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Surgery yesterday, Arbi is coming home today
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Virginia







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24 March 2022 - 8:56 am
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YAY!!!!!   Onward and upward!!!!!

Prayers, positive energy, good juju, , Loving Thoughts and healing energy are all being sick too sweet Arbi!💖👍👏🙏🙏🙏! We know you have your hands full today but update when you can after you've had a moment to catch your breath.

Love and hugs💖

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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24 March 2022 - 10:17 am
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Hello… yes … please send the good vibrations our way!!  

We are at the ER ..  They took her in right away … getting records from the vet.   

I need to know if Arbi will have a good quality of life and what we need to do.   I don’t want to do things if there isn’t a good chance.   They will give her a pain injection so that’s a good thing …

Knowing I am not alone is huge .!!   Keeping a positive attitude while I wait for the dr to come in .

thank you so much !!!! ❤️🐾❤️

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24 March 2022 - 10:27 am
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Yes, we're with you.  You may not see us, but I know you  can feel our pawsitive energy and cyber hugs 💖

So glad for the pain med I jection.  I'm sure they'll be doing "stuff" and moving her around, etc that would probably be "uncomfortable" without the injectuon.

It is. absolutely  clear with your Soul deep bond and love you are going to do whatever  is best 5o give sweet Arbi a good quality  life.  💖   Hopefully  you will get some answers now and a path forward to ensure that happens!👍

Take some deep breaths..... and, if you have a phone or tavlet 2here you can record whatever  the Bet says after testing, etc, that will help you process everything later in the peace and quiet of your home .  I know I always think I understand every word they say......u til I get home and cant  remember  a thing!

Hope more dogs come up to you like they did yesterday and share their love💖💖

I k ow the waiting is soooo hard and your mind is going crazy with thoughts!  Rem, it's just as easy to thing a PAWSITIVE  thought as well as it is a negative  though....and a pawsitive thought feels soooo mich better.

💖💖💖💖💖💖.

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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24 March 2022 - 11:13 am
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Thank you!!!   I am staying in a positive frame of mind ..can’t even second guess anything at this point 

Yes.. great idea to record what they say.!!    
I know you are all out there and rooting for us .. ❤️🐾❤️

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24 March 2022 - 11:19 am
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And if there is a place to get ice cream nearby, maybe  you can slip out and get some.  I've found ice cream is the best way to calm nerves, along with chocolate, cupcakes and anything sweet!!  Yeah, basically  I'm a sweet-aholic😎

'Have to head iinto work shortly, but will keep checking in right up until I have to leave.  AMD of course, continuing  with the pawsit energy, prayers and cyber hugs💖

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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24 March 2022 - 11:46 am
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I'm sooooo glad you were able to get in! Are you at the one I mentioned, LVVSC

If anyone can figure this out, they can. As I mentioned I have firsthand experience there when we interviewed Bowie's oncologist.

Keeping you in my heart and sending tons of love and pawsitivity to you and Arbi. Let us know what they say.

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Virginia







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24 March 2022 - 9:19 pm
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Jeane, I saw you  were on here just a minute ago and hoping for an unpdate.  No matter what, please know we are holding you in our hearts and here for you..

And please know uou don't  have to post if you aren't up to it.

Just sending  love.....

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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24 March 2022 - 9:24 pm
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Hello... 

I am at home with Arbi .. we are relaxing and getting used to the information we received from the specialty center.   Yes.. We went to the one you recommended.   They have an emergency office I took her to.    We got right in.   

Arbi is not in pain.. she's resting comfortably next to me.   She is breathing hard and heavy.  The timing of this breathing isn't tied to her pain meds.  In fact.. they don't believe  she is in any pain at all right now.   They said I can continue to give them to her as prescribed.   Thats to make me feel better.   Doing something feels better than being helpless.   

Her leg is paralyzed.   A day ago she had feeling in her toes.. now.. nothing.  It moved rapidly.  They do not recommend another major surgery.  It would be too hard on her and there are no guarantees.     They do not believe it is a disk issue.  Her front legs are starting to splay and she is losing a bit of control over those as well.   She could not hold onto the window when I drove her home as she used to do.   

I saw it in the eyes of the Dr.. and the same thing in Dr. Lewis' eyes as well.  While not what I wanted.. I'm glad I went to the Specialty center to get a second opinion.  And confirm.   We can still do a wait and see if something might improve..   She has several other issues... her Cushing's, disease.. and now.. very elevated liver enzymes.   

My sweet Arbi has been with me for 13 years.. my sidekick and buddy.. my trusting friend.   

BTW.. Tripawds is very well known there.!!   Each time I mentioned it.. I got big smile.!!  

While not the answer I was hoping for... I am not sorry about the surgery for her tumor.. I had to give her the chance.. She was a great Tripawd.. while she could do it.   

Sending love and light... Jeane and Arbi.. ❤️❤️🐾❤️❤️

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24 March 2022 - 9:57 pm
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I am so glad she's home with you and so sad and heartbroken  she is having this issue.

Thank you for updating, I know it was hard.  We so much appreciate it thoug.  I know weve all been on pins and needles  waiting to hear back, but not wanting  to intrude.

I really don't know what to say at this point.  It is a relief to know she isnt in pain and yeah, ot still doesn't  hurt to give her a low dose just in case.

So what did the Vets say was gong on?  The what and they why?  Some of not a disc issue, what?

I hate to keep bringing a disc issue up, but something  happened.  Without going into why I have some info on it, going from feeling her toes being pinched, to that leg basically paralyzed  and then the weakness and splaying in the front legs. "may" indicate  disc damage towards lower end of spine  moving   up her spine to disc closes to shoulder, neck area.

While some Bets don't  believe Prednisone  can "help", some do and prescribe starting at larger doses then reducing.  

Anyway, just throwing  that out there as something  non invasive and not requiring more Vet visits, etc.

I do realize she is "mature" or "well seasoned" as I like to say, and then having Cushing, whackynlover issues too......just more complications. 

Did they mention a supplement to help support  the locer?  Starts with a "D"....Deramin...Deramx....some like that?

Just so ya'll know, we're  still sending pawsitive energy, prayers and pawsitive  healing thoughts straight to Miss Arbi!!  She's  one tough cookie and just might surprise  all those Vets!!! If any doggy can, she can!!

Lots of love and continue  to spoil and spoil and spoil!!!

Hugs

Sally and Alumni Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle and Frankie too!

PS....Did mean to ask so many questions or make suggestions,  but just hoping they told you a reason and why.  It's still worth asking about a steroid depending  on what they said is going on.

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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24 March 2022 - 10:19 pm
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Hello... and a BIG THANK YOU for all your support.. love and cyber hugs.!!   I could not have gotten though this without all of you.   You were rooting for Arbi and me from the very beginning.   I could not have asked for more.!!   And in the process.. I made a new pen pal friend in Florida.! Shout out to Georgias Mom. !!

In the meantime.. I will enjoy her and see what happens in the next few days.   She's happily snoring beside me.   which is music to my ears.  

With tons of gratitude and love.. Jeane and Arbi...❤️🐾❤️

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24 March 2022 - 10:37 pm
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Well we fell in love with you and Arbi from day one. The bond and devotion you have to each other pulled at our Heartstrings. If there is a silver lining in this journey it is that we become family, not by blood, but by shared experiences and the depths of love that we have for our dogs and cats that no one else could really understand.

So get some good rest tonight, just like Arbi is.  I love that she's  so comfy she's  snorung😎 Yes snoring is a beautiful thing from a dog.. Just another reminder  being by your side is the best therapy she could have💖

(((((((((((((Hugs and sweet dreams))))))))

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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25 March 2022 - 6:05 am
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Hello..

I didn't want to ignore your questions about a disk problem for Arbi.   They did not think it was a disk issue since she had no pain when they examined her.  They could not rule it out of course without an MRI.   They did not think that was a good option for Arbi.   Even if we did that and they found something,  they did not think it was in her best interest to go though another major surgery.  Said it is a hard enough recovery for dogs that have 4 legs.    I did make an appt on Sunday with the Specialty Vet Center.    I can keep it and change my mind about the MRI.   I will watch Arbi for the next couple of days.  I know.. I sound so wishy washy.    This is not a situation I am happy to find ourselves in.    

As a pet parent.. all we can do is give our pups the best life we can give them.   If they are well taken care of, know they are loved.   We have done our job.   Arbi and I have had a great 13 years together.   My daughter recently sent me photos of me with her kids.   In each and every one of those photos.. Arbi was always there.   Hanging out.. being part of whatever was going on.   She never missed out on anything.   I know she's had a great 13 years.   We have traveled all over.. gone to many national parks. Ate a hamburger in the dining room at Mt. Rainier Lodge. We  were the only ones there... they let me bring her in... I was getting dinner.. and it was so good I asked them to make one for her too.!  

I have been reading in the loss part of the forum.   What happened to Arbi has happened to other pups as well.  Taking my time before making any decision just yet.    This is when I wish she could talk.!!   

Hugs.. ❤️🐾❤️

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25 March 2022 - 8:59 am
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Thank you so much for sharing more about the beautiful times you and RV and your family have had together. Talk about an exemplary life well-lived, Arby is that example. And make no mistake about it, she still enjoying being cuddled up with you right now just as much as any other Adventure.

No, you are not being wishy-washy at all. Igor time everyday with our Abbey to make sure that she is comfortable and continues to find joy. Because you know Arby so well, you will know.....you will know.

So, no, I don't think it's wishy-washy at all to keep Sunday's appointment without doing anything invasive and without  foing needless tests that wouldn't  change the outcome anyway,.  But you will have a new set of eyes with  total overall assessment that will help you make any decisions you need to make down the road as far as quality.   AND they may have suggestions  fotr ways to add more comfort.

And thank you for not being frustrated with me for continuing to bring up the disk issue!,  There's a thin line between trying to be helpful but becoming annoying instead. I was afraid I had crossed it! Wiithout going into it, I am  familiar  with it.And absolutely, to continue with anesthesia for an MRI and knowing that a surgery and long confinement would follow, and knowing that the possibility of success is pretty slim, even in four leg dogs.............yeah, not anything  many would pursue. And on top of that the over the top expenses involved, plus her age the Cushing's etc etc nope nope nope.

All that said what I've learned is that, although there is no pain per se from the disease disc on down, the disc itself is very painful. I'm passing on knowledge that I've gained from vets on this issue as well as knowing the difference it made in quality with pain meds being added. Additionally, prednisone has been added. Obviously these are short-term fixes, but if they can make a difference in whatever time is left that's a good thing.  To add more unsolicited advice, if the pecialty clinic is like some and  insist on more tests, MRI, Etc I absolutely 1000000% concur with your previous vets advice and your wisdom  that it would not make any difference as surgery, mri,  completely be off the table.

And to be clear, none of this may have anything at all to do with Arbi's situation. Additionally the suggestions of a pain med and prednisone may not in any way shape or form benefit Arbi.   And to proclaim loudly, I am not a vet and not giving Vet  advice!  Just passing on some information that may or may not be helpful at all!

And please, you need not respond to this post at all. You have so much on your plate right now and your main focus needs to be continuing to spoil and snuggle with precious! I merely pass the disk information on if you decide to keep Sundays appointment it may be worth mentioning. They may have real reasons not to pursue that path at all, or they may think it's worth a try

We would love to see pictures of Arby here's a link for adding images I bet your daughter would know how to figure it out!

You are a very special loving and enlightened Soul Miss Jeane. Just as privileged as you feel to have Arbi be in your life all these years, he feels just as privileged to have you in hers. She has her own person and her own family that has brought her joy and love every single day of her life. Every dog should be so lucky

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Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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25 March 2022 - 11:21 am
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Jeane, I'm just now catching up. I wish I could give you a giant ((((HUG)))).

Words are escaping me right now. I'm so sorry. I just so so so wanted them to say this was a simple fix. Maybe some PT or a different pain control strategy. In a perfect world these situations would never, ever happen. Yes, they do occasionally as you've seen. Sometimes sooner, sometimes later. When it does, we all feel the gut-punch of a Tripawd who everyone thought would do just fine. For new members it's even harder to know that things can change on a dime. If I could have one wish granted to me it would be that if an animal has to lose a leg, they can move on with absolute certainty that things would always be awesome for them.

Arbi is a treasured part of your life, and now ours too. We are so grateful that you found us, and are willing to share this difficult situation. Even things like this are helpful, please know that. It's not an easy topic to discuss or to share with the community. We can't thank you enough.

I understand the dilemma about whether or not to keep that appointment or to do surgery and take other steps beyond a diagnostic. We faced that with our Wyatt Ray during his last year. He had IVDD (disc disease) and the only treatment was a surgery with a 60% success rate. At 12 years old, we weren't willing to risk it on our arthritic old guy. So we kept him as pain free as we could until we knew that he was ready to move on. It hurt like hell to make that call, but it was the right one for him. Like Arbi, he had a full life (and as a traveling dog too!). We said goodbye to honor who he was in real life, and in our hearts. 

You are not being wishy washy or evasive. There is just a lot to wrap your head around right now. As Sally mentioned, no need to reply. Be with Arbi. Turn off the tech. Stay grounded. Absorb the love and the light and all the virtual hugs we are sending you. Love that girl up like you are doing. She is in the best care possible, and is getting what she needs to be pain-free under a very difficult circumstance. Whether or not you keep that appointment is up to you. We won't judge you here either way. When you are ready, let us know how things are going. We are here for you with a shoulder to lean on. 

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Hello...

Thank you for taking the time to write back during this most difficult time I am having right now.  I appreciate hearing any and all suggestions that might.. just might be helpful. Sometimes you have to read things several times and will finally see something different.   I was never annoyed or frustrated by talking about disk issues.    I see it as doing your best to be helpful.  Everyone here has so much more knowledge about such things.   

Right now.. there is no joy in Arb's life.   She's laying beside me.. sleeping.. and sometimes her breathing becomes rapid and she starts panting in her sleep.   She is enjoying her meals.  Of course I am making those very special for her.   

She cannot tell me when she needs to move... if she is uncomfortable.. if she needs to go out.  She is an invalid.     I honestly cannot leave her alone.. because even if the water is right there.. she will struggle to get it.   It is painful to watch her not be Arbi and do what she likes to do.   She simply lays there breathing.    I know you understand how my heart is so broken for her right now.   You all have been through this.   This is the first time I have had to make this kind of decision.   My other little pup.. a rescue chihuahua.. he passed at home.. and yes.. while I was away.   I kept him with me for 24 hours and then took him to the Pet Cremation place.   

It is sad that she had her cancer.    She lived with it for over a year, before we had to make the choice to lose the tumor and her leg.   I did everything in my power (and we don't have any control over these events.) to give her the opportunity to continue to have a good life.   She did amazingly well on those 3 legs while she could.     It is heartbreaking to have such a complication so early after her surgery.    She is looking at me now.. and such a sad look.   As much as I would love to continue to try things and see if there is a better outcome... I know in my heart letting her failing body go and releasing her spirit is the kindest thing to do.  The ultimate act of love... even if it doesn't feel good.   I don't know about knowing when ... I just know this isn't fair to her.   If she had 4 legs... this would not be such a tragic turn of events.    

Thank you all from the bottom of my heart.  I know you all understand.  You all were rooting for us.. and I did get to take care of her for these last 3 weeks.   24/7.   I got my time with my girl with no distractions.   Just pure love. ❤️🐾❤️

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