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21 August 2014 - 2:28 pm
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Wow, I can't believe it, my heart just breaks for you, what a terrible shock. I'm so very, very sorry.

Please know that you did everything in your heart that was all with the best intentions for her, no dog could have asked for a more devoted, loving mom. For whatever reason it was her time to be an angel, to be young and free and not in pain. Try to let those memories of your life together stay close to your heart and help you through this very difficult time. And never, ever forget that she is always a part of your life, even now as an angel watching over you.

If you want to share more about your life together, we would love to hear stories about Cookie and all the good times you had.

Lots of hugs coming your way.

Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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21 August 2014 - 7:06 pm
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I'm so sorry you've lost your beautiful girl.  You did everything you could for her.  I'm so sorry.  Keeping you in my thoughts.

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21 August 2014 - 8:06 pm
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Cookie's Mom,

I am so sorry for the unexpected passing of Cookie. That must have been a terrible shock for you. I bet your father is devastated. When you are up to it we would like to know more about Cookie and her wonderful life with you and your family.

Take Care Penny

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21 August 2014 - 8:29 pm
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Just saw this thread and wanted to add my condolences for your loss. What a terrible shock. Cookie is running strong and free now. She has no regrets and no pain. Her love for you and yours for her will always be in your heart, don't forget that. And we are here anytime you want to talk or share more of Cookies story. 

 

xoxox,

Codie Rae and the Oaktown Pack

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21 August 2014 - 11:30 pm
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Cookie’s Mom, I’m just stunned... I’m so very sorry for your sudden loss. There are no good words at a time like this.

It sounds like you gave her a wonderful resting place under her favorite tree, and hopefully it’s comforting to know that your guardian Angel remains close by.

So, how are you holding up? How  about your son, and Cookie’s little brother? It sounds like they were very bonded from your story about coming back from the vet and your other dog smelling Cookie’s scent on you.

Please know that you can come here and cry, vent and share any time. If you’ve visited the Coping with Loss thread you’ve seen some of the wonderful tributes others have done for their beloved family members..

If you want to honor Cookie by sharing some memories with us, we’d love to hear more about her and her story and your life together. And we always love photos and videos (there’s a thread I’ll try to link to that explains how to load them—you have to pull them from Facebook, Photobucket, Flickr or another source, and you have to be on a PC or Mac and not a tablet to load them).

You and Cookie will continue to be in our thoughts, and just know that you’re getting hugs and prayers from all over the U.S. -- and beyond.

With hugs and sympathy,

Deb and Lexie

Deb and Angel Lexie* Diagnosed at age 13. Tried radiation first; wish we had amputated upon diagnosis (even with lung mets). Joined Club Tripawd April 2014 & Lexie loved life on 3 legs! Advice: Start physical therapy as soon as your vet clears it, especially hydrotherapy if available :-) See Lexie pics here.  

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22 August 2014 - 6:14 am
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Cookies Mom,
I'm so so sorry to hear of the unexpected passing of Cookie. There is nothing more difficult than a rapid unexpected turn for our babies. I hope you find peace in that you did everything you could.

Esther and her Angel Snoop

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22 August 2014 - 12:20 pm
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I was just catching up on Cookie's forum....I was shocked when you said she had passed away.  I'm so very sorry that you and your family are going through this.  The suddenness of Cookie's passing just adds to the heartache. 

I'm still grieving the loss of my Leland (6/30/14).  You will have days with a lot of tears and then others when the tears are less.  It's fine to grieve the loss of your beloved Cookie for as long as it takes.  This community is here for you and your family to lend support or listen when you feel like screaming..."why did this happen".  Take comfort in knowing that Cookie is at the Bridge playing with other pups and kitties just waiting for you when your time comes, to run and greet you and join you again.

Sending you and your family a hug during this time.

Sahana and her Angel Leland

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Leland

November 17, 2009 - June 30, 2014

May you finally be healthy and running free at the Rainbow Bridge. Until we meet again my sweet boy!

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22 August 2014 - 8:54 pm
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Sorry that I have been quiet the last couple of days, it's just been really hard in my son and me.

I called the vet Wedneday around 10:50, students lunch, he told me that Cookie had passed away around 9 am. Cookie had ate more Tuesday night after we left and drank plenty of water. Wednesday morning, Cookie had eaten some. She even had gone potty #2! The vet said he was really thinking she was coming around. He was doing a surgery, someone called him back, she was standing up, gasping, laid dome and she was gone. The vet said he was shocked, said she probably had a heart attack or an embolism.

I texted my dad, he went over to pick her up. My dad, his friend, and a city worker dug a place in my front yard, beneath her favorite tree. My son and I said our last goodbyes and petting to Cookie. Papa then had his turn. I lowered her into the ground. My dad wanted to help, but I wanted to do it myself. I started talking to Cookie about how great of a dog she was, how she couldn't and wouldn't ever be replaced, how much we love her, how much we will miss her, and all of the little things that made her perfect for us. My son talked as well. We said a prayer thanking God for blessing us with such a wonderful puppy, please watch over her, protect her, keep her safe, and to make sure she knew how much we love her. Also, that I was sorry about everything and I wish things were different. By the time we were finished, we had my dad's friend crying.

Teddy hasn't really figured it out yet, he knows I'm upset and so is Jacob. He's been crawling up in my lap when I'm crying and I just hold him and cry even more. Just to let everyone know, I know how some of you said you feel guilty by saying everything is fine. I ask that you please don't feel guilty. The vet was always honest and said it was possible. We just knew Cookie would go against the odds. I have no doubt about it, Cookie did try. I know she loved us and wanted to be home with us. Perhaps had the vet started trying to force feed her a day earlier, she might not have had so much stress on her body. Or had we asked/demanded he try to force feed her earlier, it could have been prevented. I'm not going to live my life on what ifs. On our way to school Thursday, my son and I were talking about how we were upset etc and how it would affect our day. I told him Cookie wouldn't want us to have a bad day because of her. She was such a happy dog, always greeting us when we got home. Prancing on the floor, her back side wagging along with her tail. Jacob agreed, and said Cookie would want us to have a great day. You all were such great help and support when we first started this journey. I'm just sorry mine was so short, but I was blessed with Cookie for many many years. Thank you all for helping me, lettinge express my thoughts, questions and worries. I do truly appreciate it, so much. It has taken me several hours to compose this post. Thinking about what all happened, I've cried, stop, cry some more.

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22 August 2014 - 9:47 pm
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Hi Cookiesmom,
Thank you for sharing this post regarding sweet Cookie, I know it took a lot of courage to compose and write this.......I actually shed a few of my own tears while reading this beautiful post. Your outlook on all that has happened is very positive, and that is a very hard thing to do when your heart is aching so terribly. But I am happy you can see a lot of positive things with Cookie's life, because I am sure there were countless happy days along the way.

It will get easier to breathe in the coming days, and ease your immense heartache, but take as much time as needed to come to terms with losing your beloved Cookie. I am hoping that all the wonderful times you shared with her, will remain in your heart always, and that the happy memories will erase the hurt.

Keeping you and your family in my thoughts,
Bonnie & Angel Polly

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22 August 2014 - 11:06 pm
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Hi Cookiesmom,

Never feel like you need to apologize for not being here ... grief is such a painful thing and we all grieve differently. Thank you for sharing your story and where you are today. I know how terribly sad this for you and my heart aches for you. 

It sounds like Cookie had the most amazing life with you all. Such a lucky dog! She knew how very loved she was - always. And she is guarding you and your family now. 

It will be very painful and raw for quite some time but the memories do help heal the heart ... and hopefully there will be more smiles than tears.

So much love to you,

Alison with the Spirit of Shelby fur-ever in her heart 

Shelby Lynne; Jack Russell/Shiba Inu mix. Proud member of the April Angels of 2014.

October 15, 2000 to April 8, 2014

Our story: Broke rear leg in June 2013 - non-conclusive results for cancer so leg was plated and pinned. Enlarged spleen in September 2013 and had it removed and was diagnosed with Hemangiosarcoma and started chemotherapy. Became a Tripawd January 8th, 2014 and definitive Hemangiosarcoma diagnosis. Three major surgeries in 7 months and Shelby took them all like a champ only to lose her battle to cancer in her brain. We had 8 amazing extra months together and no regrets. #shelbystrong #loveofmylife

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22 August 2014 - 11:49 pm
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You areticulate words from your heart beautifully. Even thoug this is such an unbearably painful time, you have balanced this sad part of Cookies's journey with great wisdom.

For you and your amazing son to have the courage to try and smile and "have a good day"....what an incredible way to honore Cookie ! She knows your be sad, but it makes her so happy to know that you are making an effort...a huge effort...to sm i les through your tears and ebrace all the things she did everyday to make you smile. And another way you can honor Cookie.....a way that would make her tail wag along with her whole back side.....and that's not to spend one second on the what ifs. Many dogs eat very little after this surgery. The fact that Cookie was starting to improve, was starting to eat a little better, and thoroughly enjoyed your visits...to me, it appears that her passing was NOT related to the surgery...the heart attack...or embolism...most likely would have haplened regardless. And it's s till impossible to know what other injuries she may have endured that were just not visible.

You and your family gave her a glorious send off and spoke so eloquently to her, and about her. I have NO doubt she heard every word.! The soul always hears!

You, your son, your Dad, Teddy...a veey, very special family and 80I know Cookie felt privileged to be part of it...to be the Queen!

Perhaps for just a second, you, your son and your dad, could close your eyes for a brief moment. Visualize something that Cookie did that made you laugh out loudd. Then share that memorty with eachbother. I KNOW that would make Cookie so happy!!!
We are all family here and you are part of o ur family now! We all fell in love with Cookie from your first post! She lived a grand life for an amazing fifteen years! She lived a life of meaning and we wil k never forget Cookie!!!

Sending you love and surrounding y ou with Cookie's eternal grace!!!

Sally and Alumni Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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23 August 2014 - 5:50 am
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No, don't feel guilty for not being here. We all understand perfectly. I have even had times where I would read everyone's stuff, but just could not write anything. Coming her now is therapeutic for me. I have made so many great friends here. These caring souls, who I have not met in person, understand all of this better than most people I see every day. This grief thing takes time and I found that most just thought I should " be over it" not the case here. We understand, we get it! It sounds as though your Dad gets it. I like how you are remembering the good things. I can just picture Cookie meeting you at the door with that tail and backside waving. Hugs from, Lori and Ty

TY GUY, Best Black Lab ever! Diagnosed  and had amp in January, 2014. Kicked MRSA's butt. Earned his angel wings on April 16, 2014. Run Free my boy and don't forget a shoe. Ty is a proud member of the " April Angels". Ty sent us Daryl, a Tripawd rescue in Sept. of 2016. Daryl is 5 +or -. We are also Pawrents to Chandler, a Border Collie mix who is 15 and 1/2, Lucy, a Corgi who is 7, 2 minis, 2 horses, and a feisty cat named Zoe. Zoe had a non skeletal Osteosarcoma removed in July 2015. No Chemo, she was at least 16. She is going strong although she is now completely blind. She is now close to 20 and her hobbies are eating and sleeping in front of her personal heater. 

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23 August 2014 - 2:28 pm
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I feel exactly what everyone else said, please don't feel guilty about not being here, we totally understand. The shock had to have kept you reeling, I can't imagine.

Cookie taught you so well about how to embrace life and all its gifts, like the beautiful relationships we have with our animals. They are never here long enough but what powerful lessons we can learn from them, and clearly you did. Your open heart and ability to put everything in perspective is absolute wisdom, I am so in awe of your strength.

You are always welcome here, and if you want to share stories and photos about your life with Cookie, please do, we would love to hear more.

{{{{hugs}}}}

Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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23 August 2014 - 4:16 pm
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My son and I have experienced a lot of loss in our lives. My husband has as well, however as is usually the case in our life, he's not home. He has been working in Kansas since last Friday. So, my son and I have been leaning on each other. I wouldn't say I'm strong, only that is what appears to be when I'm with my son, Jacob. When I read your messages, I cry and bawl. You all are helping me put that strong front up for him. Jacob is 14 and has such a soft heart, he loves animals and would bring them all he if I would let him. Cookie always treated him like he was her pup. They would be lying down in the floor, she would start licking and grooming his hair. Lol. I don't think she would have passed away had it not been for the accident. The initial accident put her under stress, then thr surgery put her under more stress, then not eating weakened her even more adding more stress. It was a cumulative effect, I do not blame the vet or anyone at his office. I know he tried his best, and with that I have no doubt. I know one of the vet techs got attached to Cookie while she was there. He started calling her Cookie Monster....which was one of her nicknames we called her, and we didn't tell him that. One of the other names she was called was Cooks. Lol. When I would talk to her, she would always be looking at me in the eye. She always knew if I was sad or down. When we would sit in the recliner and I would pet her, she'd always start licking my hand. It was never slobbery, always so soft and gentle. I'm ready for the pain to go away, but I know it won't any time soon.

I lost an aunt when I was 12, my closest grandpa when I was 14, my mom when I was 19, my other grandparents in my late 20's and my closest grandma a few years ago. Jacob lost his paternal grandpa before he was born, two nanas at an early age due to divorce, favorite uncle, who was more like a grandpa, when he was 6, his aunt about a year later (she became distant after she lost her husband), his granny when he was 11, another aunt this past January. With so much loss around us, it has the potential to keep us down. Jacob already thinks we have bad luck, I don't want him to think it has to keep him down. Yesterday, Jacob and I were discussing Cookie. He told me, that it was the hardest loss he's had since his Uncle. That broke my heart. I hate that he's hurting, but glad he's talking to me about it and we are sharing memories of happy times with Cookie. He went outside a little while ago to the front yard, came back in and asked if he could water Cookie so grass could grow. I told him sure. A few minutes later I hear him dribbling his basketball, about 30 minutes after that he came in. I asked him how he was doing, he said good and that he was just out there talking to Cookie.

My dad made a little white cross for her, has her name on it. I dread coming home, because I know she won't be there. Even more so if it's just me, with Jacob I have distraction. When alone, I don't.

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23 August 2014 - 5:11 pm
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You and Jacob are stronger than you know.....being able to come here and share your life with us, and your subsequent pain of loss, is very cathartic and a huge step into the healing process for you both. Sharing your sweet stories about Cookie, and your lives in general, will hopefully continue toward easing the pain within your heart.
We all will love to have you come here and share your life stories about Cookie, you will always be a part of this wonderful support community. It is also good for Jacob to talk about his hurt, that will also help him to heal his broken heart. I think it is so sweet that he is talking to Cookie.

We all know very much what you are feeling with the loss of a beloved pet, your circumstances are a bit more sudden and sad, however.....but with that said, just know you have all our support here to get you through this very difficult time, just lean on us whenever you need to unload, or vent, or scream, or cry, or just share sweet stories.

Sending you healing {{{hugs}}}, and continuing thoughts,
Bonnie & Angel Polly

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