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Goodness knows you are doing everything possible for your girl...and Kender knows it too.
Yeah, the soreness is perplexing....subq fluids certainly can settle anywhere and, in my experience anyway, they swelling doesn't go down overnight and the absorption rate varied from dog to dog (cats may be different). I don't remember soreness being involved, but swelling from fluids moving down her armpit could certainly cause discomfort. Maybe you could give the sub Q one more dose and see if that helps.
Your Kenda will let you know what she wants. You are a strong and determined advocate for her and very connected to her. No matter what happens, a bond like that can never be broken.
Surrounding you with lots of hugs today and healing energy
Sally and Alumni Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
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Asking for lots of prayers, pawsitive thoughts, what have you today...Kender is at the vet on IV fluids right now, but things are not looking good at all. I'm hoping for a miracle, but also keeping the reality of the situation in mind. If I had done this on Friday, she'd probably have a much better chance. But trying to not beat myself up for decisions I made in ignorance.
This weekend, I read through Momo's story, PM'd his owner and then started scouring the Internet for info on feline kidney disease. What I found was that things AREN'T always hopeless with numbers like Kender's, especially at initial diagnosis. Unfortunately, I learned all of this Saturday afternoon, after it was too late to take her in. She was much worse this morning. So I was faced with the decision of doing nothing (or euthanizing) and guarantee she died at home with her family but always wondering if she could have improved....or taking her to the vet for fluids and feeding where she might improve, but might also die in an unfamiliar place with strangers. It was a tough decision, but I knew I'd regret it more if I didn't give her a chance at life. With her numbers, she'll need at least a few days of IV therapy and continued subQ fluids at home. If she continues to decline after IV therapy, I'll be more certain there isn't any hope left and feel more comfortable with euthanasia. I can't bring myself to do it without at least trying and having more confidence that it's her time. She feels crappy right now, but doesn't have signs of pain...kidney disease of itself isn't usually painful but it can cause other conditions that are.
So please pray that she improves, or in the alternative that her death is peaceful and it's really her time.
~Melinda and Tri-Kitty Angel Kender
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Oh wow I'm so glad you talked to Megan, she's great. No matter what happens, please don't beat yourself up, you are doing the best you can in a very hard situation. All of us send our love and thoughts that she makes a big bounce back and this therapy helps. Please keep us posted OK? {{{{hugs}}}}}}
Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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Thank you soooo o much for taking the time to update us. You and Kender have been...and are...very much in our thoughts.
Okay, let's address this "beat i ngnyourself up" routine....that we ALL know far to well!!! One thingnthat works for me is to r e mind myself that the stupid piece of crap disease is STILL trying to take you away from being fully present with your loved one. Even though Kender is at the vets, she can feel your connection, she can feel the oneness. So stay focused on sending healing thoughts.
You are REALLY giving her the best chance possible. As far as being at the vets, she probably...as you said...f eels crappy so she doesn't really care right now if she's at the vets or not. When she starts to feel better...that's another story! She'll probably be pretty ticked then but it'll be worth her pouting a bit.
I applaud you for makingnthis decision to give her the best chance possible...even if it means being at the vet. Kender knows you are trying to help her...she does...really.
Sending hugs and healing energy.
Sally and Alumni Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
I agree, you are giving her the best chance possible. Fluids can do so much to just make them so much more comfortable. I had a kitty that was in kidney failure for 1 1/2 years, and I would give him sub-q fluids every other day. It really made him feel better. So no matter what, Kender is probably much more comfortable right now. I agree with Sally, no regrets. We do the best we can with the information we have at the moment. I'm sending prayers and positive thoughts your way.
HUGS
Mom to Tripawd Angels Jake (2001-2014) and Rosco (2012-2015) and Tripawd Tanner. “Whatever happens tomorrow, we had today; and I'll always remember it”
She's at peace now. I had an appt for my other cat this afternoon for a check up. Just as I got in the parking lot I got a call and they said to come in right away. She was starting to pass. She was doing agonal breathing but it stopped just before I got back to see her. Her heart rate had dropped to 40. I got to say goodbye. I won't say this to most, but I know most of you will understand....but I really think she knew I was getting close and held on long enough to say goodbye. I'm gonna miss her so much.
~Melinda and Tri-Kitty Angel Kender
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I am so sorry. You did the BEST for her and I too truly believe that she waited till she knew you were there, she could feel you close and knew it was ok. She hung on because she wanted you to know it was ok too. I know all of our Angels were there to greet her, welcoming her spirit home. Sending you much love and hugs tonight.
Mom to Tripawd Angels Jake (2001-2014) and Rosco (2012-2015) and Tripawd Tanner. “Whatever happens tomorrow, we had today; and I'll always remember it”
Oh Melinda, I'm so very sorry. We were all hoping she'd pull through.
She fought so hard and you both went through this terrible time with such dignity. And yes, I get it, I too believe she hung on to say goodbye, she had to have a sixth sense that you were on the way. How bittersweet that you got to be with her.
What a blessing and an honor it's been to be a part of this journey you had together. We've learned so much from you both, and you've made such a difference for Tripawd kitties and their people. Never forget that her story will live on to comfort others in need of hope, her life will never be forgotten.
May her spirit stay strong and guide you as you cope with such great loss, and beyond. I'm so sorry. Please know you are always, always welcome here.
Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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Dear Melinda:
very sorry for your loss. It is hard to accept the fact that there comes a time to say goodbye, and you were lucky to be able to be there with your sweet Kender. Allow yourself time to mourn but also time to give thanks for having Kender as part of your family for many happy years.
hugs,
Daniela & Johnnie
Our awesome Golden Boy was diagnosed for OSA in April 2014 in the proximal humerus, front-leg amp on 05/20/2014. Finished chemo (Carbo6) on 07/10/2014. Ongoing treatment: acupuncture + K-9 Immunity Plus ( 3chews) and home-cooked no-grain diet. Stopped Apocaps because of liver issues. Liver issues: controlling altered enzymes with SAM-e and Milk Thistle. October 17: started having seizures. Taking fenobarbital for seizures. April 18: started prednisone.
Melinda,
So sorry to read of your your loss of Kender. I am sure she held on for you. She knows you did everything possible for her.
In our thoughts,
Esther and her Angel Snoop
I'm so sorry to hear this Melinda. I was hoping that Kender could pull through this. Wishing you and your family comfort and many special memories of your special kitty.
Kerren and Mona
Melinda, dear sweet Melinda....I know this hurts soooo much...I know it does.
No community understands like this community. The lengths we go to to help our dogs and cats when this journey first starts...no one understands....the 24/7 non stop care and celebrating the little victories like carazy....the love that was always there but deepens beyond belief once they become a tripawd.....no one understands....and then the seemingly unbearable grief that washes over us in a suffocating wave.....no one understands. We are here for you, right by your side, because WE UNDERSTAND!!
Kender jumped into our hearts with your first post! A very, very loved kitty, that's for sure!! And she loved you!!
Yes, make no mistake about her love for you. Kender ABSOLUTELY waited for you as she prepared for her transition and left her earth clothes. She KNEW you were coming and her Energy of Spirit was still there waiting for you to come into her lresence. She was peaceful now and in a dimension where she can still be with you. She is n ow your Guardian and Protector, just as you have been hers.
PLEASE stay connected to us. When you can, share more stories and picture s of sweet Kender.. We all understand the depth of grief...it will get worse before it gets better...the void ...the break in routine...all very, very tough. But we are here to help support you. Kender wants you to be happy...she is.
Sending you so much love and the comfort of knowing all is well with Kender.
Sally and Alumni Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
This is one of the thousands of guided things our Sage Jerry said on Theo's post.....
I’m gonna try and paste what that Sage Jerry said about the blink m of an eye……it’s very important……
Always remember, his last day with you is a blink, a spec in time, it cannot outshadow all of the good times you shared. Those beautiful moments of his life as a happy, healthy and active dog are so powerful, so filled with love, that they will always light up your world more than the dark times. Remember those moments when you start to feel down and you can get through this.
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
Melinda, So sorry about Kender. I believe you were at the right place at the right time and that things happen for a reason. So glad that you were able to be there to say goodbye. Please reach out to us during the horrible grieving process.
Laurie
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