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My boy JD was diagnosed with histocytic sarcoma last Feb and underwent his amp at the end of Feb. I am heavily involved in rescue and waited for a month to bring in another foster dog and only did temp fostering. This fall I brought in two fosters dogs, with the intention to keep one, because I have always wanted a female pittie rescue and I both of these are mixes. The one I want to keep is a bit of a bull in a china shop, crazy but smart and gets JD to engage in play but also barks at him when he doesn't play luckily she's easily distracted. She respects him when he gets grumpy and never fights back when he tells her the toys are his! They are a true brother and sister, they play together and her being the younger one annoys him! I haven't had to decide if I wanted to keep her yet because she's been under treatment for demodex mange which hopefully she will be cleared of tomorrow after a skin scraping is done!
Adding another dog to the family is a huge decision to me, I'm single and JD is the centre of my life especially after he got cancer. I feel that what could be the last year of his life should be dedicated to him, he's doing wonderful right now but we all know that can change. I'm not sure if another dog would take away from him, as fosters I can just transfer out but a permanent dog is here to stay. I like that she will get him to play but she's also very energetic and he is not. I want what time he has left to be great, but will another dog add stress to him, he is used to other dogs coming and going but no one permanent. He's had dogs he loves mainly another rottie and I think he tolerates this dog but doesn't love her. I will be devastated when he leaves and I think another dog may help with that?
I hope my rambling makes sense I want to do what's best for the fam and ensure I'm not cheating JD out of my attention or adding additional stress to him. Any tips, advice or own stories would be greatly appreciated.
I have attached a photo of JD and his "sisters" the brindle is the one I'm considering keeping
It's wonderful to hear from you and to see JD!! I jist got through looki g at his wo derfulphoto for Christmas
this stupod tablet is starting to frreze up...no, not that polar vortex kind of freeze!
Anyway, I want t respond to this and to the Christmas photos...but will have to wait cuz this is going to crash...You take the pittie mix...I'll take the little black and white ond!
JD will trainyour pittie...I think they're go na be great friends
ok...more later.....just wo derful to near vrom you
Love to all
Sallh and Haph Hannah
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
While Roxy was undergoing treatments, I made the decision to adopt another dog. Roxy and Zeus would only know each other for a short week before Roxy left us, but I am so thankful that I did. Zeus has been a great addition, and a wonderful help to us.
Here's a post I wrote when we decided to get another friend. Every situation is different, but maybe it will help you in some small way.
Thanks for the input Mica, I was thinking of you.
Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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Well said Mica. We love you and will ALWAYS have that Sweet Roxy in our heats! ALWAYS! Hugs to you and Zeus...would love for you to do a few pics and stories on him
Sooooooo glad to hear JD is doing so well!! No ti e frame stamped on that boy's butt, that's for sure!! JD takes THE best pictures (hint--hint)
Yeah, this is an emotionally touch decision, thats for sure. I can only say...with absoliste certainty...you would never let anything interfere withyour relationship with JD...just not in your nature...not go a happen! I can also say...with absolute certainty...because of your love for JD...you have a HUGE expansive heart and can spread your love around without compromising anybody's love
You have "something"...some inner voice...telling you this is the dog for you and JD...it seems to me anyway. I think the fact that she "listens" to him and respects him is probably a big plus as far as JD's concerned.
Just get i to a quiet grounded "heart space" and see what "feels" right.....I think you may already have the answer within just waiting to be validated.
PLEASE post more pics when you can. It was just wonderful to get such a great update! Rock on JD, rok on!!!
Love and hugs to all!
Sally and Happy Hannah
PS....Still waiting for the scoop on the "other" sista'!
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
From my perspective having two dogs makes lots of sense. I am also single and at work for 10 hours a day, I like that my two keep each other company. However it depends on the dog too. My first pug Maggie was perfectly content to be an only dog and was not happy at first when I brought her little sis Tani home, but the eventually became inseperable. When we were getting close to the end of the journey with Maggie I started thinking about bringing another dog into the pack when she passed because Tani had never been an only dog. When Mag did pass it reinforced my thinking because Tani was quite mopey. 5 weeks later I adopted a boy pug I named Obie. Well, they are not exactly inseperable! Obie has been with us for 3.5 years and just in the past month Tani has started sleeping with her chin on his hip like she used to to with Mag (the bed is big enough that they can sleep without touching). Tani is totaly deaf and half blind and she does rely on him for cues as to what is going on. And I do think that even if they are not really close the benifit from each others company. It was a juggling act with a tripawd and a more energetic pup, meeting their individual exercise needs, so that is something to consider. I am in the same situation now though since Tani is 13.5 years old and Obie is only 7, I am very careful to make sure that they each get plenty of attention. I have been asked a couple times over the last year if I wanted to take on other pups. But I feel like right now that would not be fair to Tani.
As far as having a pup when one passes- I am very thankful that Tani was around when Maggie passed. It really helped to have something to focus on and not come home to an empty house.
Karen
Tri-pug Maggie survived a 4.5 year mast cell cancer battle only to be lost to oral melanoma.
1999 to 2010
First off it is wonderful that you foster and adopt rescue dogs. I'm in the process of adopting another Weimaraner. I lost my Tripawd last April and my current dog (a quadpawd) seems fine alone but I, like Karen work and am away from home about 9 hrs a day- 3 days a week. I feel really guilty leaving her in her pen alone. She loves my sisters dogs when they are here and they play and play. I definitely think the dynamic changes when you get a second dog but I don't think it's a bad thing. You won't love JD any less. Dogs are pack animals and they do love their kind. But they love their people too. I see it as a new friend for JD and you are rescuing a dog, all good stuff from where I'm at.
Penny, Blink and Spirit Maggie
Thank you everyone so much. The tripawd family has been phenomenal with so many things and I knew this would be another topic you would be able to help me with. I think I will keep Takeela (the pittie's name), as I do think it will be good for JD to have someone play with otherwise he would just lay there doing not much of anything other than chewing on a bone. And when it comes time to his passing I do not think I can handle coming home to an empty house, I already plan on taking significant time off work when he starts to not do so well, so will need someone else to occupy my time as well.
And Benny55 the other girl is Mags, I love her as well but she's picky with other dogs so would be tough to foster if I kept her. But she gets to stay with me for as long as it takes.
And I'm sorry I haven't been on here more, I feel like when I come back I'm so out of the loop and more people have commented the same thing I would say on topics! Everyone here is amazing and has helped me so much. I follow on Facebook all the time and its wonderful to see all the tripawds doing so well, and sad to see those that have passed to the rainbow bridge.
Aww I'm so glad everyone's feedback helped. You are following your heart and it shows.
Please never apologize for not being here as much as you'd like. No guilt OK? You are living life to the fullest and that's what your pack needs right now. You are always welcome here no matter how long you've been away. {{{{{hugs}}}}}
Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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Yep! Ditto everybody!! See...you can still come back and just post "ditto"
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
Okaaaaaay.......is this your version of "ditto"? hmmmmmmmm...................
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
I'm a little late to this post, but wanted to add my 2 cents. 😀
You laid out all the pros and cons very conscientiously, and you will be the only one to be able to judge what works best. 4 weeks after my Brendol had her amputation, I came across another tripawd needing a home. I already had Brendol and Aissa and 2 cats. None of them were best friends, but they weren't enemies either. All my fuzzy kids are pretty independent of each other. I weighed the same fors and againsts as you did. In the end, I chose to take in Adelaide, the then 1 year old husky. Brendol had some fun with her and sometimes she was very annoyed with her. Just like she would have been even if she was 5 years younger. My Brendol did pass in August, 6 months after bringing in Adelaide. But during their shared time, I think Adelaide helped keep a little pep in B's step. And it helped me to not focus so much on my grief with her passing because I still had this happy energetic pup that needed me to tend to her. My other dog, Aissa, is 11 and can't go for the same long walks as Addy. To address that, I got a large pet stroller . So we walk as long as Aissa can hang, and then she hops in for a ride the rest of the way.
Hind sight, I'd do it all over again.
Since this intiial post was a month ago, I'm assuming you already made your decision. I hope everyone is enjoying their time. They are all very cute. My Brendol was a pitt mix, so I have a soft spot for those sweet faces. And JD has a very sweet smooshable looking face.
Karma, Adelaide and the crew, and our sweet angel Brendol
Adelaide is a young tripawd Husky, from an injury. Her amp was on 10/1/12. She has 4 sisters, Aissa (a senior border collie/chow), Maggie May (a puppy Great Pyrenees), Mathilde and Morrigan and 1 baby brother, Bagheera. We are all watched over by our angel Brendol, who was dx with OSA 1/30/13, amp on 2/6/13, and left us on 8/20/13.
You can read their stories at http://adelaide.tripawds.com and http://brendol.tripawds.com
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