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OMD, Elizabeth,
I'm struck dumb by the people at your work. First they say "it's just a dog" and now this?! And you have been so patient with them -- far much so than I could have ever been. My girls are my babies, just as Sammy and Shy are yours, and if you think of it in terms of two-legged children, how many of us out there would put up with this s*&t?! If you were on your way to pick up your toddler from a daycare which closed at a specific time and they were blocking your way, would you blow it off or not speak up? Absolutely not, and no one would think less of you for having done so. So how come it's okay (in their minds) for them to do this? Can you say "harassment?" Most companies don't tolerate this sort of thing, and I'm shocked that it's the union reps that are the perpetrators. (Is there a chance that the union "chain of command" superiors might be of assistance?)
Okay, I'm done ranting... This is just not acceptable!!!!.... I love some of the suggestions here.... mastiff poo is good ammo, and b*@chslapping is \something fun to consider. I'm not from Jersey, but I'm a child of the "wrong side of the tracks," so if ya'll need anybody to knock some sense into these a-holes, just let me know. I'm only about an hour and a half's drive away!!!!
Hang in there,
Micki and the Woo (and she can kick some serious butt!)
~ ~ Rio ~ ~ |
Totally!!! Let me at 'em! Nobody messes with my friends!!!!
~ ~ Rio ~ ~ |
PS: Elizabeth, you handled yourself and this situation very professionally and gracefully! You rock! I doubt that my "Momma Bear" instincts could've been overcome long enough to engage these idiots as patiently and respectfully as you did. You are my new hero!!! Seriously! You took the high road, and as much fun as it would have been to get even with these MORONS, you got your point across with quiet dignity. (I must learn how to do this! Dignity has never been my strong suit! )
Micki
~ ~ Rio ~ ~ |
Man, I am blushing!
Have you ever worked or been in a place where people aren't sypathetic to animals? These people think I am nuts because there are so many stories daily of dogs that are spoted wandering, or a cat that has been hit by a car, or just yesterday an old black lab that was convulsing on the street and nobody does ANYTHING.
I can't listen to stories like the lab yesterday without getting in my car and going to find him. My fellow workers call me "the animal hugger" because I will spend my lunch time hunting down these animals. Sometimes my dispatcher will call animal control. There is usually a two or 3 day wait period before anything is done unless it is a vicious animal call.
I went up into the hills yesterday after this dog, he fell down into a gulley. I saw him, he was an old, white faced black lab, who was called in having a seizure on the side of the road. I had kids on board so I couldn't do anything then, but as soon as I could I went back and saw him fall into a gulley. I searched and searched for him, until I had to go back to work. I called animal control, never got a call back. I went again today, there were no signs posted for missing dogs, he wasn't there.
I had a hard time sleeping last night, thinking about this dog. It was snowing at my house, and so cold this morning. I tried to talk about it at work today, no volunteers to come help me look. They think I am nuts about animals, way too sensitive. So, I try not to push my views on anyone, I just try and point out to the kid who is starving her turtle because her dad won't let her get a puppy until her turtle dies, that it isn't "just a turtle", it has a life, and feels pain, and suffers just like any being that has life. I try and point out to my co-workers, that Sammy may be "just a dog" to them, but he doesn't live with them, he lives with me, and I love him, so that is all that should matter. I love him, my feelings are valid.
Their kid doesn't live with me, but he lives with them, and they love him. I should respect that.
I get nothing! It is a child, not a dog… okay, fine. I give up. So, that is what I face when dealing with issues like this, even from my boss. Someone else said something similar their boss said. My boss told me he calls his dog dumb, and other names, because dogs don't understand anything anyway, they are just dumb animals.
Don't you wish companies would advertise if they have a majority of dog lovers or animal lovers at work? It would make it so much easier in the interview process
I wish I could help others see dogs the way I do, but it hurts this way too. That is the downside. I don't try like I do because I want to feel like a super star. I keep getting in my car to go look because to me those dogs and cats are going to suffer if someone doesn't help. I have to be able to sleep at night. I wish sometimes that I could de-sensitize a little.
Ok, enough of the rambling!
Here is to today, love you furry faced kids tonight they are so very lucky indeed to have you.
Elizabeth and the super Sammy
Diagnosed with osteosarcoma in the right front leg 8/23/10,
leg fractured 8/27/10,
leg amputated 8/30/10
http://sammyand.....pawds.com/
I couldn't begin to say how special Sammy is to us. Living and laughing with and loving this wonderful boy is priceless.
I wish sometimes that I could de-sensitize a little.
Me too. I used to be insane about it. I'm better since I have come to realize that I"m not the only one that cares. I have picked up so many dogs and taken them to shelter, I've lost track. But if you are surrounded by people who don't seem to care, then you do tend to feel like you are the only one that cares and it's a race against time to help.
Once I spent a whole summer trying to get a chow to let me touch him. (I'm chow experienced and had a chow at the time) It's Vegas and it's was 115 outside everyday. My friend and I finally trapped hime with a package of ham and flimsy crate. On the way to the shelter we had car trouble and had to stop in a parking lot. Of course it was too hot but we were afraid he'd be aggressive since I couldn't touch him for 2 months out in the desert. We had just trapped him! He was a teddy bear once I made an attempt to leash him in the car! I was even able to pick him up and put him back in the crate.
I seriously mean this, Elizabeth...don't waste your time with those types of people. Be polite but ignore them and don't divulge anything personal. Just keep it professional, so to speak. Those types are typically insecure and are pulling antics to get attention and to make themselves look important. If you give no attention and don't react to the shenanagins, they won't be getting a rise out of you and they will stop.
Comet - 1999 to 2011
She departed us unexpectedly January 23, 2011 at the age of 12 1/2.
She was born with a deformed front leg and a tripawd all of her life.
cometdog said:
I wish sometimes that I could de-sensitize a little.
Me too. I used to be insane about it. I'm better since I have come to realize that I"m not the only one that cares. I have picked up so many dogs and taken them to shelter, I've lost track. But if you are surrounded by people who don't seem to care, then you do tend to feel like you are the only one that cares and it's a race against time to help.
Oh my gosh, you get it! You get it… I love this place!!! Thanks Cometdog, that is so cool. I feel like you reached inside and shown a light on a part of me that I knew but couldn't verbalize. That is exactly right.
Other advice will be taken. Thanks for the reply.
Elizabeth
Diagnosed with osteosarcoma in the right front leg 8/23/10,
leg fractured 8/27/10,
leg amputated 8/30/10
http://sammyand.....pawds.com/
I couldn't begin to say how special Sammy is to us. Living and laughing with and loving this wonderful boy is priceless.
oh, poo. I guess I am not allowed to touch the quote button.....
Diagnosed with osteosarcoma in the right front leg 8/23/10,
leg fractured 8/27/10,
leg amputated 8/30/10
http://sammyand.....pawds.com/
I couldn't begin to say how special Sammy is to us. Living and laughing with and loving this wonderful boy is priceless.
fightingforsammy said:
oh, poo. I guess I am not allowed to touch the quote button.....
You can still edit and correct it. Just highlight your response and click the quote button - that will turn it off.
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