonderful to hear from you. Stay connected and feel comfortable sharing your feelings rather than keeping them bottled up. Remember, we understand like no others can.

Surrounding you with TIGHT HUGS!!

Sally and Alumni Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle too!

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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23 November 2014 - 2:17 pm
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My heart goes out to you! Your Bailey was a beautiful girl and I know you will miss her greatly. (((hugs))) 

Cindy~

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23 November 2014 - 3:04 pm
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Tracy,  First of all, thank you for your friendship!  I have had an opportunity to read Bailey's blog, and there are SO many similarities between our stories.  I feel your grief....and I wish I could take it away.  It's hard to read, because I know I will be following in your footsteps soon.  Your love of Bailey is so evident in your posts.  I guess I am grateful to have found this group....a group we all wish we never had to join.  I just want to tell you that I appreciate your blog and to tell you how lucky Bailey was to have such a wonderful mom.  Take care!  ~Betsy

Betsy Golden and Angel, Eddy.  Eddy was diagnosed with Osteosarcoma 7-23-14, had a left rear amputation 8-07-14, had 3 rounds of carboplatin chemotherapy,  a small lung met was discovered in October, had 2 rounds of doxorubicin, and unfortunately more lung mets were discovered.  Eddy fought cancer valiantly and went to the Rainbow Bridge 1-6-15, at the age of 7 years and 359 days, just six days short of his 8th birthday.   Best Dog, Ever....you will never be forgotten.

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