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6 June 2012 - 8:06 am
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Another question for Tango and me as we prepare for his surgery. It's just the two of us (luckily my boss has been very generous in letting me work form home while Tango recovers, I don't know what we would have done otherwise!).

 

I'm wondering about people's experiences in when it's ok to leave my new tri-pawd home alone, if I have to go get groceries or run an errand. I will be stocking up on everything we need for the forseeable future, but I'm just wondering about other folks experiences-basically I'm terrified about ever leaving him at home alone ever again:)

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6 June 2012 - 8:20 am
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Hi there...and welcome. It's great your boss let you work from home to be with your dog. I took three vacation days when Cadence had her surgery. We had our friend's 18 year old son and cousin to come watch her on the fourth day, then my husband was home with her on the 5th day. It was the weekend after that, and then Monday we were back to work and left her alone with the cone of shame . 

Options you might have are having a trusted friend/neighbor come watch him if you need to run out, or maybe doing grocery orders through Peapod which is a grocery home delivery service. Also if you have a large crate, you could put him in that too for a short period of time while you stepped out. We had Cadence quarantined to our living room (basically only carpeted area in the downstairs) because we didn't have a crate large enough for her to turn around in with the cone of shame on. 

I think the time you leave your tripawd alone depends on the dog and the person. I am a type A and need to watch and monitor everything so I was not able to leave Cadence alone by herself until that week was up and I saw that the healing was going along well. Plus if your tripawd is like mine, they will want to try everything all by themselves, including stairs *GASP*  while it is still too early in their healing process, and need to be monitored so they don't do too much. With the meds, sometimes they feel real good and think they can do more than what their body will allow. 

Definitely try to spend some time getting out, even if it's for a few minutes outside on your porch sitting with a lemonade and getting fresh air. It is important to take care of yourself as well and try to find some relaxation. 

 

Cadence's Mom

Cadence Faye: Born 10/30/04, stepped into our hearts 12/23/2004. Rear leg tumor found 7/24/11 by mom and dad, Xray on 7/25/11, Osteosarcoma suspected 7/26/11, amputation 7/29/11, Carboplatin started 8/23. Met free so far! 

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6 June 2012 - 8:30 am
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I will have this concern as well :-/ Unfortunately I don't have an understanding boss who will let me stay home. Ill have to figure out something to do for those first days.

Its wonderful your boss is so helpful 🙂

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6 June 2012 - 8:56 am
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Cadence's Mom's advice is spot-on. Each dog is different in their recovery times and most will try to overdo things too soon.

Start by keeping his general space confined to a small part of your house. Generally, after a week you should be able to expand the space and get back to normal routines. Walks should still be kept to strict potty walks during that first week and even into the second and third weeks he shouldn't go for more than a couple of minutes. 

The best thing you can do is be a strong pack leader. The first time you leave him alone, don't make a big deal about it on the outside (though we know your heart will be racing!). My folks started leaving me alone one hour or so at a time, and gradually increased it. What a relief it was for them to know that I wouldn't hurt myself!

Not every dog is lucky enough to have a pawrent who gets to stay home with them during recovery, many have to be left alone and just get checked on occasionally by dog sitters. But you know what? That's often the best recuperation scenario. Without a doting pawrent to freak out over every move, the new Tripawd gets to snooze all day long and build up his strength. When pawrents are around, dogs want to take care of them and be in charge so they can't relax. But if left alone while the pawrents go to work, the recuperation can be just as good, maybe even better.

No matter what your situation: be a strong pack leader. It makes all the difference in the world.

Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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6 June 2012 - 9:18 am
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I was lucky in some respects as I had vacation scheduled when Maggie was diagnosed so I was able to stay home with her the first week.  And then my dad took her for me the second week. Once her stitches were out I didn't worry about leaving her alone. But then Maggie was a slug after her surgery, I didn't have to worry about her doing too much, I had to coax her to do anything. Maggie was a tri-pug for almost 4 years, after she got over being an obstinate pug at the beginning I treated her just like my other pug.

Setting up a safe area for Tango when you go out should work- maybe a room where he can't access stairs or jump on or off furniture too much.  And I like Jerry's idea about some short trial runs. 

And being a strong pack leader is essential! That holds true for the whole process. If you act like everything is normal, then Tango will know everything is OK.

 

Karen and the pugapalooza

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6 June 2012 - 12:19 pm
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Thanks so much everybody for all the common-sense advice. My vet and surgeon have been great, but they don't always  have the most detailed info on the day-to-day stuff, so it's wonderful to have so many generous people to ask. 

I am so lucky to be able to stay home with him, but I hear you about not hovering by his side 24-7. Tango had terrible separation anxiety when I first adopted him, and the "no big deal" approach to leaving and coming back really helped him through that, now he takes it all in stride.

Anne

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6 June 2012 - 2:05 pm
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My vet and surgeon have been great, but they don't always have the most detailed info on the day-to-day stuff

 

The extent of the guidance I got from the surgeon and onc is that 'most dogs do fine on three legs'. Maggie had her amp before our founder Jerry so there was no Tripawds then.  I'm not sure I would have had any questions to ask anyway- I was so stunned by the diagnosis!

 

Karen and the pugapalooza

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6 June 2012 - 2:20 pm
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The first time we left Chico alone after his surgery was one week later.  We had to drive to another city for my college-aged daughter's recital and were gone about 7 hours.  He greeted us at the door with a toy in his mouth!  We had blocked off the doggie door so he couldn't go through it and hurt himself, but he had no problem with that and as soon as we got home, we took him outside and he came back in through the doggie door and didn't hurt himself at all.  We were worried for nothing!

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6 June 2012 - 4:52 pm
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There are a couple of options for leaving these guys alone at first (for both Tango and Piper). You can see if you have a neighbor who is willing to come check on the dog every couple of hours or so. And since it's summer and most kids are out of school, you can ask if there is a neighborhood kid who might like to earn a little money. Even a 10-year-old with a parent supervising would work out great. A dedicated young person is better than a ho-hum adult. Offer to pay them or to do something for them. Kids are often motivated by unusual things. (Someone is going to teach my 13-year-old son how to make soap next week and he is very excited. Anything like that has value.)

You can offer to pay someone (like a young person) or trade dog watching. I really like that idea. A neighbor comes every 90 minutes to let the dog out or check on him and then when they go on vacation down the road, you take the dog to your place. Or go and do the feeding and walking. However it works.

If you don't have any doggie neighbors, you can try to trade child care. Mom and Dad get a date night and in return they look in on the convalescing dog for a week. I'm really big on trading and doing the neighborly thing.

Shari

From abandoned puppy to Tripawd Warrior Dude, Dakota became one of the 2011 February Furballs due to STS. Our incredibly sweet friend lived with grace and dignity till he impulsively raced over the Bridge on 12-15-12.

Dakota's thoughtful and erudite blog is at http://shari.tr.....pawds.com/

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6 June 2012 - 6:16 pm
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We get Jack's staples out tomorrow, which makes me so excited. 🙂

 

But!  I was extremely, extremely fortunate at the timing of Jack's surgery...hate to say it, but it seemed like a good sign. 😉   Anyway, Jack's surgery was the Thursday before Memorial weekend.  He stayed Thursday night at vet's, and I got to pick him up on Friday, when I was done with work.  Had that three-day weekend to stay home, and my work was so wonderful to let me off an additional two days.  I left Jack alone after that, separate from the other dogs.

I actually put him in the master's bathroom in our house - it was big enough to have his bed, his bowl of water, room to lay on the cool tile, and a walk-in closet where he could go if he wanted to lay on carpet.  Worked out extremely well.  We had no problems with this arrangement until he tore his shirt off (and into ribbons) two days ago.  Since then, he's had the shirt while I'm here, the cone of shame when I'm gone.  I'll be happy to not have to worry about either.  I never realized Jack didn't care for shirts. 😉

I'm sure it depends on every dog, but I think after the first few days, it's ok to leave them alone.  I think Jack probably would have been ok after the 3rd day, honestly, but he was living life as a tripawd (the fourth leg was baggage the last few months) before the surgery.

Jack - adopted with a crooked leg at 4 months old, managed for six years, and now much-happier Tripawd as of 5/24/2012!

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