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Last night I became extremely sad thinking of Henri. It is hard to believe a month has already gone by since he crossed the bridge.
I looked at his photos and the pain came over me again....really hard!Â
It is still so difficult and even though we have shared some wonderful memories, I wish he was still here.
There is something that brings me peace. My mother passed away just five days after being diagnosed with cancer and we were not able to say our goodbyes. It was so painful!  With Henri, I had almost 4 months to prepare for his passing...although you can never be ready. But I am so blessed that I had that time with Henri....we shared soooo many special times together and I would not trade it for the world.
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There are some angels looking down on me and they are helping me gain strength to move forward! In my heart, I know Henri is one of those angels! And that is what brings me peace!
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RIP Henri, he will always be my little boy!
((Hugs)) So wish I could find something to say that would make a difference. One month is really not a long time. Grief is one of those things that just take time - and it takes more time for some than others - and that's is perfectly OK.
I can only wish for you the wonderful memories you have will soon replace the pain in your heart.
Shanna & Spirit Trouble ~ Trouble gained her wings 3/16/2011, a 27 1/2 month cancer survivor, tail wagging. RIP sweetheart, you are my heart and soul. Run free at Rainbow Bridge.
The November Five - Spirits Max, Cherry, Tika, Trouble & Nova. 11/2008 - 3/2013 An era ends as Queen Nova crossed the Bridge.
My wonderful Ruthie was just 1 day behind Henri. I so understand how you feel. The tears still come so easily. Her collar with her tags and her bandana from the vet that says "I was Brave" hang in the kitchen. I don't know if I can ever take them down.
Ruthie & Henri are probably at the Bridge together wondering why we are so sad. They will live in our hearts forever.
RIP Henri...look after my Ruthie.
Oh Wendy and Pat...my heart goes out to you. The loss of your angels can't even be put into words. Wendy, I'm glad that you can find some peace with this and that you were able to say your goodbyes to Henri. When I think about what I'm going to be facing with Mackenzie, I get very, very sad. But as my sister tells me over and over again... you are very lucky that you've been given this time with Mackenzie to say goodbye so cherish every moment (a lot easier said than done!)
I'm sure that Angels Ruthie and Henri are looking out for each other at the Rainbow Bridge. My other precious dog Keoke is right there with them! 
Kami (Mackenzie's Mom)
My sweet golden Mackenzie. She became my angel on Dec 29, 2010 at the age of 8 1/2  although she was always my angel from the time we brought her home. She was diagnosed with osteosarcoma in Sept 2009 and officially became a tripawd (front leg) on Nov 5, 2009. She will be forever in my heart and now she's running free with all of our other tripawd heroes. I love you Mackenzie!
Oh, I feel bad - I've probably haven't helped you, Wendy - by making you find all the photos of Henri for his memorial. I didn't realize it was the 1 month anniversary. I'm so sorry.Â
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And you too, Pat.  I remember the heartache we all felt during that horrible time period when so many lost their battle.   I wished it didn't have to be this way.   I wish we could share of pups without worry.
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I also remember being extremely depressed even 6 months after months after Rugby. Christmas was the hardest. Darn Christmas season!
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Comet - 1999 to 2011
She departed us unexpectedly  January 23, 2011 at the age of 12 1/2.
She was born with a deformed front leg and a tripawd all of her life.
I don't have words to make it better but know you are not alone in your grief. Â Etta will be gone one month on the 21st.... Â I miss her so much everyday. Â Our house seems so empty without her....It amazes me how these little beings have a way of filling up an entire house. Â Even though I never met them I also grieve for Henri and Ruthie along with my little girl.... Â Reading the posts makes me feel not so alone. Â I hope it does the same for you as well! Â julie
Our angel "Etta" amputation on 4-15-10 lost her front limb. initially dx'd with neurofibrosarcoma. However, after surgery they discovered histiocytic sarcoma a very aggressive cancer. After two full rounds of chemo our special angel lost her battle on 6-21-10. the sweetest and most gentle soul. Our lives are forever blessed for having known her...
I wish there was some magic way to make the loss of our beloved pets easier to deal with somehow. I don't know of any. My Keaton (golden retriever) crossed to the Bridge on February 9th this year, after 14 years, and MillyCat - my beloved Calico cat - a year ago now - at 19 years old. We were so blessed to have been able to spend such a wonderfully long time with them. The holes left by their passing will never really be filled in - just covered over with memories, and time.Â
I still mourn for them - no - for me. They are in a much better place - free from pain - no more suffering. I know that they are with me - I feel them sometimes. I loved them deeply - and I know that they both loved me, too. Nothing can sever that kind of bond. The love lives on. Learning to draw strength and comfort from that - rather than feeling the pain of their absence - I don't know - it takes time, and faith, and it's easier some days than others.Â
I pray that you find peace, and comfort in the memories of the love you shared.Â
Tana and Sophie
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Sophie (1998 – 2010)
"Going Dog"Â def: living every day in the moment
"It came to me that every time I lose a dog they take a piece of my heart with them. And every new dog who comes into my life gifts me with a piece of their heart. If I live long enough, all the components of my heart will be dog, and I will become as generous and loving as they are."
–Unknown
The 11th was one month for Skyler. It's still very raw for us, too. But the great memories with her are in our hearts forever. Seems as though the Rainbow Bridge has a full house of recent tripawds entering. Skyler loves lots of pups, so I know she is wagging her tail at Henri, Ruthie, Etta and Chaser -and they are having a great time together.
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All I can say is a big THANK YOU to the Tripawds site! It really has helped me!!!
We're keeping our paws crossed for all of you, and sending big hugs too!
Wendy and Pat
It's hard to believe it's been a month already since Henri and Ruthie's passing.Â
This past month has seen so many sad partings: Skyler, Etta, Magic, Maggie, Chaser. And recently Toto. Oh, way too many.
Sending hugs to all of you and hoping despite your sorrow you find strength in the love you shared with your wonderful companions.
Carmen
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Catie -
Birthday – November 4 2003
Amputation – January 13 2010
Crossed the Bridge – June 2 2011
Wendy, I hope you as well as everyone else who lost their companions know our thoughts are still with you alll, thats the great part about being part of this family, no one forgets someone, and it's a great feeling to know there are friends out there who even though we have never met that when someone needs support it's there, what a great feeling. Let your memories of Henri help you get past the tough part, he may be with you more than you realize. Gus and DanÂ
My buddy Gus had a left front amputation on April 7, 2010 and lived a great life until July 26,2010
It breaks my heart to remember all of the great Tripawds we have lost recently. Henri was very special and I think of him often. His memory burns brightly.
Laura and Tai Dog
Tai – 9 yr old lab. Diagnosed Osteosarcoma Dec 18/09. Front right leg amputated Dec 21/09. Started chemo Jan 7/10. Lung mets discovered Sept 16/10. Valiant to the end on Oct 26/10 when cancer reappeared in a leg and we made the decision to set her free. Forever in my heart where not even cancer can take her from me.
Wendy and Pat,
I wish there were something that could be said or done to help ease the pain you are both feeling. I know there's not but please remember that your never forgotten and the memories of your pups, Sweet Henri and Ruthie, will always be a part of this wonderful community. Â
My thoughts and prayers are with you both,
Fortis'Dad,
Brett
 I am sorry for your pain, I wish I had words to help ease the pain from your heart, I don't. I hope all the wonderful memories will soon start to bring more smiles than tears and more joy than sadness to you as you remember the good times you shared together. Henri will never be forgotten here.
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 Jo Ann & Tasha
Tasha 8 years old, First cancer diagnosis 6/26/09, Last cancer diagnosis 9/26/09, Amputation 10/01/09, Loving our girl moment by moment.
Tasha lost her battle and became my Angel on May 4 2011. Forever in my heart….
Well as many here I know what you are going through.the pain and sadness.... its has been 3 months my golden boy Don has passed and to be honest time doesnt heal at all,it just makes pain more bearable. There is nothing much to say just try be strong cos he would want you to be, and is no doubt looking over you now and always will 🙂
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 Hugs,
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Daniela, Angel Dons Mum
I am sorry to hear that you are still hurting so much. I think the pets we love leave such an emptiness in our hearts. Although Henri will always have a place in your heart, I hope your heart heals.
Kristin (Toto's mom)
And Toto, Too – fighting the good fight against hemangiosarcoma  http://tootswee.....pawds.com/     Amputation - 9/21/09     Earned his wings - 7/09/10
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