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What Does "Three Legged Dog" Say to You?
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17 February 2010
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I have a question for you all . . .

Think back to the way you saw the world before you became the pawrent of a Tripawd. When you heard the phrase "three legged dog," what did that phrase mean to you? Did it conjure up positive images? Negative ones? Pity? Bravery?

And now, as the pawrent of a Tripawd, what does that phrase mean to you today?

Inquiring minds want to know . . .

Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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17 February 2010
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Wow, good question.

I think before, it was depending on the situation.  And if it's in the case where you just heard and didn't meet/see the dog?

If I heard dog attack, I would think pity.

If I heard abuse, I would think anger. (Still do, I think of Wyatt Ray and I still frost over)

I was fortunate to be raised in an environment where I was exposed to so-called 'deformities' in both humans and dogs, so I never thought of the imagery, but the cause.

Of course, three-legged dog because of cancer wasn't even on my radar!

However, now?  Bravery, personal humility (how could we ever live up to the lessons our dogs give us), strength.  I guess an overall feeling of, "If this happened to me. Could I be this strong?"

I work with a lady that works with therapy dogs, and we've been sharing stories of what we've read about how three-legged dogs are proving so instrumental in the recovery of amputees, especially war vets and children. I could see why.  

When Tika and the pack went to the Bark for Life and they heard her story, you could see the wheels turning. Of course not everybody understands, and understands the time/money/heartache that we would go through for our companions.

Sadly enough, my co-worker's dog was diagnosed with mast cell cancer, her vet is somewhat of an idiot in my book and she agrees, but she did get 11 lumps removed and the dog has been bouncing off the walls ever since.  She said she understood now why you go forth and try.  Just to see that spark of joy and happiness when you come home.

And that, is the lesson we all learn from the 'three-legged dawg'.

Peace, Kim and Spirit Tika

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17 February 2010
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When I heard "3 legged dog" before, I would think what a strong soul!  To go thru whatever it was they had experienced and survive it so well. 

Now that Chuy is part of our family I think, Brave, happy, grateful.  That is the spirit that Chuy conveys to us.  He is always happy (except when he's on Phenatol patch).  He has his own way of saying Thank You to us for being there for him.  He actually jumps up and tries to hug us, he always hops over for a pet after he has a biscuit.  I really believe he's saying TY!

Eleanor & Chuy

Chuy, showing everyone that Tripawds do everything 3 times better than regular dogs!

Chuy's Short Stories

17 February 2010
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 I have to think on this one.  It's been so many years and so many ups and downs.  I can't just write something off-the-cuff.

Good question.  I can't wait to read others.

Her Retired AvatarComet - 1999 to 2011

She departed us unexpectedly  January 23, 2011 at the age of 12 1/2.

She was born with a deformed front leg and a tripawd all of her life.

18 February 2010
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Before I had only known one other dog with three legs.  Old Rocky lost his leg in an accident.  He was a stray who wondered up to a friend's house and found a home.  Rocky could do anything any other dog could do, so I never gave his 'difference' much thought.  He accepted who he was, and so did everyone who met him.

With Troble these many years later, it is much the same.  My throught when I see a tripawd now is pawsome - bravery, courage, heart, love all rolled into one.  How much better can it get?!

Shanna & Spirit Trouble ~ Trouble gained her wings 3/16/2011, a 27 1/2 month cancer survivor, tail wagging. RIP sweetheart, you are my heart and soul.  Run free at Rainbow Bridge.
The November Five - Spirits Max, Cherry, Tika, Trouble & Nova. 11/2008 - 3/2013 An era ends as Queen Nova crossed the Bridge.

18 February 2010
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I really only had one experience with a three legged dog, and that was many years ago. She lost her leg because some shot her for beiging on their land, so my reaction was, anger and sadness that someone could and would be so cruel to a dog.

Today a three legged dog to me is, strength, love and bravery and in Tashsa's case just pure joy of life.

Jo Ann & Tashsa

Tasha 8 years old, First cancer diagnosis 6/26/09, Last cancer diagnosis 9/26/09, Amputation 10/01/09, Loving our girl moment by moment.

Tasha lost her battle and became my Angel on May 4 2011. Forever in my heart….

18 February 2010
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I had never heard of a three legged dog before Emily was diagnosed.  I suppose I would have had felt sorry for the dog.  When I think of a tripawd now I have a sadness if it due to cancer because ultimately we all know the outcome but also I think normal.  Except for missing a leg a tripawd can do anything a four legged dog can.  If the amputation is due to an accident I think "lucky" beczuse it isn't cancer.  Who would ever think a three legged dog would be considered lucky?!  Ironically I also think lucky when I think of Emily because I was so lucky to have had her.  It didn't matter how many legs she had, her heart made up for it.

Talk about a rambling answer.  Wow.

Debra & Angel Emily

Debra & Emily, a five year old doberman mix, who was diagnosed with an osteosaecoma. She had a right rear leg amputation on May 19, 2009. On November 10, 2009 she earned her wings and regained her fourth leg.

18 February 2010
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Then: Nooooooo!

Now:  WooooHooooo!!!!  YESSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!  GREAT DOG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Big GrinBig GrinBig GrinBig Grin

18 February 2010
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Before....I would think of an accident, my husband had a 3 legged dog named Sassy when we were in high school, he had been hit by a car.  Even though I am a people nurse and have cared for many people with cancer, I was not educated in canine cancer.  I had very little knowledge of osteosarcoma in dogs.

Now....3 legged dogs are my heroes........especially Paris!!

Grateful for every moment we had with Paris…..no regrets!

Honoring her life by opening our hearts & home to Addy!

18 February 2010
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These are all so thoughtful. Thank you. Keep 'em coming!

Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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19 February 2010
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Always a touch of sadness, mixed with anger.  The anger is a hangover from the days when I was a vet nurse and we amputated the hind leg of a little cat who'd got hit by a train.  He healed beautifully and adapted well (as they do) but the owners had him put to sleep because they couldn't bear to see him wiggle to get comfy when he sat down.  Over thirty years on, that still makes me angry.

The sadness is mostly because of being a member of Greytalk and seeing just how many US greyhounds are afflicted by osteosarcoma, and the distress that causes both to them and their people.

But to see a tripod joyfully running around enjoying life, because he has completely accepted his change in circumstances - that's a beautiful thing, and a lesson to us all!

19 February 2010
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A beautiful thing indeed. An inspiration. An example of perfect resilience, strength and adaptation.

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19 February 2010
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Before, my only thought was pity, something along the lines of "What a sad sight! That poor dog must have such a crappy life since he only has three legs." I doubt I ever noticed many three-legged dogs. It's not like they're a very common sight, and I never had any reason to key on them or notice them in the first place.

But that was before Max became a tripawd and we had fourteen more wonderful months with him. Now my thoughts are much different. I still might feel a touch of sadness if I know the dog is a tripawd due to osteosarcoma, because that story can only end one way. After all, the ending to Max's story is still painfully fresh for us. But I no longer feel pity, because now I know how little it actually matters to a dog to be missing a leg. Now I'm just more inclined to go up and pet them (which isn't saying much, since I try to say hi to every dog that crosses my path anyway). And a three-legged dog would bring a smile to my face, because it would remind me of how quickly Max realized he could get extra attention from people if he put on the pathetic mooch act when he hopped over to them. He was a perfect example of the fact that the words "tripawd" and "crippled" have absolutely nothing to do with each other.

19 February 2010
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Bravo!

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Very touching stories from everyone.

I saw Comet as a dog that needed love and protection from the big, bad cruel world she had endured.  I only saw a dog that needed the chance to live a normal happy life with her handicap.  And who better to do that? 

I spent my childhood protecting a brother that was handicapped even though I was the little sister.  I didn't see his handicaps and couldn't understand how other children could either.  But they did and they were cruel.  He was the sweetest and most gentle person I have ever known even after enduring a lot of emotional pain growing up.  (he's the ONLY person outside of me, that Comet actually let pet her the first time she saw him)

When I saw Comet, I looked beyond the handicap even if it drew me to her.  She was not an oddity to me, she was something that needed me to understand her handicap and to hopefully make her happy.

But instead I gave her everything she wanted and I spoiled her into a rotten dog !!!Surprised
It's Friday, not need to be all sappy!

  

Her Retired AvatarComet - 1999 to 2011

She departed us unexpectedly  January 23, 2011 at the age of 12 1/2.

She was born with a deformed front leg and a tripawd all of her life.

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