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My sweet Shan just finished 5 rounds of carboplatin a couple of weeks ago. The period of time she was going through that was kind of insane - my job was crazy, my Mom had heart surgery, another one of my dogs was diagnosed with glaucoma and had to have surgery to remove some benign tumors, I got very sick for a while, etc.. I am so relieved to not have to be making the twice a day, hour and 1/2 drive to the onco every 3 weeks and super happy that Shan has that behind her, but I am now feeling a little lost. The hectic schedule kept me from focusing on the fear and doing the work to get her treatment and providing after care made me feel like I was really helping her "fight" the cancer. With that phase done, I now feel more helpless and more afraid. I feeding my girl well, giving her supplements, and loving her as much as I can, but I'm not quite sure how to shake the feeling of being powerless. Has anyone else experienced these post-chemo blues and does it pass? Any suggestions on how to get back the proactive feeling?
While I'm at it, I want to say that I am really grateful for this site. It really helped preserve my sanity when things were so overwhelming. What an amazing community of animal lovers gather here!
You might want to ask your doc about metronomic protocol. It's a low dose, oral chemo that you give at home to help to keep metastasis. If you do a search on the forums, you will find numerous posts about it. We did MP with our Max after 6 rounds of carbo. It did work for a few months, but unfortunately metastasis occurred, as we knew it eventually would. But I felt the same way you did after chemo ended: what else can we do to help our boy?? It's great that you're thinking ahead already!!
First off, congrats on finishing the chemo and surviving all of those emotional ordeals with your sanity intact! This is a major hurdle behind you, take time to celebrate this important accomplishment. We send lots of cheers, wags and woofs to you and Shan! Cheers for a better year ahead!
I think the important thing to remember is that you are doiing things to fight it. Every day, from the time you prepare a healthy meal for her to the supplements she gets to the emotional support you are giving her by enjoying every minute together, it all adds up. By not stressing over prognosis and statistics and the "what ifs", you are doing something. So never forget that. "Be More Dog " does a long way toward helping your dog be as happy and stress-free as possible. I believe this is a big factor in helping to keep cancer away.
Maximutt is correct, Metronomic Protocol is really showing a lot of promise to help fight cancer in the long term. We have a good post about it here, and you can share this information with your vet. I hope it helps:
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The 'care' of the cancer amputee never ends. You will always be actively involved in her well being. You will choose the medications and treatment plans. You will choose the diet and exercise to keep her strong and healthy. You will make sure her environment is safe and free of anything that could cause her harm - carpet runners in place, boots for her paws, ramps, stairs, etc to help her navigate safely. You will never stop reading, researching, and learning about the disease, about treatment, about what others have done and whether they were successful.
It just seems like your work is done because it doesn't involve all the time on the road. We are all here to tell you, your work will never be done. It may change pace a bit, but there is always something to learn, to try, to communicate to help someone else along the way.
Shanna & Spirit Trouble ~ Trouble gained her wings 3/16/2011, a 27 1/2 month cancer survivor, tail wagging. RIP sweetheart, you are my heart and soul. Run free at Rainbow Bridge.
The November Five - Spirits Max, Cherry, Tika, Trouble & Nova. 11/2008 - 3/2013 An era ends as Queen Nova crossed the Bridge.
So glad I asked and thanks for the replies. I really appreciate the info on the metronomic protocol. Shan has her first post-chemo checkup on the 29th and that should be just right for me to do some independent research to be prepared to consult my onco when I see him then. I so know that I need to be more like my dog - she hasn't been worried since we took care of that very painful leg. But I keep getting caught up in how much I hate cancer, how it is so unfair that someone as perfectly loving as Shan should have this awful disease, and how much I just want to "punch cancer's lights out" and then I'm all hot and bothered again. I'll just have to keep working on getting to my Zen state - I should just watch Shan; she's got that relaxed meditation thing down pat! (That is, when she isn't in her running wild, act like a puppy state)
You will get past this frenzy stage you are in. I think we all go through it to some degree. Everyone agrees it isn't fair, and there is anger and fear that we all have to confront. Don't put all your hope on metronomics . I think it is a great protocol, but not all vets see the point in adding it to the mix. I think if Trouble had developed mets, Dr F may have entertained the idea, but since she didn't he was perfectly ok to use the wait and see attitude. He always went with the 'if it ain't broke, don't fix it' philosophy. I can't really complain, his steady guidance gave us more time than we ever dreamed we would have.
I had to get past those statistic numbers before I began to relax and accept how truly special this time we were given was. I remember so clearly sitting in the yard with Trouble one evening in the early spring and realizing I was no longer afraid she would die. It truly was the moment that set me free. I still knew she would die one day, but the fear was gone.
There were five of us who started the journey together. Max, Cherry, & Tika all said goodbye right around those 'statistic' numbers. Trouble made it 27 1/2 months, Nova is going strong more than 4 years later. No one knows how much time they have, no one knows why some are blessed with many more months than the other. You just have to play the cards you're dealt, be thankful for each and every day, build those friendships here that will get you through the tough parts and just keep moving forward. You are just beginning your journey, you will continue to grow and adapt.
Shanna & Spirit Trouble ~ Trouble gained her wings 3/16/2011, a 27 1/2 month cancer survivor, tail wagging. RIP sweetheart, you are my heart and soul. Run free at Rainbow Bridge.
The November Five - Spirits Max, Cherry, Tika, Trouble & Nova. 11/2008 - 3/2013 An era ends as Queen Nova crossed the Bridge.
I think we all know how you're feeling! I believe I wrote almost exactly the same post after Lily finished chemo-----felt helpless, not doing enough, what should I do now, etc. Lily did 5 rounds of chemo after her amp, and we feed her high protein, very low carbs-now what???
We decided not to do metronomic therapy right away. Lily still has no mets (as I write that I'm thinking please don't let that jinx her--crazy!) Her stomach is so sensitive that I just didn't want her to be uncomfortable. I still question that. I do feel that I am a little "more dog" now. I am so, so grateful for the 13 months we have had so far.
Everyone has given wonderful advice-we are all in this journey together. As Hugapitbull said, "You will grow and adapt." So true.
Thinking of you,
Joan and Lily
Our beautiful Lily was diagnosed with osteosarcoma in her front leg on 12/14/11 at age 8 and had amp on 12/16/11. She completed 5 rounds of carbo. She was so brave and kicked cancer's butt daily! She lived life fully for 4 years, 3 months, and 15 days after her amp. My angel is a warrior princess. I miss her so much.
joantroj said
I think we all know how you're feeling! I believe I wrote almost exactly the same post after Lily finished chemo-----felt helpless, not doing enough, what should I do now, etc.
That's funny- when I saw the topic title I thought it was someone posting in an old thread...
I got completely hung up in Maggie's prognosis. She had mast cell cancer with lymph node involvement and her prognosis was 6 to 9 months, I did chemo hoping to get that far. When she was done with chemo at 6 months I just assumed we had about 3 months more and I was kind of watching the clock. All the while Maggie was going on with her life without a care in the world, as long as her food was served on time. Mag was one of the lucky ones and really beat the prognosis. I finally figured out that I needed to take a more optimistic approach to her life, and instead of assuming she would be gone in a month or two, assume that she would still be here.
It is definitely an acquired skill, to Be More Dog , something I am still working on!
Karen and the pugapalooza
Congrats on finishing the IV chemo. That's a big step to get through.
I also always felt like I needed to be doing something proactive - even if just something small. (Like, I didn't totally prepare Abby's meals - because I was afraid I would miss some nutrients she needed - but I would mix in some home-cooked chicken and veggies with her kibble. A very small thing - but I wanted to feel like I was doing something.)
We also went the MP route. And we added in artemisinin to Abby's supplements. Now that chemo is done, this is the chance to add supplements that you might not have added before due to not wanting to cause tummy upset.
Your Shan is gorgeous!
Jackie, angel Abby's mom
Abby: Aug 1, 2009 – Jan 10, 2012. Our beautiful rescue pup lived LARGE with osteosarcoma for 15 months – half her way-too-short life. I think our "halflistic" approach (mixing traditional meds + supplements) helped her thrive. (PM me for details. I'm happy to help.) She had lung mets for over a year. They took her from us in the end, but they cannot take her spirit! She will live forever in our hearts. She loved the beach and giving kisses and going to In-N-Out for a Flying Dutchman. Tripawds blog, and a more detailed blog here. Please also check out my novel, What the Dog Ate. Now also in paperback! Purchase it at Amazon via Tripawds and help support Tripawds!
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