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Cherry crosses over the Rainbow Bridge
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29 December 2009 - 9:29 pm
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If I have posted this topic then you should know that Cherry has crossed over the Rainbow Bridge and is waiting that joyous time when we will be united for all time.  This strange phrasing is because I am writing this a few days after Cherry’s Three Day Celebration and as she is lying now beside me.  I have chosen to write this now for two reasons.  First, my experience has demonstrated that when the event actually does occur, I will be a total wreck and incapable of coherent thought much less doing her story justice.  Second and more important, when this event actually does occur, I want a celebration of her life.  Her enrichment to my life can never be fully measured.  Her love, joy, excitement, energy, and mischief have been boundless.

Cherry entered my life with enormous paw prints to fill.  Cassiopeia and Cassandra (Cassy and Sandy) were my first two standard poodles, litter-mates, my best friends and without a doubt they were the reason I made it through the toughest time of my life.  It took me three years from their passing to be able to bring Cherry into my life.  Keeping with the Greek Mythology theme, she was named Charites which is the collective reference to the three Greek Goddesses of Love, Beauty and Vitality.  Boy was that ever fitting for Miss Cherry.  She walked into the house, looked around, and seemed to say “this will do nicely.”  Just as willing to take a long ride, take a long walk, play, or just lay on my lap for a quiet evening, Cherry has always been my constant companion.  She announces to the whole world Mommy’s return whenever she hears the garage door signaling that fact.  She has always been a family protector who has not let the cancer or TriPawd status ever lessen that responsibility.

It is not really fair to say that I obedience trained Cherry because she was a natural.  Her healing was excellent, but I cannot take much credit for that.  She earned her AKC Companion Dog (CD) degree by qualifying in three straight shows and she placed in all three shows that earned her AKC Companion Dog Excellent (CDX) degree.  Only her over-exuberance and my retirement refocus on visiting America kept us from working on the Utility Degree (UD).  Before the cancer, whenever we would go for our walks, we would be stopped by individuals commenting on her beautiful “show” gate.  I was no less proud of my little girl and her enormous courage as we walked together after the cancer.

Cherry lays here beside me now.  I can think of the day when she crosses over the Rainbow Bridge and my three little girls are together.  Two white and a lone black romping across the fields playing the games as only my Sandy can create.  My only remaining task will be to join them, and in the bigger scheme of things that will be soon.

Please join me in this celebration of life – Cherry’s life.  Give a big hug to each and every companion who is still here with us.  Take your respective cedar boxes or urns and hold them tight.  Focus on the wonderful memories that they have given to us.  Know that they will never really leave us for the gifts that they have given us will live with us forever.

Cherry’s Proud Dad

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29 December 2009 - 9:33 pm
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Bob, I'm so sorry.  Everyone will get an extra strong hug and kiss tonight, in honor of Cherry and you.  I wish I had something better to say to you, but know that you and your family and Cherry and all in our thoughts.

Diane

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29 December 2009 - 9:39 pm
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Oh my gosh, Bob...I am literally shocked.  I cannot believe what I am reading.  Cherry has been such an inspiration, and you have been such a strong voice of support, that I seriously cannot believe I am reading this.  I feel like I have lost my own.  That sound you hear from up north is me crying my eyes out, because I am mourning the loss of a true friend.  I wish you peace, Bob, and I hope you can update us when you feel a little stronger.  We all love you.

<3 Laura

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29 December 2009 - 9:43 pm
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Oh Bob, this comes as such a shock. You are so strong for writing what you did, when you did it.

You and Cherry have been such a huge help to all tripawds and there people here. Please try to find some peace knowing the experiences you have shared are certain to help others down the road.

Cherry's Spirit shall live strong here, and in our hearts forever.

Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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29 December 2009 - 9:55 pm
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Bob,

I am so sorry to read this tonight.  I can think of nothing to write because you have said it all so beautifully before. 

We all have been comforted and inspired by your posts- I hope that gives you some comfort tonight.

And I hope when you feel up to it you will re-join us here to  be comforted and inspired by those of us you have helped along on our journeys.

Karen and the pug girls.

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29 December 2009 - 10:00 pm
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Bob & Emily,

I sit here in stunned silence, with tears running down my face. Although all of us understand that this is the outcome we will inevitably face, I stil can't believe what I've just read.

Cherry has been our cornerstone, our shoulder to lean on, our inspawration. Over and over again she has proven that Tripawds rock this world. Your support and advice, the experiences you shared together, have been invauable to our community. It's just so hard to believe she is Spirit Cherry now.

As Admin said, you were very strong to have written this post when you did. Not too many of us would have that kind of strength. But then again, what can we expect, since Cherry obviously taught you so well.

Many, many hugs and condolences are coming your way. Cherry will never, ever be forgotten. May she run free forever with Sandy and Cassie, and Jerry and all of our Tripawd heroes.

Please take care of yourself and know that we are here if you want to talk.

Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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Northern Indiana
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29 December 2009 - 10:28 pm
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Bob & family,

I know your pain is immense tonight, but so is the love and care and support that I and all your Tripawd friends are sending your way. 

I consider it a privilege to know you and Cherry through your words! It is a beautiful story and I am grateful for all you have given to this community. Your great love for Cherry is apparent.

Please take care, I send you love and prayers,

Ginny & Paris

Grateful for every moment we had with Paris…..no regrets!

Honoring her life by opening our hearts & home to Addy!

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29 December 2009 - 10:53 pm
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Bob I am so sorry to read your post. You and Cherry have been an inspiration to me with my questions on what to expect with my Tehya. Sending you a big hug from Tehya and family.

Darlene

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29 December 2009 - 11:01 pm
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Bob,
I'm here to celebrate Cherry's life with you. I'll even hold up a virtual glass of champagne and propose a toast....
"To Cherry. And Peanut. And all our amazing TriPawds."
.... *clink*.
Cherry will be missed and thought of fondly.
-Melanie, spirit Peanut, Bubba.

~*~*~ Peanut is strength, love, and happiness. ~*~*~ 11/30/03 – 12/26/09

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29 December 2009 - 11:09 pm
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Bob and Emily

No - I did not see this coming in the least. I saw Cherry's boundless spirit hopping on earth for far longer. I am so sorry for the pain you must feel right now. In Cherry's honour, we will try to celebrate her life and the life of all our tripawds.

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30 December 2009 - 4:03 am
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Bob and Emily,

I am so sorry for your loss in such a beautiful girl!  You filled her last few days with what she loved the most, trips in the car.  Cherry is such as inspiration to Tripawd dogs and their owners!  I just gave Koda a big hug in honour of the beautiful and graceful Cherry!!!!

Take care,

Storm 

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30 December 2009 - 6:14 am
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Bob and Emily,

I was so shocked to read your post about Cherry! Crying I had thought she was doing so well... It reminds us of how quickly this horrible disease can take our babies away from us... Cherry's story of survival  was one of my many inspirations here on Tripawds... I loved reading all your stories about her, and all your wonderful advice.

I'm so, so sorry that sweet Cherry's life has finally ended... Cry

You gave  her so much love and she gave you so much back in return. I know that your heart must be breaking right now... My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very sad time. I will never forget your Cherry... and her memory and legacy will definitely live on in the Tripawds family.

RIP sweet Cherry... Be sure to watch over your daddy, as he is missing you so much now!

Angel Jake's Mom

Jake, 10yr old golden retriever (fractured his front right leg on 9/1, bone biopsy revealed osteosarcoma on 9/10, amputation on 9/17) and his family Marguerite, Jacques and Wolfie, 5yr old german shepherd and the newest addition to the family, Nala, a 7mth old Bengal mix kittie. Jake lost his battle on 11/9/2009, almost 8 weeks after his surgery. We will never forget our sweet golden angel… http://jakesjou.....ipawds.com ….. CANCER SUCKS!

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30 December 2009 - 7:26 am
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NOOOOO...Sob, sniff sniff....wahhhhhh Cry The tripawd community is in serious mourning - we have lost a treasure....physically, but we know her spirit will always be with us. Still....it's not the same Sad

Bob - I'm SOOOOO sorry and devastated to hear about Cherry. The suddeness of it is so unfair. I'm in shock. I am so lost for words...you have to know what an amazing dad you have been to Cherry - she was SO blessed to have you and you were so blessed to have her as all of us have been to have our amazing pups in our lives.

Please know that you are being thought of during this really difficult and crappy (sorry, couldn't think of a nicer word) time, you are loved and many prayers and virtual hugs are sent your way. You are NOT ALONE. We are all here for you.

We love you tons ~

Heather and Spirit Zeus

Heather and Spirit Zeus - Our life changing journey…from the earth to the heavens…one day at a time…always together

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30 December 2009 - 8:53 am
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In celebration of Cherry's life, Trouble (and Duke) have received a big hug. 

Shanna & Spirit Trouble ~ Trouble gained her wings 3/16/2011, a 27 1/2 month cancer survivor, tail wagging. RIP sweetheart, you are my heart and soul.  Run free at Rainbow Bridge.
The November Five - Spirits Max, Cherry, Tika, Trouble & Nova. 11/2008 - 3/2013 An era ends as Queen Nova crossed the Bridge.

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30 December 2009 - 10:07 am
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Bob–my heart dropped and tears began immediately when I saw your post, then I read it and realized that a celebration is in order.  Right–we celebrate life.  She was an amazing girl and thank you for sharing her story and letting us get to know her even better.

Celebrate...easier said than done.  My thoughts and prayers are with you today.

Mary

Cemil and mom Mary, Mujde and Radzi….appreciating and enjoying Today

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