TRIPAWDS: Home to 23172 Members and 2162 Blogs.
HOME » NEWS » BLOGS » FORUMS » CHAT » YOUR PRIVACY » RANDOM BLOG

Caring for a Three Legged Dog or Cat

Tripawds is your home to learn how to care for a three legged dog or cat, with answers about dog leg amputation, and cat amputation recovery from many years of member experiences.

JUMP TO FORUMS

Join The Tripawds Community

Learn how to help three legged dogs and cats in the forums below. Browse and search as a guest or register for free and get full member benefits:

Instant post approval.

Private messages to members.

Subscribe to favorite topics.

Live Chat and much more!

Please consider registering
Guest
Search
Forum Scope


Match



Forum Options



Minimum search word length is 3 characters - maximum search word length is 84 characters
Register Lost password?
sp_Feed sp_PrintTopic sp_TopicIcon-c
Rio is done fighting
sp_NewTopic Add Topic
Massachusetts
Member Since:
23 September 2011
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
46
21 January 2012 - 8:08 am
sp_Permalink sp_Print sp_QuotePost

Micki,

Once again I am crying as I read about another wonderful Tripawd saying goodbye.  Her story was one that helped us through our journey.  She will be missed by all of us.  I know how hard it is to say goodbye but you gave her a fantastic final day and she is now pain free, the ultimate gift.

 It helps me to invision all of the Tripawds meeting and greeting at the Bridge and then having a welcome feast.  Afterwards everyone runs and plays and, eventually, settles into their favorite couch for a little nap.  They each have their own Barney to terrorize.  There are Barney parts everywhere!!  These warriors fought so hard it is now time for them to have pain free peace.

You are in my thoughts and prayers,

Tara and Spirit Fergus

Wirral, England, UK
Member Since:
6 April 2011
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
47
21 January 2012 - 2:29 pm
sp_Permalink sp_Print sp_QuotePost

So sorry to read about Rio, I am all to close to the same position with Winston. Am dreading it with all my heart. Am thinking of you x

Winston started limping in Feb 11, diagnosed with osteosarcoma in his right front paw in March 11, amputation April 11. Six rounds of carboplatin. Diagnosed with HO and lung mets September 11.We sadly said goodbye on 24 May 12, sleep tight Winston dog xx


Member Since:
22 August 2008
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
48
21 January 2012 - 4:45 pm
sp_Permalink sp_Print sp_QuotePost

I am so sorry!  I am very glad that I got to meet Rio at the meet-and -greet last summer;  I loved her spirit and attitude.

Pam

Hemet Ca.
Member Since:
25 April 2011
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
49
21 January 2012 - 4:48 pm
sp_Permalink sp_Print sp_QuotePost

So so sorry for your loss......

Member Since:
5 April 2009
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
50
21 January 2012 - 6:16 pm
sp_Permalink sp_Print sp_QuotePost

"My Rio had a wonderful life, and lived for years beyond what anyone thought she would — me included. She was so loved. She was happy. I was so lucky to have her for as long as I did. She was a wonder. And I was so happy to share her with all of you. I'm glad she meant so much to all of you, too. That makes my heart happy."

What a wonderful way to remember an amazing girl.

We wish you peace, healing and only wonderful memories.

the chauffeur

Washington
Member Since:
1 February 2011
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
51
21 January 2012 - 7:31 pm
sp_Permalink sp_Print sp_QuotePost

I just went outside for a brief moment (Zeffy piddle time) and I looked to see a quick blaze of light -- a shooting star. I'm not a spiritual or superstitious person by any means, but I feel like it was definitely a sign from my Rio.... Thanks, sweet Woo... <3 <3 <3

the Woo

~ ~ Rio ~ ~
Forever in my heart...

April 2000 – January 20, 2012
Diagnosed with Mast Cell Cancer in June 2007. Left rear leg amputated Feb. 8, 2011.
Mets discovered Aug. 31, 2011. Read more of Rio's story here.

krun15
52
21 January 2012 - 8:21 pm
sp_Permalink sp_Print sp_QuotePost

They never leave us- they just change how we see them. 

 

K.

Greater Western Washington area
Member Since:
25 August 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
53
22 January 2012 - 7:59 am
sp_Permalink sp_Print sp_QuotePost

I have been dealing with the power outtage and haven't been able to log on until today.  I am so sorry I couldn't be with you sooner, you have been so wonderful here and I want to be there for you like you have been for us.

I can't begin to tell you how much Rio (our little Woo) has inspired us.  She was an amazing fighter, for such a long time.  She was also such a sweet girl, and with her cushings disease on top of it all, she fought on to stay by your side.  We love and admire her, and you for all that you have done with her and for her.

 

Goodbye sweet Woo, may your reunion with our other brave fighters be full of joy and each moment be happy until you see your mom again.  May heaven bless you with all good things, you are most deserving. 

 

Elizabeth

Diagnosed with osteosarcoma in the right front leg 8/23/10,

leg fractured 8/27/10,

leg amputated 8/30/10

http://sammyand.....pawds.com/

 

I couldn't begin to say how special Sammy is to us.  Living and laughing with and loving this wonderful boy is priceless.

Las Vegas, Nevada
Member Since:
14 August 2009
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
54
22 January 2012 - 11:40 am
sp_Permalink sp_Print sp_QuotePost

A shooting star is her message to you for sure.  She is free of pain and is happy.

Her Retired AvatarComet - 1999 to 2011

She departed us unexpectedly  January 23, 2011 at the age of 12 1/2.

She was born with a deformed front leg and a tripawd all of her life.

On The Road


Member Since:
24 September 2009
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
55
22 January 2012 - 12:05 pm
sp_Permalink sp_Print sp_QuotePost

I fully believe that signs like this our from our loved ones who have passed on, to remind us that our love never dies. How beautiful she sent this to you.

Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
tripawds.com | tripawds.org | bemoredog.net | triday.pet

Washington
Member Since:
1 February 2011
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
56
23 January 2012 - 9:11 am
sp_Permalink sp_Print sp_QuotePost

The reality of her loss seems to settle in a little more each day, and moving forward seems to get more difficult. I miss my little shadow, my guardian, my helper so very much.

the Woo

~ ~ Rio ~ ~
Forever in my heart...

April 2000 – January 20, 2012
Diagnosed with Mast Cell Cancer in June 2007. Left rear leg amputated Feb. 8, 2011.
Mets discovered Aug. 31, 2011. Read more of Rio's story here.

San Diego, CA
Member Since:
29 October 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
57
23 January 2012 - 9:28 am
sp_Permalink sp_Print sp_QuotePost

I know what you mean. I think it gets worse before it starts to get easier. At least that's how it was for me. Hang in there.

Sending hugs!

Abby: Aug 1, 2009 – Jan 10, 2012. Our beautiful rescue pup lived LARGE with osteosarcoma for 15 months – half her way-too-short life. I think our "halflistic" approach (mixing traditional meds + supplements) helped her thrive. (PM me for details. I'm happy to help.) She had lung mets for over a year. They took her from us in the end, but they cannot take her spirit! She will live forever in our hearts. She loved the beach and giving kisses and going to In-N-Out for a Flying Dutchman. Tripawds blog, and a more detailed blog here. Please also check out my novel, What the Dog Ate. Now also in paperback! Purchase it at Amazon via Tripawds and help support Tripawds!

On The Road


Member Since:
24 September 2009
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
58
23 January 2012 - 11:52 am
sp_Permalink sp_Print sp_QuotePost

I agree. The first few days are filled with shock, you're numb and don't really know which end is up. As we watch others go on living life, that's when reality sets in and it hurts sooo much. But it does get better, I promise.

Did you ever read about our "remember when?" game? Maybe, but if not, I'll repeat it here for other who may not have seen it...

When I earned my wings, my pawrents cried, a LOT. After a week or so when their eyes were so swollen and they were just exhausted, they decided that each time they felt like breaking down, they would stop. See, crying really freaked me out, I hated it more than anything. So to honor my wishes, they would catch themselves in the midst of the sad thought, and reach deep within themselves to find a hoppy memory of our life together.

For example, one of them would say "Remember when Jerry .... ate the rotted salmon on the beach...went swimming in Waterdog Lake...gnawed a log in half with his teeth....etc."

Each time they brought up a new memory, the tears moved aside for a smile. And it slowly got easier to stop crying and start living again.

Try it, I hope it helps.

Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
tripawds.com | tripawds.org | bemoredog.net | triday.pet

Las Vegas, Nevada
Member Since:
14 August 2009
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
59
23 January 2012 - 2:37 pm
sp_Permalink sp_Print sp_QuotePost

The reality of her loss seems to settle in a little more each day, and moving forward seems to get more difficult.  I miss my little shadow, my guardian, my helper so very much.

Awwww Micki.  I wish there were magic pills we could take to mend a broken heart!  It's not the day of death that is the hardest, I guess because we are in shock.  But it's the following days and having that emptiness in your heart. 

 

Each day gets a tiny, tiny, tiny bit easier.  Not much but a tiny bit.  You know.  And then one day, the tears for some reason dry up and then something magical happens - you look back with smiles and wonderful memories!   You still have a yearning in your heart for those days with your sweet Woo but time heals the utter devastation you feel today. 

 

During your terrible grief, like Rene said - think up something that made you laugh about Rio.  Talk about her to anyone that will listen.  Surprisngly people do want to hear your stories.  Talking is so theraputic.   When I was younger, no one talked about the ones that died.  It was almost like forbidden!  I thought I've never be able to tell stories about my dad who died young.  As I got older, I realized - that is so wrong!  We should talk until we can't think of anything else to say about someone that has died that we loved!  Dammit! <----------for Shari - since I have never said dammit before on the site but I have now! smile 

 

Give the Zippy-doo and Tosca an extra hug.  And tell them - Monkeybutt Rocket sends them a sweet Monkey Kiss.

Her Retired AvatarComet - 1999 to 2011

She departed us unexpectedly  January 23, 2011 at the age of 12 1/2.

She was born with a deformed front leg and a tripawd all of her life.

New Zealand
Member Since:
6 November 2011
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline
60
23 January 2012 - 3:13 pm
sp_Permalink sp_Print sp_QuotePost

The price we pay for loving our pets is high and the fall when we loss them is hard and far but I couldn't imagine a life without them how dull and painless it would be. They are only with us for a fraction of our lives but the whole of theirs and a peice of all the animals we have lost will be carried in our hearts for ever because the impact they had on us is huge and none will ever be forgotten!! We are better people for sharing our lives with our fur babys and loving them unconditional but like I said before the price of that love is so very high! 

Signs like the shooting star are a blessing to hold on to and to know that your sweetheart made it to the other side and will never forget you and the love you shared, the games, the cuddles and the kisses. but most of all the unconditional devotion to each other.

Time does make it easier to be able to remember them with a smile instead of tears and talking about them helps you to heal.

Big Hugs

Sarah and Kayla

Forum Timezone: America/Denver
Most Users Ever Online: 946
Currently Online: krun15
Guest(s) 139
Currently Browsing this Page:
1 Guest(s)
Member Stats:
Guest Posters: 1273
Members: 17917
Moderators: 6
Admins: 3
Forum Stats:
Groups: 4
Forums: 24
Topics: 18659
Posts: 257293
Administrators: admin, jerry, Tripawds
Tripawds is brought to you by Tripawds.
HOME » NEWS » BLOGS » FORUMS » CHAT » YOUR PRIVACY » RANDOM BLOG