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Do you think it's wrong? Asking for Donations
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8 April 2013 - 9:44 am
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When I was thinking an mri and perhaps brain surgery were in Cora's future I considered taking donations for her. I simply didn't  have the money to pay for that. Fortunately, the neurologist doesn't think that's likely but she does have a whole bunch of therapy ahead of her. I guess I feel like I chose to adopt her, she's my dog and my responsibility. 

But I'm worried and stressed about money. Today she has another vet appointment to find out why she has sores all over the insides of her  back legs (mange?). I really, really need to get her and I working with an animal behaviorist. Once her behavior is a bit better, we will start with hydrotherapy. I'm also still not ruling out a wheel chair (whatever you call it). I would like to get her some additional PT, so  I can learn better how to do it myself.

And here's where I'm going to sound all whiny. I have my own medical issues and all of a sudden insurance is denying my claims everywhere. I'm going to fight, and at  least some of it they have to pay, but I don't know how much and in the mean time there's more money coming out of my pocket. And i don't know what's in store for me. A CT for sure, (once stupid, evil insurance approves it), but then I don't know. Surgery is possible.

And... I adopted Cora because her need was so great. I always feel awkward when people talk about how great i am for taking her in. That first month I spent a lot of time thinking I couldn't handle it and I'd made a mistake. I feel bad saying that, but it's true. Now, we've got it figured out and I love her dearly, but nothing about this is easy and I do know that she needs someone like me. But perhaps, I can ask for help (horrors!). 

So, what if I set up a donation page for Cora. Would I be wrong? Selfish?

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8 April 2013 - 10:43 am
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Chris, I know you've gotta feel so overwhelmed and I really admire your courage for being so honest here.  You are not being whiny. First, take a deep breath, and realize that you can only do so much with the resources you have, and what other people are willing to help out with. And when it comes down to it, it doesn't matter if we have a million dollars at our disposal or just $10, it's never enough money when it comes to wanting the best for our furkids, especially those who need a lot of extra help.

Creating a priority list and plan of action for both you and Cora will help you determine what's most badly needed now and what can wait. It will bring you peace of mind knowing that you have a plan. Also, did you see this Financial Resources List in our Downloads blog ?

How to Find Emergency Financial Help for Vet Bills

Start there and see what happens. I really hope that some organizations can help you and Cora.

I also want to mention that I don't have anything against people setting up their own financial contribution pages outside of Tripawds but I have to throw this out there (and I'm not even sure if this was your intention), so please don't be offended....because so many people here are faced with their own high vet bills and tough choices for care, Tripawds has a solicitation policy which states that no direct solicitation is allowed here in the forums or in the blogs. It's OK to mention it in Cora's blog but please refrain from direct appeals there. Thank you so much for understanding.

Stay strong, breathe, and remember that as long as you are doing something, you are giving Cora a life that she wouldn't have had otherwise. My friend Dave always says, "commit to doing something, and then commit to doing at least that much." By doing so, you are making a big difference.

{{{{hugs}}}}

Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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8 April 2013 - 12:17 pm
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My iPad won't let me open the link Jerry provided above, but this site lists several funds that you might consider looking into:

http://www.figh.....nding.html

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8 April 2013 - 1:59 pm
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Please don't be beating yourself up for needing help!!!P L E A S E!, Absolutely anyway help can come your way is how the Universe likes to give back to selfless, caring souls like you!. You know how good it feels when you help someone? Right? Well, don't deny others the opportunity to have that same warm fuzzy feeling too! UST by putting "it" out there is all you need to do

You are not "whiny". You are a sweet human being who has a lot on her and you have every right to sob like a lunatic as fa as I'm concerned!! Almost everyone here understands that!!

You hang in there.....step into that strong, resourceful energy that you and Cora share....it will empower you to go forward with solutions Jerry and dharma suggested and other solutions will unfold. Just as Cora trusts that all her needs will be met.....you can know that to be true for you.

The Universe is at work right now! Sally and Happy Hannah

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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Oh!!! I wasn't being clear. I would never ask here. I figure most everyone here is paying tons for vet care already and having their own issues. I was thinking about doing this on Cora's facebook page. Sorry I wasn't clear. I also totally understand about the solicitation policy. Tripawds already does so much for so many!

Rene, I looked at that list earlier and nothing quite fit. Hmm.... and now  the page won't open. I'm looking for funds for ongoing therapy, not cancer  or acute issues. There's one that's a possible but they have huge waiting lists and look at income. My income isn't bad, it's just getting sucked away by the cost of my house and stupid medical issues and such.

My priorities for Cora are pretty clear right now- (1) deal with immediate medical needs, (2) work on behavior issues, (3) hydrotherapy, (4) PT and go from there.

 

"Dharma" thanks fo the link. Some of that information is familiar but some seems new. And it reminds me that  I was going to try to sell my bike and possibly the kayak I was given.

 

Sally, thanks for your words of reassurance. I guess I'm just a lot easier giving help than asking for it.

 

Ok, off to walk floyd and then take Cora to the vet.

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8 April 2013 - 4:22 pm
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Chris if I could reach out and give you a hug right now through the computer screen I would. I know this is a tough spot to be in, Cora needs so much. If it helps you to vent here that's totally understandable, all of us get it. You are one smart (and strong) woman, you will get through this and get Cora the help she needs. One day at a time, you'll both get there. If you want a recommendation if/when you apply with any of the aid organizations, we are happy to write one for you.

Thanks for 1) being so understanding about the policy, and 2) thanks for letting me know that the Financial Resources blog post is all messed up! I just fixed it.

Let us know what the vet says about Cora.

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I say go for it!  Post away on her FB page and see if you can get some relief.  I like your priority list, too.  I'm glad the MRI isn't on it - as I understood from you that that might not change anything in the short term.  But, where on that list is YOUR health?  I wish you loads of luck.

~ Katy

ACL tear in right hind leg 12/5/12 and scheduled ACL repair surgery 12/21/12. Pre-op xrays revealed osteosarcoma. Amputation 12/28/12.  Chemo (carboplatin) started Jan 10, 2013 and ended on April 5, for a total of 5 doses. He handled carbo like a champ!  No side effects.  We started metronomic therapy at his third chemo and have been also doing some holistic treatments.  He's a lively, playful 10 year old huskie-boarder collie and a very proud member of the Winter Warriors!  Our love. Our funny little guy!

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I agree with everyone.  It doesn't hurt to ask for donations, you never know what you might get. 

 

The other thing to try would be asking the professionals you take her to for a discount.  Sometimes they are willing.  Or trying to see if there is a rescue in your area that can help with the cost or help you get discounts for her vets and therapies.  Or even for the therapy see if there is a place where they train therapists and might work on her at a discount. 

 

Good luck!

 

Carol

 

 


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8 April 2013 - 5:55 pm
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I agree Chris, it doesn't hurt to ask for help.  Everyone is 100% correct in what they are saying Chris.  Do not be so hard on yourself.

 

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