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Rosco has cancer .... need advice ... we are devastated
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6 July 2015 - 10:07 pm
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just read up on your story..uggg. I am so sorry for you.. upset for you and the stupid Cancer word...

Hearts, love and prayers to the doctors that can treat him and to you for your inner strength...Feeling ya..

 

Steph & Neka

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Ok. Now I am MAD. I received the report from the oncologist and they mention he has lysis of his first rib and there is irregular new bone growth on the 2nd and 3rd rib. So it's apparent that is the surgeons issue with performing surgery on him but the reason why I'm pissed off is that there is NO WAY the vet that did his amp didn't see that. WTF?? That is probably the reason he was yelping so much in the beginning. It also explains why the vet just put him on an anti inflammatory when I thought it was phantom limb pain. GRRRRRR

Sally was right when she told me that perhaps if they had found the cancer they would've put him down and I would've never had him (and I am so glad I found him) but on the flip side, when we went to the vet for the possible phantom pain what if more could've been done then? He's had those bumps there since I got him, they have just really grown in size. They were pretty big when we went to the vet the first time. I wouldn't have given him back. I was meant to have him. When I put an application in for him, he already had another one and I struggled for a week not knowing, questionning if I was making the right decision (she let us meet him even though there was another app and he was bit crazy. He went nuts over Tanner when we took them to meet, it was like Rosco had been waiting for that moment his whole life). I didn't sleep for 2 nights and I prayed to God saying that if I'm meant to have him then he'll be mine. Next thing I knew, they were calling me b/c the other person just stopped returning their emails and calls. I KNOW he was meant to be mine. I would have never given him back. 

I know I shouldn't be doing this, going back and forth in my head about things that could've been done but I just love him. He won't even let me walk into another room without his escort. If we are laying on the couch together and I sit up, he jumps up with me waiting to see where we're going. If we are walking down the hallway and I stop, he stops beside me. I hate that he's young, he's been through nothing but horrible stuff and now he has to go through this. 

Reading the report was probably not a good idea on my part. I called the holistic vet this morning. She said they spend an hour and a half with him for the consult and it even covers a round of acupuncture if they think he'll benefit from it. We'll see what happens tomorrow and then I'll make an appointment with her. In my mind I have to have options and I know that no matter what tomorrow, holistic is ALWAYS an option. 

I feel like want to go crawl under a rock. Waiting for tomorrow is horrible 

Mom to Tripawd Angels Jake (2001-2014) and Rosco (2012-2015) and Tripawd Tanner. “Whatever happens tomorrow, we had today; and I'll always remember it”  

      

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7 July 2015 - 10:08 am
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You have every right to be angry, frustrated, furious, hurt, let down, enraged. Yeah, I think ENRAGED is a good one. You jave too much on your plate right now, but at some point that vet needs to be held accountable.

Your call to action for now is doing exactly what you are doing...checking out your options and spoiling and loving your little velcro Rosco!

Now, I'm gonna use the phrase "silver lining" in all this mess, because there is one Elizabeth...and that is YOU and your LOVE for Rosco! I've said it before but this dog had your name stamped on his heart the day he was born into those adorable doggy earth clothes of his!! This is beyond "meant to be".....this is a reunion from a Divinely guiding force....a force so strong that nothing could keep you two apart. You have to trust that same Divinity now. Rosco trusts it. He sees it in you. He sees your inner light a d knows he is safe and secure with your love. And that is ALL Rosco cares about! Trust that Rosco is with you for all the "right" reasons from a Soul's perspective. And we are all Souls in our various earth clothes.

You know this, but it needs to be your mantra....ROSCO DOESN'T GIVE A RIP ABOUT A "DIAGNOSIS". ALL ROSCO CARES ABOUT IS BEING LOVED!!! And you and Eric are filling that need of his splendidly! That's why his Soul picked you! He would NEVER have this exlerience of love and joy and having Tanner as his buddy had it not been for you. Hold onto that....hold on tightly.

Okay, time to come out from under that rock now...Rosco was having trouble crawling under there with you! We are all TEAM ROSCO now and we are ready to pursue solutions and options! And we "ain't leaving no 'rock' unturned"!! And TEAM ROSCO is a powerful force!!!!

Now go scratch that boy's precious little belly and get him soft cone and let him eat it all! You devour a couple for yourself, Stay in the moment with Rosco!

Surrounding you with love, clarity and a "knowing" that all is well in Rosco's world.....because of you!

Sally and Alumni Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle znd Frankie too!

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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7 July 2015 - 11:42 am
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#teamroscoe all the way!!!! I think I shall make that my new FB / Instagram hashtag !!! Jasper and I are totally #teamroscoe and we are ALL pulling for you!

I get the anger (I really, really do... I get there too and I get stuck) but like Sally said ... right now ... all Roscoe knows is that he is safe in your embrace and he is SO loved! OMG.... of all the homes to have to go through this in, he found his way to yours and the amount of love he has known and will know as we fight this is SOOOOOO amazing!!! 

I am so sorry you guys are going through this but you are his advocate (I think Lori used that word and it's perfect) ... and we are all here for you! 

Hugs and love!!! 

Shelby Lynne; Jack Russell/Shiba Inu mix. Proud member of the April Angels of 2014.

October 15, 2000 to April 8, 2014

Our story: Broke rear leg in June 2013 - non-conclusive results for cancer so leg was plated and pinned. Enlarged spleen in September 2013 and had it removed and was diagnosed with Hemangiosarcoma and started chemotherapy. Became a Tripawd January 8th, 2014 and definitive Hemangiosarcoma diagnosis. Three major surgeries in 7 months and Shelby took them all like a champ only to lose her battle to cancer in her brain. We had 8 amazing extra months together and no regrets. #shelbystrong #loveofmylife

Virginia
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7 July 2015 - 3:35 pm
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Elizabeth, you have every right to feel they way you do. I'm sure you want to spit nails with that other vet.

Meanwhile, ditto everything Sally and Allison said. Thank God that Rosco has you as his advocate, ally, guardian and champion. There is no one else better to care for him, fight for him and love him.

We'll continue to pray for answers, the miracles of modern medicine and holistic healing, and the power to get through this. You and Eric are doing everything you can for him. Add us to the many fans of #TeamRosco! We love you guys! 

Deb and Angel Lexie* Diagnosed at age 13. Tried radiation first; wish we had amputated upon diagnosis (even with lung mets). Joined Club Tripawd April 2014 & Lexie loved life on 3 legs! Advice: Start physical therapy as soon as your vet clears it, especially hydrotherapy if available :-) See Lexie pics here.  





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7 July 2015 - 3:49 pm
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I do not blame you for being so mad.  I would be too.  I don't know what to add that others haven't said #teamrosco.  I know you make a great advocate for him and will do your best for him.  He knew you would when he came to you that very first day.  Prayers for you all.

 

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Michelle & Angel Sassy

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7 July 2015 - 4:19 pm
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Team Roscoe!! I agree with what has been saidabove,everyone has put things so well. The picture on your Facebook page says it all, he is snuggled in there feeling so safe. He has found his safe place to land. Thoughts and prayers for you all tomorrow. Lori, Ty & Gang

TY GUY, Best Black Lab ever! Diagnosed  and had amp in January, 2014. Kicked MRSA's butt. Earned his angel wings on April 16, 2014. Run Free my boy and don't forget a shoe. Ty is a proud member of the " April Angels". Ty sent us Daryl, a Tripawd rescue in Sept. of 2016. Daryl is 5 +or -. We are also Pawrents to Chandler, a Border Collie mix who is 15 and 1/2, Lucy, a Corgi who is 7, 2 minis, 2 horses, and a feisty cat named Zoe. Zoe had a non skeletal Osteosarcoma removed in July 2015. No Chemo, she was at least 16. She is going strong although she is now completely blind. She is now close to 20 and her hobbies are eating and sleeping in front of her personal heater. 

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7 July 2015 - 4:20 pm
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Ooops... spelled his name wrong here ... and I hate when that happens to me! And I can't edit my post!!! 

So here we go.... #teamrosco !!! hugs and love and strength! 

Shelby Lynne; Jack Russell/Shiba Inu mix. Proud member of the April Angels of 2014.

October 15, 2000 to April 8, 2014

Our story: Broke rear leg in June 2013 - non-conclusive results for cancer so leg was plated and pinned. Enlarged spleen in September 2013 and had it removed and was diagnosed with Hemangiosarcoma and started chemotherapy. Became a Tripawd January 8th, 2014 and definitive Hemangiosarcoma diagnosis. Three major surgeries in 7 months and Shelby took them all like a champ only to lose her battle to cancer in her brain. We had 8 amazing extra months together and no regrets. #shelbystrong #loveofmylife

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7 July 2015 - 6:48 pm
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YOU GUYS ARE AMAZING #teamrosco !!! This absolutely has melted my heart, I love you all! We can't get to the vet quick enough tomorrow. The car is full of gas, bags (and doggie stroller ) are ready to go, we have cash for tolls (thanks for reminding me Deb!) and I just want to go camp out in their parking lot tonight. He's off prednisone today so he's been getting winded quite a bit BUT we did get some good news. The oncologist called and said that his blood work looks great and he's good to go for sedation tomorrow for the CT scan (HOORAY!!). She also said the preliminary lab results for the tumor were inconclusive, but they'll run further tests for Dr. Gordon if he wants it (at no cost). I also asked about the weird rib stuff going on and she said that she wasn't quite sure but her gut feeling on it is that the pressure from the tumor is what's causing it. No good news is too small, even if it's just a gut feeling! 

LOVE AND HUGS TO YOU ALL,

#TEAMROSCO

Mom to Tripawd Angels Jake (2001-2014) and Rosco (2012-2015) and Tripawd Tanner. “Whatever happens tomorrow, we had today; and I'll always remember it”  

      

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7 July 2015 - 9:46 pm
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Good news in this crazy journey is BIG...it's all HUGE!!

Guess Rosco and Tanner are the only ones in your household getting a good night's sleep tonight. Their routine is still the same...nothing is bothering them! Ahhh...the bloss of being dog!

Oh Alison...calling Alison! Would you be kind enough to put that FB picture of Rosco you referenced in your post on here? You know I can't stand missing a cute picture! Thank you!

TEAM ROSCO will be vy your side tomorrow. You won't be able to see us, but you sure will feel our love and support and positive energy! And if you do see us....shhh....don't tell anybody, okay? Perhaps it would be a good time to "Just say NO to drugs!" winker

Love from all of TEAM ROSCO and Guardian Jake and all the BRIDGE TEAM ROSCO MEMBERS

Sally and Alumni Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle too!

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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7 July 2015 - 10:48 pm
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We'll definitely be thinking of you! Good luck tomorrow!

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8 July 2015 - 9:52 am
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I don't know if Elizabeth has had a chance to post here yet but I just saw on FB that Rosco, sadly, crossed the rainbow bridge this morning. My heart sunk and I burst into tears ... Elizabeth... if you read this - the entire Tripawd community is embracing you a big hug!!! You were the best thing to ever happen to Rosco and he will live on in our hearts forever.

Much love! 

Shelby Lynne; Jack Russell/Shiba Inu mix. Proud member of the April Angels of 2014.

October 15, 2000 to April 8, 2014

Our story: Broke rear leg in June 2013 - non-conclusive results for cancer so leg was plated and pinned. Enlarged spleen in September 2013 and had it removed and was diagnosed with Hemangiosarcoma and started chemotherapy. Became a Tripawd January 8th, 2014 and definitive Hemangiosarcoma diagnosis. Three major surgeries in 7 months and Shelby took them all like a champ only to lose her battle to cancer in her brain. We had 8 amazing extra months together and no regrets. #shelbystrong #loveofmylife

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8 July 2015 - 9:57 am
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NOOOOOOOOOOO!. NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! Alison...was he at the vets.......this just cannot be effing happening!

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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8 July 2015 - 10:01 am
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Sally - this is what Rosco and Tanner's FB page said this a.m. - (I hope Elizabeth doesn't mind my posting it on her behalf but I know a lot of this community isn't on FB as much as I am and are holding their pack in our hearts):

It is with a very sad heart and thru heavy tears that I must let you all know that Rosco crossed over to the rainbow bridge this morning. We left early this morning and were able to get him to the oncologist in northern va around 730 but in the parking lot he went into respiratory distress and he couldn't recover. They intubated him and did the CT scan which showed that the tumor had invaded his entire chest cavity, crushing his trachea, heart and lungs. I would have done anything, but there was nothing anyone could do. I wanted to bring him home but he would not have made the car ride. I feel very lucky I was able to hold him the whole way to nova this morning and tell him what a good dog he was and that we loved him to pieces. I never thought that would be the last time. Rosco was an amazing dog and his life was way too short. I wanted him to have so much more time, it's just not fair. I don't know how yet, but I will make sure his legacy lives on. I thank each of you for your prayers. I believe that God was calling him home and heard each one of them and I thank God for not allowing him to suffer. We will love you forever Rosco.

 

I am just so angry and sad for them ... But I know that Rosco knew MORE love in his short time with them than most dogs get to know in an entire life ... he was so lucky to have them as his family ... and he will live on forever... 

Shelby Lynne; Jack Russell/Shiba Inu mix. Proud member of the April Angels of 2014.

October 15, 2000 to April 8, 2014

Our story: Broke rear leg in June 2013 - non-conclusive results for cancer so leg was plated and pinned. Enlarged spleen in September 2013 and had it removed and was diagnosed with Hemangiosarcoma and started chemotherapy. Became a Tripawd January 8th, 2014 and definitive Hemangiosarcoma diagnosis. Three major surgeries in 7 months and Shelby took them all like a champ only to lose her battle to cancer in her brain. We had 8 amazing extra months together and no regrets. #shelbystrong #loveofmylife

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NO!!!!!!!

This just breaks my heart!

Harmony became a Tripawd on 10/21/14 (MCT). She left us way too soon on 11/1/14.

"We miss you so much; our love, our heart, our Harmony."

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