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Pam that couldn't have been more beautifully said. I ditto all of it.
I'm so sorry Carol. We are surrounding you with so much love and so many hugs today.
Mom to Tripawd Angels Jake (2001-2014) and Rosco (2012-2015) and Tripawd Tanner. “Whatever happens tomorrow, we had today; and I'll always remember it”
Carol, we are here for you. This is so darn hard and it hurts something awful. Please call the helpline if you want a shoulder to lean on, 844-TRIPAWD. I'm so sorry.
Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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Here is a photo of Buddy, from Carol:
Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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This is the last picture of Buddy that I took this morning before he earned his wings. His pain was getting unbearable for him and I knew he was suffering. I had to do what I knew was best to end his pain. I find peace that he is no longer suffering but that does not keep me from crying my eyes out. Buddy and I had a special bond like none other. In fact, the picture shows him where he slept with me every night, right beside me. He was always by my side... Even though I have 7 other dogs, he was the one who with me everywhere I went-always laying close to me. My life will not be the same without him.... I pray that one day they find a cure for this terrible cancer that is relentless, painful and kills quickly. I know in my heart that I did everything humanly possible to make him comfortable and I know in my heart that he knew that
That is a picture of a dog who KNEW he was loved beyond measure. Ending their suffering is the last act of unselfish love we can give them. Buddy KNEW without a doubt in his heart and in his soul that you loved him, and that love doesn't stop just because he isn't physically here. He KNEW that you did everything you could to make sure he didn't suffer. This POS cancer was just a speck on his life. He was exactly where he was meant to be in this life, with you. Sending you lots of hugs today and always. Run free Buddy!
Mom to Tripawd Angels Jake (2001-2014) and Rosco (2012-2015) and Tripawd Tanner. “Whatever happens tomorrow, we had today; and I'll always remember it”
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OhOCarol, I just saw this! I'm sooo very sorry!! Just now saw it.
I HAVE to go to work right now and can't write more. I have to stip crying before I get there.
You have the helpline number and here is my home. Number. 804. 551 1799. PLEASE, PLEASE DO NOT HESITATE TO CALL! I'll be home by about 11:00 pm tonight a d stay up late! I work tomorrow but should be home by 6:00
Carol, no o e could have done more for Buddy than you and you gave him the release from an earthly body that no @o ger served him...such selfless love.
I love you and I'll be back........
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
thank you all for your support of me having to let my boy go. I am still crying... For a year and a half I helped him up and down the steps to the bed, up on the sofa, up and down the back steps into the yard.... and now I feel so empty--like my life has no purpose. I know it will get better with time because I have been here before but honestly I have never had the bond with any of my other dogs that I had with Buddy. He could just look at me and see into my soul.
I know, it is so so hard....and I definitely understand what you mean when you say he could see into your soul. It's not fair at all and cancer F'ing sucks, but just remember that no matter what cancer takes away it will never ever touch Buddy's soul and it will never touch the love and bond between you two. That kind of bond transcends this universe. Grief, in all its ugliness, is the price we pay for love. I still cry too and it's ok to cry. You took great care of Buddy and he KNOWS that, we all know that. Buddy's mission here in this life was done and there is nothing you could have done to change that. He made his transition knowing he was so loved and in the end that is all any of us could ever ask for. Many hugs to you always, and I hope that you will stay around on here with us. We have a Virginia Tripawd contingent and would love to have you at our next get together...you are not alone, ok!!!
HUGS
Mom to Tripawd Angels Jake (2001-2014) and Rosco (2012-2015) and Tripawd Tanner. “Whatever happens tomorrow, we had today; and I'll always remember it”
Carol- So sorry to hear about Buddy. You are a great mom.
Take care.
Mary
Lucy's front right leg was amputated 12/19/11. Thankfully there was no tumor, but her nerves were found to be degenerative. Life as a tripawd is Lucy's new adventure!!
Carol, our hearts are heavy with this news, we are so sorry. No words can make it easier to go through the grief, it's never easy no matter how much we realize we did the right thing. It just hurts.
When you get a chance, start a new topic in "Coping with Loss" and I will be happy to post photos in honor of your sweet pup, it's a good place to share a tribute and all the good memories you shared together.
May your liffe be filled with Buddy's spirit, always guiding you and shining down on the pack. Our deepest condolences go out to you.
Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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Dear, dear Carol.......I know the void is almost suffocating and the loss of Buddy is ripping your heart out. It hurst sooooo badly. And the waves of grief will come out of the blue a d practically knock you do your knees.
Lean on us. We will help hold you up. We unerstand like no others can. The intensity of caring for a tripawd creates a bond that truly is Soul deep. Their courage and resIliency is astounding.
As Elizabeth said, Buddy completed his mission here on earth. He was sooooo ready to jump out of his earth clothw that no longer served him. He KNEW you loved him enough to give him the gift of release. Your love and devotion to Buddy k ew no limits...that was clear to all of us! He was surrounded by your love and your care 24/7!
Just as privileged as you were to hzve Buddy in your life, he was just as privileged to have you in his. Bonds like that can never be broken. His energy still surrounds you. You WILL feel his presence and all the wonderfully happy days you had together will push the grief further and further j to the background.
And your life does I deed have PURPOSE! Buddy needs you to continue to keep his legacy of hope and inspiration alive! Buddy is still making a difference in a life affirmkng way through you!! Because of YOY, Buddy got to know what love and happiness felt like! You have sooooo much lpve in your heart! I know....absolutely KNOW....part of your purpose is to continue to give other dogs a chance to know what love feels like. Buddy wants that too!
I guarantee you he's at the Bridge bragging that he was one of THE most loved and happy dogs anyone could ever imagine during his earth time!! He is recounting all the fun times he had with you a d wagging a d smiling as he tells the different stories.
Close your eyes for just a moment. See Buddy's tail wagging a d those eyes glistening with joy and mischief as you remember a happy time....a rime that made you laugh out loud...a time that was fun For both of you. Yeah...that time! Buddy loved that moment too! And he is surrounding you with thousands of happy days with delightful memories. It makes him sooo haply when you smile.
Surrounding you with Buddy's eternal grace and love...
Sally and My Eternal Light Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle
PS...Your busband must be a real jerk to walk out on such a beautiful soul! Opps! That was inappropriate (but true)!
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
thank you all for the support after the loss of Buddy. It has been 2 weeks today and he is still not home... Hopefully he will be home today. I made him a special box for his "final resting place' and I will put it right next to my bed on the side that he slept right beside me every night.. It is a little easier today than it was yesterday and I know tomorrow will be even easier.... I now have to focus on the other 7 dogs that I have and love very much....and continue to look to heaven every day and talk to Buddy like I have his brothers and sisters who have gone before him. (he was #6 since 2010) so I am now new to grief by any means.. but Buddy was different. I just can't explain it
Thanks for checking in Carol.
Two weeks...seems like forever...seems like it happened yesterda...see.s impossible tjat it happened at all. Such a sucky time.
For me, although I cried like a baby, I was sooooo relieved to have my Happy Hannah back home! I think you'll find some comfort in that too. I love that Buddy will be right next to your bed on "his" side...so xweet.
Your family of dogs are so lucky to be with you. And yes, every dog is different and we love each one deeply for their own uniqueness. Buddy's name says it all..he is yourr best buddy.
Elixabrth, Cheryl and a few others in our Virginia area are hoping to get together this Fall. Amazing bonds are formed. We've all had tripawds transition to the Bridge. We've all also been adopted by other four and three leggers. To have you join us (whenever that may be), would make it even more special. And bring all six dogs! Now that would be a pawty!
Sending you lots of love and a knowing that all is well with Buddy.
Sally and My Chunky Spiritual Being Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle too!
S...Has Buddy made his presence known to you het?
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
We all have that one Forever dog Carol, it's clear that Buddy was yours. And he always will be. Those lessons he shared with you are part of his plan to show you how you can teach the world how to Be More Dog , and cherish every moment of this life as he did. He will always be here in spirit, watching over you and the pack.
Lots of hugs coming your way, I'm so glad you let us know how you're doing.
Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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Carol, so sorry for the loss of your friend! You couldn't be a better mom, sounds like you did everything you could, including the hardest think of all, ending his suffering! Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you heal from this sad time.
paula and nitro
Nitro 11 1/2 yr old Doberman; right front amp June 2014. Had 6 doses carboplatin, followed by metronomic therapy. Rocked it on 3 legs for over 3 years! My Warrior beat cancer, but couldn't beat old age. He crossed the Bridge peacefully on July 25, 2017, with dignity and on his terms. Follow his blog entitled "Doberman's journey"
"Be good, mama loves you".....run free my beautiful Warrior
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