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Thank you Sally, for reminding me of the most important thing: to stay present. I was thinking into the future, to the time when the vet arrives, and I almost let the moment, here and now, slip.
I've had the day with Monty. Me and my son carried him onto our favourite spot on Cannock Chase and he laid on a blanket just resting and breathing in the fresh air whilst I drank coffee. We're both together on the bed now and will stay here until it's time. Is odd that he keeps looking up, expectantly, whenever there's a noise outside. Maybe he senses that I am expecting something. He eats absolutely nothing now, just drinks a lot of water, and he can't stand at all without collapsing. Karis I wonder if that could be something with his spine like Zuki? I wish I knew better exactly what was happening to him, but without lots of invasive tests (which he obviously can't have due to health) I guess I'll never know.
I don't know how tomorrow will be. I guess only time can bring some relief.
Thank you for being there.
xx
One thing that helped me stay in the moment was Input a rubber band around my wrist. If I found my mind wandering beyond the moment of being present, I zapped that rubber band hard to snap myself back into the moment. Needless to say, my wrist was red and sore, but it kept me in the present. I also put little notes all over the house to myself...STAY IN THE PRESENT!!! STAY IN THE NOW!!! BREATHE! If you don't have a rubber band, just pinch yourself.
I love that you enjoyed some time outside. I know Monty enjoyed smelling all the scents of nature.
He also probably smelled all the steaks they are cooking at the Bridge for his Welcome Home feast! Monty is going to be so happy to eat again!
I'm thinking Monty is hearing the welcoming pawty at the Bridge cranking it up for his arrival. They get pretty rowdy when our dogs arrive back home because they know how good they will feel. The celebrate like crazy!
We're with you........feel our strength holding you up.......we're with you and will stay with you......
Love and light
Sally and My Chunky Spiritual Being Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle and Frankie
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
Thinking of you today .... sending love!
XOXO
Alison & Spirit Shelby
Shelby Lynne; Jack Russell/Shiba Inu mix. Proud member of the April Angels of 2014.
October 15, 2000 to April 8, 2014
Our story: Broke rear leg in June 2013 - non-conclusive results for cancer so leg was plated and pinned. Enlarged spleen in September 2013 and had it removed and was diagnosed with Hemangiosarcoma and started chemotherapy. Became a Tripawd January 8th, 2014 and definitive Hemangiosarcoma diagnosis. Three major surgeries in 7 months and Shelby took them all like a champ only to lose her battle to cancer in her brain. We had 8 amazing extra months together and no regrets. #shelbystrong #loveofmylife
only an hour or so now to go for the vet. I thought he was going to go too early because he had a fit and his eyes went really grey and he wouldn't respond to me at all. He's settled now though. I am absolutely terrified of the massive loneliness I'm going to feel without him. And the sense of loss. He's been my everything for so long.
Don't jump ahead to those feelings now. Unfortunately, you'll have time for that and we will help you get through it...promise!!
Monty is definitely ready for transition. Focus on the love and the selfless gift of release you are giving him.
Breathe in calm.....Breathe in the peace of knowing Monty will be pain free....breathe in Monty's breath, he will be in every breath you take. Put your hand on his heart and let his heartbeat become yours. He will now always be in your heartbeat.
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
Do you have a bla ket handy, or even aa soft towel?? Wrap yourself up in it and know that we are wrapping you up in our hugs with that blanket wround you. You are safe and strong and calm with us hugging you through thst blanket. Just as Monty knows he is safe and loved with you by his side as he transitions..
Feel the security of knowing we are right there with you, just as Monty feels secure knowing you are right there with him
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
My Monty has gone now. The whole thing was lovely, which may seem like an odd way to describe it. Maya from Visiting Vets came and gave him a sedative, then the barbiturates when he was all relaxed. I stroked his head all the way through and told him what a good boy he is. I didn't cry til the end, and Maya, bless her cried too. He left with dignity, wrapped up in my pyjama top and a bunch of my hair. I just don't know how I am going to cope without my boy, but you guys have really helped me and I couldn't have done such a good job for Monty at the end without you. Thank you so so much.
Okay, now we will all break down and cry and sob hard...as I am doing right now.
Your strong unconditional love for Monty let you hold it together when it mattered most. And yes, I do understand using the word "lovely" and I do understand the relief that is felt initially when the transition is peaceful and, in Monty's case, welcomed. Yes, Monty left with his dignity, in his home, surrounded bynyiur love and wrapped up in it. You gave him a lovely send off indeed.
And yes, now the seemingly unbearable heartbreak comes. And the grief and sadness get worse before it gets better. There will be times when you don't even know how you will catch your next breath. We all have been there. And we can all tell you that you grieve hard when you love hard. We can tell you the intensity of thos journey is like no other.
We can also tell you that the thousands and thousands of happy times will eventually, slowly but surely, push the sadness further into the background.
As Jerry always reminds us, the last few days are just a blunk of an eye compared to the thousands of happy days you and Monty shared.
I have to head to work, but I'll be back. I know our entire Tripawd Family will be here for you. And when you are up to ot, we would love ro hear more about the adventures you and Monty shared and with lots of photos too!
We also have a helpline. Don't hesitate to call for support from those of us who understand. 1 844 TRIPAWD
Surrounding you with Monty's eternal love
Sally and My Chunky Spiritual Being Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle and Frankie too
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
For Monty, whose bright light can never be dimmed
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
My heart aches for you, Monty and the pack. I'm so sorry. It's not an easy time but you did right by him. In his new life as an eternal, happy spirit, he will thank you a thousand times over and always be there in your heart and by your side.
It's such a difficult decision and one that we never want to make. Sadly most times we find ourselves in the same situation with our beloved animals when it's their time to transition. Be good to yourself and give yourself time to heal. All of us here understand your grief, please lean on us when you feel the need OK? And if you'd like to share more about Monty the marvelous pup, hop over anytime to "Coping with Loss" to share pictures and stories, then we we can all celebrate his life with you.
We send many hugs and condolences coming your way.
Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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My heart breaks for you and your pack.
It was a warm, beautiful day here yesterday and I sat on my porch and watched my Doublestuff Oreo (Mel, Meesha and Kingston) play and snooze in the front yard sun. As I relished the hours, my heart was being tugged with the knowing that some day, my fur-babies will transition with or without my help. My hopes and prayers are that I will have the same grace you've shown on Monty's behalf.
When our Harmony transitioned, it was on her terms. I've always thought it was her gift to us knowing our souls were already beaten and tattered from the battle.
May peace be your pillow at night knowing your sweet angel is guarding your dreams.
Harmony became a Tripawd on 10/21/14 (MCT). She left us way too soon on 11/1/14.
"We miss you so much; our love, our heart, our Harmony."
- Pam, Ron and Melody, Meesha, Doublestuff and Mariah Carey
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