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Oregon
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9 November 2009 - 5:52 pm
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Tears fill my eyes as I read your post about Jake, I am so very sorry... I wish there was something I could offer to help your spirit, but there isn't anything I can say or do to help. Give ole Wolfie lots of hugs and kisses if anyone will give you the comfort you need it will be him. We look forward to hearing back from you when you feel stonger.

Shilo and Alisa

Shilo diagnosed with osteosarcoma 9/4/2009, amputation 9/9/2009. ShiloAnne lost her battle 11/23/2009 where she regained her fourth leg and is patiently waiting for her parents to join her. We will always love you baby girl.

Cordoba, Argentina
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9 November 2009 - 6:05 pm
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Dear Marguerite and Jaques,

it is so, so sad. Poor Wolfie will feel the loss too, but he will be a great support for you.

Maybe Jake can teach Hori to swim up there.... she used to be quiet terrified of water.

I'll be thinking of you and wishing you don't hurt too much.

Hugs

Cecilia & Spirit Hori

Spirit Horacia, Castaño, Olympia + human family Cecilia, Georg and Julia - - - Hori first diagnosed 8/6/09, ampu 8/12/09, run over the bridge 9/10/09 – We miss you every day dear girl!

Michigan
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9 November 2009 - 6:35 pm
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Jakesmom,

I would like to tell you how sorry I am to hear of Jake's passing.

I don't post very often, but I have seen Jake's story and followed his progress after surgery. I need to tell you that when Jake would swim, I could see him smile. What did you gave him in his last days? The chance to be happy one last time. That is, with out a doubt, the best thing you could have given him.

Please take care of yourself, and give Wolfie a big hug.

Michelle

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9 November 2009 - 6:47 pm
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Oh my, we are so very sorry to hear that Jake left us. I don't know what to say, Jake knew he was loved and thanked you for everything you did for him.

 It's cloudy here tonight or I would look up to the heavens for Jake and the rest of the gang.

Wolfie is there to help, give him some hugs and take care of yourself.

Shelby and the crew. 

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9 November 2009 - 6:54 pm
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I'm so sorry to hear you had to tell Jake good-bye today. It is probably the hardest thing we'll ever do because that decision is ours to make. (unlike people you love who die) You definitely did the right thing and I'm sure Jake is so grateful for you being selfless enough to let him go. His body was broken but his little soul will live on in health and peace and with good company…He was a very blessed dog indeed to have been so loved and well taken care of here on this planet. So many animals cannot say the same.  Be gentle to yourself and allow the feelings to come. Grief is so odd; everyone is different and there are no rules. You will come through it but you'll never get OVER it. That's because love continues. It really is stronger than death.

You're in my thoughts and prayers. May the Lord comfort you with the knowledge that Jake is safe and running those heavenly fields full throttle! He cares for all His creatures.

His Peace to you,

diane and spirit abbey

Mesa, AZ
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9 November 2009 - 7:02 pm
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Margaurite & Spirit Jake,  I saw your post and my stomach twisted into a knot.  Words cannot express the sadness we all feel in the loss of Jake.  What we can do is remember what an inspiration he has been to everyone.  We can remember his smiling face.  YOU can remember that you gave him the best life had to offer and let him go before he was in too much pain.  He is running free now at the Rainbow Bridge and will be there to meet you when you arrive.

Our deepest condolences,

Chuy & Eleanor

Chuy, showing everyone that Tripawds do everything 3 times better than regular dogs!

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9 November 2009 - 7:22 pm
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Dear Marguerite and family: Our hearts are breaking for you. But we think you are so brave and loving to make this decision for sweet Jake. I know words are not enough here. I truly wish we could be there to hug all of you. I know I've said this before---but your valiant devotion and love for Jake truly stands out. We loved all the happy swimming videos and the sweet pictures of Jake and Wolfie. We can see what a happy dog Jake was almost to the end. We know he felt your love every minute.

I have to say I'm taking this loss really hard. There was something about Jake that really captured my heart. Maybe its the sweet white face and something in his eyes that really reminded me of Romeo. I'm sure they would have been great friends. Maybe its the fact that they both had their surgery performed on the 17th one month apart. Maybe its your faithful narrative and the selfless support and love you've shown everyone in this community, Marguerite. It's hard to keep up with responses, but you always seem to find a way. I just found myself so caught up in Jake's story. I would pray for him every night. It took me three tries to respond to your Angel post. We will always remember Jake and your story.

Love to all of you. Please be good to yourself. We hope you and your husband are able to get some sleep. And a special hug for Wolfie.

Jake is running free and I agree with everyone----he's probably conducting a swimming clinic for all his new friends!

And I know he will be watching over his beloved family. Love to you, Eve, Sylvia, and Romeo 

      

Edmonton
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9 November 2009 - 7:23 pm
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Dear Jakesmom, I am terribly sorry to hear that Jake left this morning.  My heart aches for you. 

Don't be so hard on yourself, you had done all you possibly could.   Jake understands, and now he is running freely in Heaven where there is no pain, no tears.

Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Hugs.

Orange County, CA
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9 November 2009 - 7:41 pm
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I'm so sorry.

Di

Livermore CA
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9 November 2009 - 8:07 pm
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Watching Jake's happy swimming videos was a blessing to me--it's hard to accept that he's somewhere else now.  I'm so sorry for the pain and overwhelming loss you're experiencing today.  Sending you prayers for comfort and peace.

Mary

Cemil and mom Mary, Mujde and Radzi….appreciating and enjoying Today

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Madison, WI
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9 November 2009 - 8:21 pm
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I'm so sorry for your loss.

Don't let yourselves dwell on the difficult time Jake had towards the end, not only because you did your best and don't deserve to revisit that, but because Jake has moved past that now.  He's okay now.  Remember him at his best with you here on earth and think of him at his eternal best in doggy heaven with his new friends from Tripawds, who were waiting to welcome him.  Every day is a tripawd pawty there.

Being miserable that Jake is gone is different of course – that's a healthy grief and no way around it.  It's not okay, that Jake's gone, but you will be.  More thoughts and prayers are coming your way.

I feel Yoda check in on me often.  I bet you'll feel it from Jake too, or maybe he'll send you dreams or signs.  Yoda's visits usually make me sad and lonely, but underneath that, it's a reminder that we're still bonded and gives me some peace too.  So I just say hi and tell him what a good boy he is and still put on the strong pack leader front, even to Spirit Yoda.

Yoda&Mom united: 9/5/06 …….… Yoda&Leg separated: 6/5/09……… Yoda&Leg reunited: 10/14/09 ……… ……………….………….………….……. Yoda&Mom NEVER separated! …………………….….……....….…… Though Spirit Yoda currently free-lances as a rabbit hunting instructor for tripawds nationwide

Oakland, CA
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9 November 2009 - 8:50 pm
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Dear Marguerite, Jacques, and Wolfie,

I am at a loss for words. I am so, so sorry that you had to say goodbye to Jake today. But my tears tonight are triggered not only by your loss, but by the incredible outpouring of love in this forum, for Jake and for you. This community is becoming stronger by the day and, although I know our words cannot erase the pain you are feeling right now, I hope that you can feel our love and good wishes enfold you in this darkest hour.

A candle burns for Angel Jake in Oaktown tonight, to light his way to those fields where there is no pain and there is nothing for a good dog to do but swim, eat steak, revel in the feeling of your favorite person rubbing your belly, and doze in the sun, all day long.....every dog's dream.

Codie Rae and her Oaktown pack

Woohoo! Tripawds Rule!

Regulator of the Oaktown Pack, Sheriff of the Oaktown Pawsse, Founding member and President of the Tripawd Girldogs With 2 Names ROCK Club, and ... Tripawd Girldog Extraordinaire!

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Kirkland, WA
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9 November 2009 - 10:07 pm
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I am very sorry for the loss of Jake.  I really was hoping that I would read an update that Jake woke up and was running around without help and pain.  Well, he is now because you were willing to let him go.  I just logged in after I got back from work and having dinner and read your post first.  I told my dad that the dog that sent Jack the supplements died today, and he said, "oh!  Jake!"  I showed him Jake's picture, and we agree that he is a beautiful boy.  I'll miss hearing updates about Jake, but can't wait to hear updates from his humans 🙂  Best of luck to you, Jacques, and Wolfie (i LOVE his name!).  

<3 Laura

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9 November 2009 - 10:21 pm
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Its not the length of the fight- it is the quality. You made all the decisions you did to give Jake a chance, your gift to him. When your pain subsides a bit you will know all the gifts Jake left you with. And thanks to you and Jake we are reminded that we must be courageous in the fight, and to treasure each day.

Karen
Tri-pug Maggie, and Tani

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9 November 2009 - 10:32 pm
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Marguerite,

Our hearts sank when we saw your post. We are so very sorry. You and Jake have become family here, we will miss his beautiful personality so much.

Jake has been, and always will be, a hero to Tripawds everywhere. He is proof that even if one's remaining time on earth is limited, that doesn't mean that the time together can't be filled with many moments of joy, love and happiness. You both lived the Tripawd motto; live life to the fullest.

We found this poem right now, and thought it described exactly how we feel when we lose our best friends.

Losing Jake

 

There's a hole in my heart where a dog used to be.

He's nuzzled my soul and is now part of me.

His pain is his life and I know what to do.

But when I release him, I'm losing me, too.

 

The puppy I cradled three short years ago

is a ninety pound bundle of love and I know

that he'd lick away all of my tears if he could.

It's his sense of duty to make me feel good.

 

It's my obligation to do what is best.

The love of his "master" is put to the test.

It's a wrenching and sorrowful way that we part;

it doesn't hurt less when the head rules the heart.

 

There's a hole in my heart where my Jake has passed through.

When we say goodbye part of me will go too.

 

Amy Waggoner

 

Thank you for being here to share Jake's heroic life with us. Please know we are thinking of you and are here if you want to talk OK?

Much love,

Spirit Jerry, Rene, Jim, & Wyatt Ray

Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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