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20 November 2019 - 12:07 pm
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I said goodbye
She had arthritis. It seemed like her left side (the side with two legs, but the weaker side because of brain damage) was maybe getting weaker. She seemed to be having digestion issues
She was my baby
I’ve never referred to any other furry family members that way
I always felt that saying it like that wasn’t quite right for me. that even though I am the caretaker, somehow making them the baby … lessened
who they were … or … hmm…. like it was trying to make them fit into a human infant roll instead for my own needs.
But Cora was so little and helpless when I got her
She was a baby and much more than a normal pup. She struggled with basic stuff like eating and walking. It was years before she could wag her tail. I still remember how amazing it was when I said her name and she wagged that first time. And I never lost that joy, when she’d wag her tail.
And I saved her. I play that down because I feel like when people go on about that, they miss how amazing she is.
But still, I  nursed her through her surgeries
I slept on the floor with her the first few days after her stump got amputated. She’d only stop crying if was there with her. Until then she’d just been all need and angry and noise but then she needed us in a way no other being had.
From then on, she was my baby and she knew I would care for her.
I can’t tell you how many times when I came home or if she was outside, I’d say “where’s the baby”.  I also had so many nicknames for her. Rumple butt was one of my favorites. There was also grumpy guts.
Every day, I would pick her up and  carry her inside or outside. Sometimes she’d lean into me. Other times, she’d kicker her legs gently against me.
Sometimes, when she really wanted out or in, she’d thrash against me making it hard to keep my balance.
So full of life and determination.
She was a daily reminder of …miracle. That’s the gift she gave me.
When everyone said she was hopeless I knew she wasn’t. I am so grateful to have that knowledge in my life.
And this feels like giving up.
Except I didn’t want her to suffer
It was a gut wrench decision to make. I wasn’t ready, but the bad days were out numbering the good. And if I was honest, the good days were really just ok.
Once I made the decision I had to wait until I could get a day off.
A coworker agreed to work a double shift.
It was done at the clinic I work at. And the vet I love, who worked with her recently, came in on her day off to do it.
And after I decided she had two decent days. And she was super cuddly during those days. More so than normal.
But that last night and that morning she was miserable
Cora is Cora and had to go out fighting and cursing at the world.
Once I got there, she was only quiet if she was in my arms. 
So we did the whole thing with me holding her. And she made it hard but at least I was there, holding her.
She’s just been so freaking inspiring  to me. And demanding and silly and warmth in my arms. 
I can’t believe she’s gone
The house is so empty and quiet.
She always had so much to say. A friend said that every day, was talk like a pirate day with Cora. It fit so well. She’d grunt and grumble and bark and make noises I can’t even describe. She’d talk herself to sleep.
And now, now all I have is silence.
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20 November 2019 - 2:17 pm
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Oh Topher, I’m so sorry. 

Cora is such an inspiration- you gave that girl a chance when no one else would have.  She had a wonderful life because of your love and patience and perseverance. You have been rewarded with unconditional love and a soul who will never leave your side.

Those special ones, they are never really gone.  Just as you never gave up on her (yesterday was a gift, not giving up!) she will not leave you alone.  The lessons you learned from her will bring you strength and peace as you navigate the coming days and weeks.  And you know to watch out for her- she will be by your side forever.

It is never, ever easy to make this decision but you make it with love and because it was what Cora needed.  I know the silence in the house is deafening, even when there are other creatures about. 

Karen and the Spirit Pug Girls

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20 November 2019 - 2:34 pm
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I don’t even know where to begin T. This was not what I was ever expecting to see. I thought she would live forever.

I guess I could start with “I’m sorry,” but I have a sense that your little spitfire wouldn’t want that. Her tough girl attitude about life shined through from the beginning. She got a raw deal when she was born into this world but she wasn’t going to let that drag her down. Nope, as if through magic or divine intervention she found the best human on the planet to look after her needs. And you did! What a MIRACLE she was!

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Everyone who is new here, please, read “Cora’s Miracle” story and be inspired. This girl was a one-of-a-kind and although the heavens are a little brighter with her in them now, down here on earth our hearts are heavy from this great loss.

Topher you DID save her, and gave her a chance when nobody else would. The bond you and Cora created is a one-of-a-kind that will never be repeated, but the memories will be with this community furever.

We are here for you in this very, very sad time, and always. Lean on Floyd, lean on us, and know that Cora will never, ever be forgotten.

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20 November 2019 - 3:29 pm
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Our dear, dear Topher, I am so sad, so very very sad and heartbroken  to hear this.   Tears all over the place right now.  

I don’t even know how to begin to respond  right now.  The lessons she taught us all, the lessons you taught us all through your unflappable  love and devotion are part of her miracle  It is a true privilege,  a true honor, to know this strong willed and determined Soul who found the most PERFECT loving Soul with a heart that knows know limits.  You understood Cora on a level of connection that no  one else could evvvver have been able to make her life full of happiness, security  and joy.  

Like several of us here, I’ve been on the sidelines for years cheering for you and Cora and marveling at the seemingly  impossible hurdles you two overcame.  You overcame them because  you understood  her and because  she knew she could trust you to always look after her.

So for anyone looking for inspiration and looking for courage and strength  on overcoming challenges,  please read the link Jerry posted. “Cora’s Miracle” story.  You will cheer, you will cry and you will cheer some more.

As hard as it was to let Cora transition to the Bridge, it warms my heart knowing  she will be free of all the obstacles  that faced her in her earth clothes.  She will be pain frre, she will see the beauty  of open fields for her to run free, she will have no fear, no uncertainty.  She will understand  the depth of love…the limitless  depth of love and dedication  you gave her…more than 2as ecer possible  qhile kn jer earth clot.  And she took your “earth love” with her and now it’s  magnified  in ways we can only imagine.

Topher, we often talk about the void, the break in routine, the silence we all feel when our beloved Souls transition back “home”.  After your day to day devotion,  the way you made your home Cora friendly,  the non stop care and watch over her……yoir void will seem unbearable.   And we all wish we could help, but we know we can’t.   We wish with all our hearts and Souls we could ease uour grief, but we can’t. 

We can celebrate  this beloved  miracle Soul and celebrate  all the miracles you and Cora made happen together.  Cora’s life mattered!!    She was not going to be denied  her chance to live on her own terms because you two were born to be together!!

Thank you, thank you both for gracing  us with your presence.   All our lives have been touched and our hearts have been expanded as a result❤

With all my heart, send you love and comfort

Sally and Alumni Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle and Frankie too 

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My eyes are filled with tears reading this here at the office. I know we don’t know each other but I have read your stories and they warmed my heart. I know she was a one in a lifetime kind of special, and you were her angel here on earth. Now she will be your forever Angel in your heart and on the other side. You gave her something that only you could give. 

I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending you hugs, many hugs. Please find some peace in knowing your baby is free of all obstacles now. And she knew a love that she would never have known if it weren’t for you. You did such amazing things for her.. I mean, above and beyond just doesn’t even begin to describe the love you showered her with. 

Keeping you in my thoughts,

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Wow, Cora was an amazing little dog!  I’m late to her story, but thank you so much for sharing about her.  I love that she was able to eventually grow into wagging her tail to share with you her energy and joy at hearing her name.  That moment, on that day must of been one of the best any person on this planet has ever had.  I can relate to having had to make the decision to say its time feels like giving up, which is weird because giving up implies taking the easy path of least resistance and having the fortitude to make the decision to minimize suffering is anything but easy and requires extra work effort and strength (especially in the first weeks/months following) and most importantly love and selflessness.  The empty, quiet house and the sudden loss of all your daily routines together are awful.  I had to carry my Nyaya in and out the last few years of her life, it was the only time she would let me do anything close to ‘hugging’ her as she was too energetic to want to be held.  I miss that “job” the most.  You were so fortunate to have had her in your life.  I wish you the best in navigating through the pain of your loss and hope your tears are accompanied by a smile of appreciation and pleasure in your lives together.



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Topher,

I am so so sorry.  Cora was a true little Miracle and you help with that Miracle.  I missed this and saw your announcement on FB.  I just can’t believe it.  I figured she would go forever because she was such a little fighter.  She showed all of us what could be accomplished.    All the stories of her and Floyd and all the times you spend hugging her when she first let you. 

You never gave up on her when those vets said to.  Nope no way she was your Cora.  Your sweet little girl.  Watch for signs and you know she will let you know she is Ok.   I am sorry that this happened.  The quiet is always the hardest part and then feeling like you have nothing to do because that part of the caring is gone.  🙁  

I have tears running down my face.  Sending lots of hugs and love

xoxoxo

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