Thanks for all of the replies!  Jerry - no problem on moving the thread.  Glad for it to be where it is the most helpful.  And for anyone who is trying to answer "how will my big dog handle it?"  - Duchess has handled it so, so well!  There were times it would have been easier if she was easy to pick up, but I think, in the end, that made her stronger quicly.  We worked hard to not be nervous around her and to give her space to progress in her time.  I still remember the first time she did stairs - we were shocked!  Giving her time to figure things out was probably harder for us than it was for her.  That is the wonderful thing about the dog's spirit - they just do.  They don't have the anxiety we can have sometimes. 

We get such a kick out of her and her strong personality.  And just spoil her....except we can't give her as many cookies as she requests. Must watch the waistline.  

Huga- yes it sounds like they have lots in common.  You are practically explaining our every day! And I do think she like the pictures.  I know the outfits are a little kooky, but she really does not seem to mind.  Put her in public, like a parade or around kids and she literally struts.  

BCullom - it is a great name!  

Jerry and Sally - I think you are on to something! We even slept on the floor on her bed with her when she was drugged up and waking up "hollering." But, we don't mind, we love it.

Happy holidays to everyone!