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20 September 2011 - 8:31 am
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I am so saddened to read about Brandy. As others have said, Brandy knew how much you loved her. She will now be your angel, watching over you & family.

Take care of yourselves now, give yourselves time to grieve. In time, the smiles will return to your faces as you remember life with Brandy.

She will live in your hearts always!

Sending you many golden hugs...

Cathy

Las Vegas, Nevada
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20 September 2011 - 8:58 am
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I'm am just so sorry to hear about Brandy.  It's so sad that she was so young but she had a wonderful family in her life.   

Warm and caring thoughts are being sent to you.

My deepest condolences.

Her Retired AvatarComet - 1999 to 2011

She departed us unexpectedly  January 23, 2011 at the age of 12 1/2.

She was born with a deformed front leg and a tripawd all of her life.

Washington
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20 September 2011 - 1:37 pm
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It's never easy to say good-bye. And knowing that it's the right thing to do doesn't make it any easier. Our hearts are breaking with yours today.

So long, Brandy! You fought a good fight, and were the epitome of a Tripawd Warrior Princess. We will miss you...

Rio and Rio's mom, Micki

the Woo

~ ~ Rio ~ ~
Forever in my heart...

April 2000 – January 20, 2012
Diagnosed with Mast Cell Cancer in June 2007. Left rear leg amputated Feb. 8, 2011.
Mets discovered Aug. 31, 2011. Read more of Rio's story here.

Lucas, Ohio
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20 September 2011 - 5:17 pm
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My deepest condolences to you and your family over the loss of your beautiful Tripawd Warrior Princess Brandy. So many wise words have already been posted..I just wanted to add this rather lengthy but beautiful saying that I found on here when I was grieving the loss of my girls..   Anita, mom to Xena & Roger and my angels Spammy & Chloe

The Journey
When you bring a pet into your life, you begin a journey. A journey that will bring you more love and devotion than you have ever known, yet will also test your strength and courage. If you allow, the journey will teach you many things,about life, about yourself, and most of all, about love. You will come away changed forever, for one soul cannot touch another without leaving its mark.

Along the way, you will learn much about savoring life's simple pleasures — jumping in leaves, snoozing in the sun, the joys of puddles, and even the satisfaction of a good scratch behind the ears. If you spend much time outside, you will be taught how to truly experience every element, for no rock, leaf, or log will go unexamined, no rustling bush will be overlooked, and even the very air will be inhaled, pondered, and noted as being full of valuable information.

Your pace may be slower, except when heading home to the food dish, but you will become a better naturalist, having been taught by an expert in the field. Too many times we hike on automatic pilot, our goal being to complete the trail rather than enjoy the journey. We miss the details; the colorful mushrooms on the rotting log, the honeycomb in the old maple snag, the hawk feather caught on a twig.

Once we walk as a dog does, we discover a whole new world. We stop; we browse the landscape, we kick over leaves, peek in tree holes, look up, down, all around. And we learn what any dog knows that nature has created a marvelously complex world that is full of surprises, that each cycle of the seasons bring ever changing wonders, each day an essence all its own, each day a gift from God.

Even from indoors you will find yourself more attuned to the world around you. You will find yourself watching: summer insects collecting on a screen; how bizarre they are; how many kinds there are or noting the flick and flash of fireflies through the dark. You will stop to observe the swirling dance of windblown leaves, or sniff the air after a rain. It does not matter that there is no objective in this; the point is in the doing, in not letting life's most important details slip by.

You will find yourself doing silly things that your pet-less friends might not understand: spending thirty minutes in the grocery aisle looking for the cat food brand your feline must have, buying dog birthday treats, or driving around the block an extra time because your pet enjoys the ride. You will roll in the snow, wrestle with chewie toys, bounce little rubber balls till your eyes cross and even run around the house trailing your bathrobe tie with a cat in hot pursuit, all in the name of love.

Your house will become muddier and hairier. You will wear less dark clothing and buy more lint rollers. You may find dog biscuits in your pocket or purse, and feel the need to explain that an old plastic shopping bag adorns your living room rug because your cat loves the crinkly sound. You will learn the true measure of love. The steadfast, undying kind that says,''It doesn't matter where we are or what we do, or how life treats us as long as we are together.''

Respect this always. It is the most precious gift any living soul can give another. You will not find it often among the human race. And you will learn humility. The look in my dog's eyes often made me feel ashamed. Such joy and love at my presence. She saw not some flawed human who could be cross and stubborn, moody or rude, but only her wonderful companion. Or maybe she saw those things and dismissed them as mere human foibles, not worth considering, and so chose to love me anyway.

If you pay attention and learn well, when the journey is done, you will be not just a better person, but the person your pet always knew you to be. The one they were proud to call beloved friend.

I must caution you that this journey is not without pain. Like all paths of true love, the pain is part of loving. For as surely as the sun sets, one day your dear animal companion will follow a trail you cannot yet go down. And you will have to find the strength and love to let them go. A pet's time on earth is far too short, especially for those that love them. We borrow them, really, just for a while, and during these brief years they are generous enough to give us all their love every inch of their spirit and heart, until one day there is nothing left. The cat that only yesterday was a kitten is all too soon old and frail and sleeping in the sun. The young pup of boundless energy now wakes up stiff and lame, the muzzle gone to gray.

Deep down we somehow always knew that this journey would end. We knew that if we gave our hearts they would be broken. But give them we must for it is all they ask in return. When the time comes, and the road curves ahead to a place we cannot see, we give one final gift and let them run on ahead, young and whole once more. ''God speed, good friend,'' we say, until our journey comes full circle and our paths cross again.

And bless their souls for sharing their lives with us…and adding so much to our very existence.

Author Unknown.

Kim & Angel Buster

"Until one has loved an animal, a part of one's soul remains unawakened."
–Anatole France

Scottsburg, IN
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20 September 2011 - 5:21 pm
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So sorry for the pain you all are facing.  Brandy's so beautiful!  She will be missed.

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20 September 2011 - 5:25 pm
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I am so sorry for your loss. RIP sweet Brandy...run free at Rainbow Bridge. 

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20 September 2011 - 6:15 pm
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Teresa, I join all the others in offering my heartfelt sympathy to you.  Though it's always in the back of our minds, you still strive to live in the moment and give these wonderful furkids every part of you 24 hours a day.  While I am blessed that Shelby remains cancer free, there are so many of my kids at the Bridge who fought the fight valiantly and now wait for the wonderful day that we're all together again, never to be apart.

 

Godspeed, Brandy.....run fast, play hard.  See you on the Other Side.

San Diego, CA
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23 September 2011 - 7:20 pm
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Devastating! I'm grieving with you for the loss of Brandy.  It is so difficult to let them go and it is so difficult to see them in pain and discomfort.  Just know that our other pets will be greeting Brandy at the Rainbow Bridge to comfort her.  I will be thinking of you and your family....

 

Kim (Gracie's Mom)

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23 September 2011 - 9:05 pm
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You all fought so bravely!!!

Sending the sincerest sympathy and heart healing wishes!

St. Louis, MO
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24 September 2011 - 3:30 pm
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I am so sorry for your loss of Brandy and that it was her time to journey to Rainbow Bridge.  You gave her the most unselfish and final gift of love by releasing her from the pain.  Godspeed sweet Brandy.  Run free with all of the other heroes that have gone before you.

Hugs and chocolate kisses,

Ellen & Charley

Charley's Blog:  CHOCOLATE KISSES


DOB: 3-29-08, male chocolate lab  
Dx: OSA L proximal humerus 10-19-10

Amputation: L front leg & scapula 10-28-10

Chemo: 5 rounds of Carboplatin

Video (12 weeks post amp):Tripaw Charley Playing

♥♥♥ Lots of supplements and love!!! ♥♥♥

Greater Western Washington area
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25 September 2011 - 8:24 am
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I am so so so sorry about Brandy.  I know she has fought an incredible fight, she had nothing left to give.   I have to say I am reminded again with tears in my eyes how much I hate cancer.  Beautiful Brandy, Godspeed, you are a tripawd hero for sure. 

Here is to hoping that your pain eases quickly, you could have done nothing more, just like Brandy I believe you gave everything you had.  We send you all the hugs and share your pain.

 

Elizabeth and family

 

Redbud,

That is a great story by the unknown author.  So true.

Diagnosed with osteosarcoma in the right front leg 8/23/10,

leg fractured 8/27/10,

leg amputated 8/30/10

http://sammyand.....pawds.com/

 

I couldn't begin to say how special Sammy is to us.  Living and laughing with and loving this wonderful boy is priceless.

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25 September 2011 - 9:58 am
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Oh I join in your grief. Taking up the rugs from Zip's room was so hard and final but I take comfort in the idea that where she is now, no need for rugs or anything else. Your tears are tears of love so let them flow because love is sacrificial and you gave Brandy the ultimate gift of love, freedom. My thoughts are with you all.

Susan

Spirit Zip's grandma

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3 October 2011 - 2:44 pm
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I wanted to thank you all for your kind words, they mean so much to us.  I have logged on a few times to attempt to thank you all however as soon as I saw the "Tripawds" banner…I had to close out. 

You all helped us through this journey, from the good times and the bad.  Brandy fought her furry butt off and she had many, many happy fun filled days.  We are so very grateful and lucky to have had her in our lives.

 

 
The Rainbow Bridge

By the edge of a woods, at the foot of a hill,

Is a lush, green meadow where time stands still.

Where the friends of man and woman do run,

When their time on earth is over and done.

For here, between this world and the next,

Is a place where each beloved creature finds rest.

On this golden land, they wait and they play,

Till the Rainbow Bridge they cross over one day.

No more do they suffer, in pain or in sadness,

For here they are whole, their lives filled with gladness.

Their limbs are restored, their health renewed,

Their bodies have healed, with strength imbued.

They romp through the grass, without even a care,

Until one day they start, and sniff at the air.

All ears prick forward, eyes dart front and back,

Then all of a sudden, one breaks from the pack.

For just at that instant, their eyes have met;

Together again, both person and pet.

So they run to each other, these friends from long past,

The time of their parting is over at last.

The sadness they felt while they were apart,

Has turned into joy once more in each heart.

They embrace with a love that will last forever,

And then, side-by-side, they cross over… together.

 

~Author Unknown~

 

Brandy will forever be in our hearts, we will meet again sweet girl, Your spirit lives on…

Teresa (Brandys Auntie) and Family

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3 October 2011 - 4:52 pm
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I am starting to believe that these amazing creatures with all their challenges...choose us.

 

They choose us no because we can hep - they choose us because we want to help. Even knowing the outcome, we do not waiver, we don't stop loving. We are a constant in an uncertain life. 

 

They are gifts that revel our humanity.

 

I have no doubt Brandy was loved and will remain loved by you and your family. He spirit is now yours to carry on- you were chosen for that. What a blessing.  

(and I not that religious but- dogs just seem closer to god than anyone I've met) 

 

All our love to you and your family. I'll say a prayer to St. Rocco (patron saint of dogs) for her. 

 

The 2 thousand or more people on this site represent a network of strength. I would love to pull our locations into a map that has locator icons for our dogs. A visual that we are all tied together. Just a thought 

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3 October 2011 - 8:05 pm
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 Praying for you in your time of sorrow. I cry everytime I read about another loss of a wonderful beloved tripawd. All we can do is be there for each other and give ourselves time to mourn. So sorry this has happened. I know you did the very best for Brandy. She will always love you!! 

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