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Words will never be able to express how sorry we are at Shilo's passing. Please accept our deepest and sincere sympathy at this moment. The love, devotion, and bond that you shared was obvious to all who had the privilege of hearing the story. We thank you for sharing that story. All here in this community know that there now is a canyon of a hole in your life, but you will never be without Shilo for the gifts that Shilo has given you will remain without forever. It may have been the hardest thing that you have ever done, but it also was one of the most loving thing that you could have done. Shilo now awaits across the Rainbow Bride for that day of joyout reunion when you will never have to part again.
Praying that you will find peace and will soon be able to remember Shilo with a smile and not just the canyon of loneliness.
Bob & Cherry
I am so sorry to read this tonight. The solace you can take is that you did all that you could do for her, and loved her all that you could love her. And at some point the sharpness of the pain will subside and you will be able to see that she did show you how to go on without her- the same way you have learned to fight, love, and treasure each day through her journey.
Karen
My heart goes out to you, I was so sad when I saw your news.
Hold tight to the memories and beautiful times you had together. Shilo came into your life for a reason, and as hard as it is to not have her physically by your side, her spirit will always be guiding you, making sure you remember those things she set out to teach you.
That "look" is one that Jim and I both saw in Jerry's eyes as well. You can see it in the photos we took. The days before his passing we were playing and having a beautiful time, yet we both knew deep in our hearts that his time was at hand. Then, one day he woke up and his face said it all to us.
It's so hard being strong for them, but it's that one time in their lives when they need us more than ever. You certainly did right by Shilo.
Many hugs to you, and thank you so much for being a part of our family. Please come here to talk if you want to, you have all of us ready to listen.
-Rene, Jim, Wyatt Ray & Spirit Jerry
Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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So much loss lately, but it really does sound like it was her time and both you and her knew it. I'm sorry that you didn't get to have more time with Shilo...we always hope for several months instead of several weeks. You did so much for her and gave her so much love but I know that doesn't make the grief any less severe. It's bittersweet but you will see her again....all of us on here will see our loves again.
Dear Alisa and Brian: We're so sorry you had to say goodbye to sweet Shilo. She seemed like such a love and such a strong girl. We love her sweet little picture. It sounds like you were so attuned to her---you were selfless and loving to set her free. We can only imagine how hard it was for you. Please know are thoughts and prayers are with with you. We're sure your girl is watching over you as you grieve.
And she's running free with new friends Jake, Emily, Tika, and all our Tripawd heroes. Take care, Eve, Romeo, and family
I am sobbing as if I knew her and so saddened to read this. I think it hits us all because we will all go through it someday. It has nothing to do with the cancer. They cannot live forever, and usually, thankfully, we can help them across the bridge mercifully that last day, whenever it comes. I just dread it. I've been through it before, but somehow it is/will be more difficult for us with tripawds because they are such an inspiration to us in their ability to never look back and keep on fighting and keep on smiling in adversity. Shilo wouldn't want you to be miserable, try to pick yourself up and know that she's not suffering now. I agree with Mac's Mom, we will see them again, that knowledge is all that gets me through the loss.
Again, I am so sorry. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. 
Dawn and Raven
Rottie Raven, osteosarcoma at 8-1/2 years old, amputation in October '09 and in February '10 due to liver mets he went back to heaven where he came from. raven.tripawds.com
Now I have Miles, rottie mix amputee from a shelter and traveled 1500 miles to find his way here through the Rescue Railroad thanks to tripawds.com. miles.tripawds.com
Reading about your experiences at the end, that last day, brings me back to Lulu's last day. She too was vomiting bile and so, so weak. The emotions we feel when we know it is time to say goodbye are overwhelming and very difficult to process, so I understand that you were snapping at people. I know I focused my anger on one of my friends who didn't pay attention to a note sent regarding Lulu. I am so sorry, it's so hard and there isn't anything you can do to prepare for the devastation. I agree with Emily's mom that it is important to grieve in what ever way you do and know that we are here for you and sending hugs and good thoughts to both you and Shilo. I send you my deepest condolences. Please take care.
Best,
Stacy, Angel Lulu and Olive
Alisa--
I am so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you had a super supportive vet staff there, it helped us immensely when we had to let Tika go.
My heart goes out to you and your family.
--Kim and Spirit Tika
Kim and Spirit Tika http://www.tika.....ogspot.com
Sending you love and support during the sorrowful times ahead. Don't worry about getting through it day to day, just strive to get through the minute, the hour. Let Shilo's spirit comfort you, and know that she is no longer in pain and is now refusing to take treats from everyone who has crossed the bridge ahead of her, she's waiting (patiently) for you. ((HUGS))
I am so so so sad to read this post. My heart was breaking with every word. I would have (and will) reacted the same way. There are no words. No words at all.
May 2001-Jan 21, 2010.....I'm a dog and I'm AWESOME!..... Always.
I am so saddened by your loss of Shilo, and I am in tears just reading your post and feel your pain 
I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. You did the best you could for Shilo and she knew that, and thanks you for everything you did for her. Now she can run pain free at the Rainbow Bridge and she is now pain free and suffering no more.
Again please acept my condolences for your loss
Mary and (My Guardian Angel Angus)
Dear Alisa and Brian,
I saw your post yesterday and just could not bring myself to reply. After Sunday's blog with all those beautiful photos I just was not expecting to read that Shilo Anne was gone. I am so so sorry and wish that there was something I could do to ease your pain. Hopefully a pain shared, as so many here do share your pain, is a pain eased just a little. Rest assured that Shilo is meeting a whole pack of new friends over the rainbow and having a great time. Codie Rae just told me she hears Shilo is recruiting new members for the Tripawd Girldogs With Two Names ROCK Club! Pawesome!
Rock on, sweet Shilo Anne, you left an indelible mark on the Tripawds community, we will never forget your bright spirit,
xoxoxox
Martha and the Oaktown Pack
Woohoo! Tripawds Rule!
Regulator of the Oaktown Pack, Sheriff of the Oaktown Pawsse, Founding member and President of the Tripawd Girldogs With 2 Names ROCK Club, and ... Tripawd Girldog Extraordinaire!
I am so so sorry to hear about Shilo's passing. Seems her paw print was meant to be. Your final paragraph about no regrets will one day help someone faced with the decision of amputation. Thank you for writing that and with such raw emotion. I agree, we can learn so much from our tripawd best friends.
Storm and Koda
We are so sorry to hear about Shilo - As Rene said about jerry and you about Shilo - they have that look that tells us it's time. Zeus had it too. The fact that you were able to listen to Shilo's wishes - despite the intense pain - is a testatment of your love. It's the most self-less act we can do and it's soooooooooooo hard...
They don't teach us directly how to live without them, but hopefully we can find those hidden instructions in everything else that they taught us.
My heart goes out to you and we send you tons of hugs. Grieve gently...
Love
Heather and Spirit Zeus
Heather and Spirit Zeus - Our life changing journey…from the earth to the heavens…one day at a time…always together
Thank you all for your comforting words and prayers. There are very few places that I can say that I feel like there are those out there that can understand. It is here that I feel the most comfort and understanding. Over the past few days I have checked in and cried with the responses, but wasn't yet brave enough or strong enough to post. It still feels mostly like a bad dream, I wish to wake up from at any moment. We don't have any other furry babies around so now if feels extremely empty. She was the first furry friend/baby that I had from a puppy. She is also the first furry baby that I allowed into my heart completely.
I have spend the last nights waking at 4am, which was the time I got up shi the past few weeks to give her medicine. I have woke in a panic thinking I had overslept and forgot to give it to her, only to realize she isn't here with us now. Sometimes we even hear her hoping through the house. My husband and daughter have heard her as well. It just makes your stomach drop when you are faced with the fact she really is gone. You said it the best Heidi, they do teach us how to let them go. But they don't teach us how to live without them.
I do apologize this ended up being more sad then I wanted it to be. But I am thankful to all of you who understand my pain. I do have every intention of sticking around here, it is one place that can understand my journey. I hope one day I am strong enough to share the positives with those going through similar places.
To those who kept up with her blog/story, I kept a promise I made to my girl there. I said it would be positive from here on out, and it was. Even when things got difficult I remained to see the good, and that helped me be strong for her.
Thank you all again, you have been wonderful! Thank you for...... everything!
Shilo diagnosed with osteosarcoma 9/4/2009, amputation 9/9/2009. ShiloAnne lost her battle 11/23/2009 where she regained her fourth leg and is patiently waiting for her parents to join her. We will always love you baby girl.
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