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I need help, I am so lost, devastated, confused...Bone cancer
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3 December 2013 - 7:10 pm
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Hey - I'm sorry you're here.  But, we're here!  In a way you never thought possible.  We've been there.  We know.  It's such a stinker!!!!

I can relate to you, as many of us can, wishing we KNEW.  Wishing we KNEW if what we spent, what we gave our pals worked, was working, or is working.  We don't know.

Get some more info.  Perhaps look elsewhere for another surgeon?  Not that you're unhappy with yours, but there may be another GREAT practice that'll charge less?  Please note, I am NOT advocating you give Otis to the cheapest bidder....that might not be wise.  But getting opinions from multiple sources may help.

Amp'ing Jackson was easy.  He had and has so much life in him that we wanted to give him that chance to continue bugging us!  Amp'ing took the pain away.  It's gone.  Yes, there are many other concerns, but at least we know that awful pain in gone.  One day, there will be another, but for now he's living life as fully as he was before.

Talk it over with Otis.  It's a lot of money that he'll never understand, but maybe he'd like the chance at being painfree?  After that...who knows!  He MAY beat all those stats!!!!

Good luck.  It's tough.  It's hard.  Breathe.  You can do this.  Think on it and go with your heart.  No regrets!

~ Katy & Jackson

ACL tear in right hind leg 12/5/12 and scheduled ACL repair surgery 12/21/12. Pre-op xrays revealed osteosarcoma. Amputation 12/28/12.  Chemo (carboplatin) started Jan 10, 2013 and ended on April 5, for a total of 5 doses. He handled carbo like a champ!  No side effects.  We started metronomic therapy at his third chemo and have been also doing some holistic treatments.  He's a lively, playful 10 year old huskie-boarder collie and a very proud member of the Winter Warriors!  Our love. Our funny little guy!

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3 December 2013 - 7:29 pm
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Sorry your here, but you've come to a good place, we understand. You have already gotten great info, sharing of experiences and support from many members. It helped us just process the news, which is overwhelming for sure. For our Snoop we amputated, did chemo and are on metronomics . He's doing very well so far. It's one day at a time for sure. Every dog is unique, it would be easier if we all had a crystal ball, but life doesn't work that way, for them or us.
We have no regrets, Snoops doing well and he's with us. What time brings I don't know but I know we've done what we felt was the best for him,as you will with Otis.
Jump on chat there are great people who will listen and understand. No judgement, just those knowing what you are going through.

Good luck on whatever you decide. Were here.

Esther and her Snoop

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4 January 2014 - 9:49 pm
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Thank you everyone for all the support and help. I apologize for taking so long getting back, have had some issues with the site. I wish it hadn't been a problem because I would have really liked to know all of this a month ago. I read a lot and decided not to amputate. I mean, I planned to amputate, but when I took him in to be amputated and the vet had him she said she didn't think it was a good idea. I really wish I had. I had all the money then and was prepared to do so. She said he seemed okay with his leg it was most likely just arthritis. Very hurt about that and now I lack the money to do so. Probably because the diagnosis cost almost as much as the amputation.

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4 January 2014 - 10:09 pm
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Hi Otis and Mom,

I'm really sorry you had trouble with the site...especialy when you needed us most.

I'm not quite sure where yoj are in yor journey. Why did the vet say amputatin wasn't a good idea?

Are you at a point now that Otis needs to surgery to alleviate pain?

Hopefully the site will work for you now and maybe we can figure out how we can support you and Otis.

P.ease post back as soon as you can with more specifics.

Big hugs to you andOtis! I could look at that handsome mug all day!

Sally and Hapoy Hannah

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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4 January 2014 - 11:03 pm
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I'm not quite sure where I am either...He had some leg pain, limping, on a leg that he had pins and plates in (2 yrs ago he had that done). The vet said it was either arthritis or cancer. I told her to remove the leg either way, I felt that was best. The morning of his surgery the vet called and said his leg seemed really good, she said it was most likely just arthritis so she didn't want to remove the leg. She said since she had him and she would test for cancer. November she called and said it was cancer. She said amputation was ONLY pain management , it wouldn't slow it down, wouldn't stop it, and wouldn't give him anymore time. She asked if I wanted to amputate and I said no because the diagnosis cost me what I had (also with Christmas coming) and it was only for pain. I don't think he is in much pain, we have a high porch and he chooses to jump off of it rather than take the steps. The vet says she has faith that I will know when it is time to put him down. I don't have as much faith in that as she does. With the snoring/hacking thing, I feel soon very soon. Then he is still going out of his way to play. That is where I am and sadly that is all I know

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5 January 2014 - 3:15 pm
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luvme3d said
...have had some issues with the site.

What kind of issues? Please feel free to send me a PM. I'd be happy to help, or schedule a time to meet in the chat room and answer any questions.

You may also find these resources helpful:

How to Find Emergency Financial Help for Vet Bills

Financial Help Resources for Pawrents

Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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Virginia







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5 January 2014 - 4:17 pm
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Gosh, I'm sure you are indeed confused! What a roller coaster ride you've been on!

Soooooo, it SOUNDS like Otis has bone cancer

The fact that is very active and feels well enough to play is good.

Have you had the vet do a "three panel" xray to clarifymif he has any lung issues? This will help you determine how to proceed. It COULD be all his "hacking" is completely u related...maybe allergies...bronchial infection, etc. I know money is a factor. Maybe the vet would work with you on a payment plan.

Clearly, amputation can extend Otis's life with pain free quality. The concerns with osteosarcoma would be that he could fracture his leg and then yo would have other challenges. Clearlynheis enjoying life right now and the coughing isn't slowing him down.

Is he on pain meds for his leg? That would help also ensure he is not uncomfortable. And Otis, you've got to start using stairs!! Jumping is just to risky!!

And, I don't mean to over step by bounds.....but yoj REALLY need a second opinion!! It SHOULD have been 99.99999999% certain before the operation you scheduled that Otis had osteosarcoma and you would have proceeded withmthe operation as planned and Otis would be fully recovered now from the surgery and enjoying life pain free.

So, p.ease get a second opinion amd some insight into treatment options, pain meds, etc.

We are here for you, okay? so PLEASE use us, and this site, as a resource and support!

Will look forward to your next post. Give Otis...a d you...a big hug for us!!

Sally and Happy Hannah

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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5 January 2014 - 4:26 pm
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I agree with Sally, get a second opinion. If you choose palliative pain management instead of amputation, that's fine, amputation isn't for everyone, but he needs some exceptionally strong pain meds which means working with a vet who understands how to manage the pain of osteosarcoma if you are going to be fair to Otis and not allow him to suffer in pain.

Dogs do all they can to hide their pain. Chances are he is in pain but just not showing it. And if he's jumping off like that, please know that there is a very big risk that he can fracture that bad leg and you will need to either amputate or say goodbye on-the-spot, there's no way around it. A fracture like that is a terrible experience, be careful so you both don't have to go through it.

And yes, give Otis a big hug from us.

Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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6 January 2014 - 12:37 pm
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Hi, I'm too feel so sorry for your situation and can just agree with all people here. Just wanted to say we're thinking of you and wish you will find your way to do the best for your dog. It's hard to know what to do. I too think you have to get second opinions and talk to a lot of people who have experience of osteosarkoma, amputating and so on. Sending lots of hugs!

 

Gunilla, Wilbur, Bellis and angel Penny

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