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This morning around 10:00 am, Jake finally went to sleep for the last time. 
It was a very difficult evening and nite... He was in alot of pain and discomfort, which tramadol did not seem to help. He started soiling himself... and whenever he tried to move, he cried and grunted in pain. My poor baby... The vet thought that the cancer must have metastasized to his spine. My husband and I didn't sleep much last nite, we took turns lying next to Jake and comforting him as much as we could. For some strange reason, Wolfie would not lie next to him as he usually did, he'd get up on the couch instead, or by the door to the room.
We had to wait until the vet was open this morning... then we drove over there. They had everything ready for us... It was peaceful, but horrible at the same time... when he was gone and they left us alone with him, we just cried and cried and were kissing and caressing Jake for a while after. He will be cremated and his remains will come back to us. We just can't bear the thought of him not being with us... 
I don't regret having Jake's leg amputated. We had 7 wonderful additional weeks with him. I just hate that this stupid cancer took him away from us so soon!! 
And I hate that he was in pain at the end. 
But I think that he knew how much we loved him...
I just wanted to thank each and everyone of you here, who have given me advice and so much comfort during this whole cancer journey. I think I will take a few days to myself, before I come back on here... but I will definitely come back!!
Angel Jake's Mom
Jake, 10yr old golden retriever (fractured his front right leg on 9/1, bone biopsy revealed osteosarcoma on 9/10, amputation on 9/17) and his family Marguerite, Jacques and Wolfie, 5yr old german shepherd and the newest addition to the family, Nala, a 7mth old Bengal mix kittie. Jake lost his battle on 11/9/2009, almost 8 weeks after his surgery. We will never forget our sweet golden angel… http://jakesjou.....ipawds.com ….. CANCER SUCKS!
I really have no great words of comfort, I am sorry doesn't even come close to enough, my heart feels like it is breaking for all of you. With tears streaming down my face all I really can say is I am so sorry for your loss. 
Jake knew how much he was loved and how special his family was, he was very lucky to have had you and of course you were blessed to have him in your life.
Tasha 8 years old, First cancer diagnosis 6/26/09, Last cancer diagnosis 9/26/09, Amputation 10/01/09, Loving our girl moment by moment.
Tasha lost her battle and became my Angel on May 4 2011. Forever in my heart….
Marguarite and Angel Jake,
I can not even begin to tell you how sorry I am. As I am typing tears are running down my face. I am so so sorry. Jake was beautiful and you were a good Mommy to him. I want to say something that will help and I know there are no words. I wish I was there in real life to give you a hug.
Debra & Emily
Debra & Emily, a five year old doberman mix, who was diagnosed with an osteosaecoma. She had a right rear leg amputation on May 19, 2009. On November 10, 2009 she earned her wings and regained her fourth leg.
Dear Jake,
You had best mom ever! Be happy as You were on the first world.
Malgosia, I can't tell You how sorry I am...
Ana
I was dreading this post from you, and while it brings tears to my eyes, I know that Jake is resting happily now in a better place – physically, I mean. He now runs pain free with Jerry and all our lost tripawd heroes. Please know that by sharing Jake's heroic albeit short story, you are certain to help others prepare for their own difficult amputation decisions.
Peace.
Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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I am so sorry for your loss of Jake. It does not seem fair that they can be taken from us so soon! We often focus on the lungs as the primary place for metastasis but it seems like more dogs are having mets to other sites such as bones, spine, and subcutaneous tissues. You always did right by Jake and I'm sure he knows how much you loved him. I do not want you to feel guilty about that last swim; I think it is great that he was able to enjoy the water one more time and I assure you that it had nothing to do with his decline.
We will all be thinking of you this week.
Pam
I am so sorry to hear about Jake. You did the best for him, and I know he knows it.
Take care of yourselves.
Kim and Tika
Kim and Spirit Tika http://www.tika.....ogspot.com
I am very very sorry.....Jake was so lucky to have a family who loved him so much.
We too mourn your loss. When I've pondered why all our fur friends have such short lives while I'm grieving a loss its strangely comforted me to realize that may be so that we have room in our hearts and lives for more of them...
Our thoughts are with you and your family
Patrick, Sully and Yukon
We are so sorry to hear about Jake. Take comfort in the fact that he is runnng free with all of the other Tripawds and that he will always be with you. There will be signs...just watch for them.
Jake was a lucky dog to have such a great and caring family and now as you grieve, do it with the knowledge that Jake knew you did everything for him that you possibly could.
Hugs and prayers....
Paula, Spirit Max and Luke
Paula and Spirit Max
Dear Marguerite & Family,
I am so, so sorry for your loss. It's so hard to let them go, I keep believing that all of our dogs are immortal, but then it's time to say goodbye. You are an amazing mom to Jake and it was your love that kept him happily with you for so long. They aren't words, I know that, but know I am (we are) here for you, sending are good thoughts to both you and Jake as he embarks on his next journey. Please let me know if you need anything. The grief can be overwhelming, I know, and that's okay, but hopefully soon you will be celebrating Jake's amazing life 
and that you were blessed in being able to share it with him.
All the best,
Stacy & Angel Lulu
I believe these dogs are given to us for a reason. Their maker knows we will give them the very best care and more love than most can imagine. You gave those things to Jake. You were a huge part of his happy life. That cancer had to take him is one of those tragedies no one will ever understand. My heart breaks for you.
RIP sweet Jake, run free at Rainbow Bridge.
Shanna & Spirit Trouble ~ Trouble gained her wings 3/16/2011, a 27 1/2 month cancer survivor, tail wagging. RIP sweetheart, you are my heart and soul. Run free at Rainbow Bridge.
The November Five - Spirits Max, Cherry, Tika, Trouble & Nova. 11/2008 - 3/2013 An era ends as Queen Nova crossed the Bridge.
I am so, so sorry! You and Jake battled so valiantly, you give us all strength. I'm sorry you didn't have more time, but I personally don't think he's running around on the other side of the bridge, I think he is teaching the other tripawds how to swim! Jake was very lucky to have you with him going through all of this, I'm sure you were a big sense of comfort to him. Now let his presence and spirit be a comfort to you during your grieving. Take care of yourselves and Wolfie. ((((((((HUGS)))))))))
This is always the news that we fear and dread so very much. Tears may block my screen, but the memory of Jake and the wonderful life that you gave him is foremost on my mind. I have a rememberance page on my web site dedicated to all who have shared such a wonderful realationship. Along with a copy of the "Rainbow Bridge", I have a copy of a "Sunday Strip" that has always helped me remember that we will never really be without them, for the gifts that they have given us will live with us forever. Jake will always be at your side with gifts that are so very personal to you.
When Jake meets my Cassy and Sandy, they will have many stories to share, but in my Sandy, Jake will have a swimming buddy as they all wait for our reunion.
With an extremly heavy heart, we want to express our deepest sympathy at your loss. We all felt the hole in our universe this morning, and we all dreaded finding out why.
Bob & Cherry
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