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8 August 2011 - 10:10 pm
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  I have come to the conclusion that I definitely do not regret my decision to amputate Valentina's leg. And that's really saying something!! I never thought I would say that. Even after all we've been through we have been through it together. And this decision that I had to make was out of complete PURE LOVE for my one and only Valentina!! I feel that I will never love another Dog the way I Love Her!!! The alternative would have led to her already being missing from my life. Knowing how much pain she was in was so hard to see but I couldn't imagine putting her to sleep when the rest of her body seemed totally fine. How could I stand next to her while they gave her the lethal liquid and look into her beautiful eyes knowing that I didn't do anything to help extend her life? It has been OH so VERY HARD to go through this rocky recovery but I do think that it was worth it. Just knowing that I tried to do what is best for Valentina is worth something. I will take what I can get. Even if I still have only a short time with her it will still be more than I would have had if I had chosen to put her to sleep. I have gotten to give her so much of my Love and undivided attention and I know that she knows how much I Love Her. Every day is a blessing to have this Dog here on Earth with me. Of course I am hoping that she will be one of those Dogs that lives way beyond what was expected having cancer but I will not expect that. Just hope. But I will be at peace with the decision that I have made and I will thank God for bestowing his Grace upon me and my favorite DOG!!

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8 August 2011 - 10:18 pm
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I could not have said any of that better myself! Enjoy your girl! She deserves it and you do too!

 

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8 August 2011 - 10:56 pm
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Thank You Very Much Coopsdad !!!

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9 August 2011 - 3:34 am
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I am so relieved to this.  You had been through so very much with Valentina's recovery, I was afraid you would never realize you truly had done the best you could do to offer her a better/longer life.

Unfortunately, I think most of us find we are making this journey with our heart dog.  The one who can never be replaced by another. Wishing you many happy days ahead.

Shanna & Spirit Trouble ~ Trouble gained her wings 3/16/2011, a 27 1/2 month cancer survivor, tail wagging. RIP sweetheart, you are my heart and soul.  Run free at Rainbow Bridge.
The November Five - Spirits Max, Cherry, Tika, Trouble & Nova. 11/2008 - 3/2013 An era ends as Queen Nova crossed the Bridge.

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9 August 2011 - 8:04 am
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Oh hooray. I'm so glad to hear you say that. I was so worried you wouldn't get to this point since you were having such a rough recovery period with her there. Every "extra" day with our furry family members is a blessing.

Hugs to you and Valentine,
Jackie, Abby's mom

Abby: Aug 1, 2009 – Jan 10, 2012. Our beautiful rescue pup lived LARGE with osteosarcoma for 15 months – half her way-too-short life. I think our "halflistic" approach (mixing traditional meds + supplements) helped her thrive. (PM me for details. I'm happy to help.) She had lung mets for over a year. They took her from us in the end, but they cannot take her spirit! She will live forever in our hearts. She loved the beach and giving kisses and going to In-N-Out for a Flying Dutchman. Tripawds blog, and a more detailed blog here. Please also check out my novel, What the Dog Ate. Now also in paperback! Purchase it at Amazon via Tripawds and help support Tripawds!

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9 August 2011 - 9:44 am
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Hugapitbull said (couldn't work put how to do a quote)

Unfortunately, I think most of us find we are making this journey with our heart dog.  The one who can never be replaced by another.

Too true

Glad you have been able to see that you made the right decision for Valentina and that you now know she knows you love her and all of us with dogs going through cancer should remember every extra day is a blessing

Dizzy diagnosed with osteosarcoma 24 may 2011 amputated same day doing fine hopping around on three legs giving the neighbourhood cats what for

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9 August 2011 - 10:19 am
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angel said:

I definitely do not regret my decision to amputate Valentina's leg.

That's the spirit! big-grin

It's why we recommend the book Without Regret for anyone who questions their decision to amputate.

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9 August 2011 - 12:12 pm
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Some of the pups have a much easier time in recovery than others.  Alexei was a breeze after the first 36 hours (I brought him home after surgery) and it only took maybe three days, when he started enjoying himself basking in the sun and of course when he first got back on the sofa with his pack for me to come to the "no regrets" conclusion.  I can also tell you Alex taught me more about life and strength in the five short months we had with him.  But its' all about quality not quantity when evaluating time…

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9 August 2011 - 3:12 pm
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That is pawsome to hear! Enjoy every moment with your pup. Give her a big hug & kiss from me rasberry

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9 August 2011 - 3:55 pm
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I am so glad that you are all happy and that things are finally looking up! Enjoy all of the precious time you have with each other!

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9 August 2011 - 7:28 pm
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  Thanks everyone! Having another great day! Still no drainage. I have been a little paranoid that it will come back but I don't think it will.Right now Valentina is kicking her legs like crazy having a doggie dream. I have never seen a Dog dream like her. Other Dogs that I have had may have done a little twitching and maybe a muffled bark in their sleep but watching Valentina dream is so hilarious sometimes. She is so wild in her sleep. She kicks her legs all over the place sometimes kicking the wall. Her legs will be just a going like she is really running. It can be quite noisy too. Sometimes I hear the racket all the way upstairs. Oh and by the way I can't believe it but I slept in my bed for the first time since she came home from the hospital the second time. It was wonderful. I almost changed my mind because I had just gotten so used to sleeping next to her it felt very strange to leave her downstairs by herself. It was kind of like when I had a baby that whole recovery thing. Not getting much sleep,checking on her in the night ,cleaning up all the drainage was kind of like changing diapers. The special hand feeding and all that other stuff. But last night I finally felt like she would be ok without me. During the time with all the complications there was nothing that would convince me to sleep upstairs away from her. And I rarely left her at all during that whole time. I had such an overwhelming protective instinct that all I could do was stay by her side. I didn't care how long it took, I was going nowhere!! People tried to convince me that she would be ok if I left her alone for a while but I wouldn't listen. I am quite glad that I did what I did because I think that is what helped her recover. She knew that I was there for her no matter what.It was a very hard time but I would do it again. Anything for her. Today I did leave the house for about 4 hours. It was my husbands day off and he was around to keep an eye on her. She does not need to be constantly supervised anymore! So I had a really fun time with my daughter taking her to the mall school shopping. We really needed to spend some time together. The past 5 weeks has really been hard on her too since all of my attention has been on Valentina. She tried to understand but after a while it really got to her. So it was really great to spend a day with her. She is 11 and will be going to middle school for the first time this year so it was fun to help her find her new style. We even ate junk food at the mall which we rarely do. We normally never eat outside of the house and we eat really healthy. She was so surprised when I said "Hey ,Wanna get some cheeseburgers and fries?". She was like "Really? I've never seen you eat food like this before. You are being really fun today Mom!!"  Right now she is trying on her clothes and giving her Dad, sister and I a fashion show. As you can tell I have had a good day! I couldn't wait to get home to give Valentina lots of hugs and kisses. After I got home I took her out for a potty break and I had a hard time getting her to come back in the house. She just loves going outside so she can observe the neighborhood. One of her favorite things to do is to just stand in one spot and look out into the distance taking in everything. I heard some Tripawds have trouble standing in one spot but she doesn't. She doesn't even keep doing that hopping thing while standing in place. She balances really well. And she also can really run fast now.It really is amazing to see a Dog go through this surgery and even with complications perservere through it all and still with a wagging tail and a smile on her face. It is truly remarkable! I am looking so forward to crawling into my bed tonite after all that shopping. I am worn out!  laugh

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9 August 2011 - 8:07 pm
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Good for you!  You are so much fun!  And such a good pawrent!

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10 August 2011 - 3:39 am
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I remember well when I was comfortable for the first time leaving Trouble.  You are on the road now.

Shanna & Spirit Trouble ~ Trouble gained her wings 3/16/2011, a 27 1/2 month cancer survivor, tail wagging. RIP sweetheart, you are my heart and soul.  Run free at Rainbow Bridge.
The November Five - Spirits Max, Cherry, Tika, Trouble & Nova. 11/2008 - 3/2013 An era ends as Queen Nova crossed the Bridge.

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10 August 2011 - 6:58 am
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Glad to hear that she is doing so much better now! And that you are getting sleep and getting out and about now 🙂

Diagnosed with OSA: 5/2/2011 Ampuversary: 5/11/2011 OSA returned in hip: 8/26/2011
Chili Dawg crossed the Rainbow Bridge on 8/30/2011 & is now pain free. He was my heart dog, and I miss him every day.

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11 August 2011 - 6:25 pm
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Valentina is still doing Great!! She has another vet appt tomorrow. I am hoping that they will tell me that I don't have to bring her back for a while. I am sick of going there. Today Valentina wanted to go out into the fenced in dog yard that we have with her sister dog Emalee. I have been taking Valentina out in the front yard to go potty because she doesn't have to walk as far and the steps are kind of low and easy for her to get down. So I have to take the dogs out separately. Our front yard grass is already turning yellow from Val. Well today is the first time that she tried to go out with Emalee. I felt really bad but I didn't let her go because the steps to get to the dog yard are kind of steep and I wasn't sure she could get down them ok. And she was already tired because I had just taken her out in the front yard and she wanted to stay out there forever. Maybe after a little while longer I will see if she can get down those steps. But I was happy to see that she wanted to be a part of the old routine. Her incision looks completely healed and it has not drained a drop since her last irrigation on Monday and the only reason that it did that day was because they put fluid in it. I'm hoping that they don't do an irrigation tomorrow because to me it looks totally closed up.

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