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Thanks for the photo link Jerry. They are WONDERFUL pics of sweet Madison!
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
Well it's been 3 weeks since Madison has passed. Still feels like a dream like it's not real. Constant reminders that's she's gone. Picking up my keys quietly so she doesn't hear them jingle and try to go jump in my car. Realizing she not here. Tons of things like this. As prepared as I thought I was, I wasn't. Never had to go through this feeling of loss of something that was everything to me. It's teaching me a lot.
That last day is on replay in my head constantly. For what it was. It was beautiful. Stroller ride at the beach all day. For lunch lobster, shrimp, crab, cookies doughnuts. Anything she wanted. Come back and have all her family around in the front yard hanging out taking pics and loving her. Dinner was bacon wrapped filet and some doughnut holes. Lap of love came out to my house Dr Erin was incredibly sweet and caring. Madison gave her kisses and then layed her head in my arms and we just stared at each other and I felt like she was telling me it's ok mom, I'm ready as she fell asleep then stopped breathing.
As hard as everything has been for the last 4 months I know in my heart that I did everything I could for her. She's had such a good life and she has taught me what true love is. I miss her so much. Rest in peace my sweet baby Madison.
Oh my heart breaks for you ... I don't know how I missed this post and am just now learning of sweet Madison's passing. I am truly sorry for your heartbreaking loss. It is never easy but it sounds like Madison went out as the princess she was! It sounds like a perfect tribute to her amazing life.
Stay close to us as we know how hard the next weeks and months are to come. It's been over 2 years for me and I still have my moments of pain but it does get better.
She was beautiful and I love all the photos that were shared!
alison with spirit shelby in her heart (and little jasper too)
Shelby Lynne; Jack Russell/Shiba Inu mix. Proud member of the April Angels of 2014.
October 15, 2000 to April 8, 2014
Our story: Broke rear leg in June 2013 - non-conclusive results for cancer so leg was plated and pinned. Enlarged spleen in September 2013 and had it removed and was diagnosed with Hemangiosarcoma and started chemotherapy. Became a Tripawd January 8th, 2014 and definitive Hemangiosarcoma diagnosis. Three major surgeries in 7 months and Shelby took them all like a champ only to lose her battle to cancer in her brain. We had 8 amazing extra months together and no regrets. #shelbystrong #loveofmylife
I know these times are soooo difficult and filled with emotions. It's like the more your brain tries to process that your loved one is gone, the harder it becomes. But it is healing, as you know, you are feeling a sense of peace with the decision, which means that you're coping little by little.
There is never a day that goes by when we don't think of and miss our Jerry. But we also know that our lives are so much better because he was in it. Like him, Madison is the same way, she has given you a gift of unconditional love that will never leave your side. She's still with you in your heart, now and forever.
Much love coming your way.
Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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Oh ... I am so, so, so sorry .... my heart goes out to you ....
I know how you feel, there isn't a bigger pain than this ... I am truly sorry ........
It takes a long time for us to feel better after saying goodbye to our babies, my baby girl Kinky departed five years ago and I still think about her and miss her terribly ... but she lives in a corner of my heart that is just hers, she was my best friend the love of my life but as much as I wanted to have her with me for ever she left at 4 1/2.
She is now waiting to meet me up there and so is Maddison. Rest assure they are watching over us and will welcome us when our time comes.
You had such precious moments with her, loved her, spoiled her and were with her when the time was right, she told you with her eyes she was ready. You could not have done any more. Love never dies, she is now forever in your heart
Eurydice 77kg/170lb Great Dane limping end of April 2016, amputation (right front leg/osteosarcoma) 4 May 2016 6 courses of carboplatin followed by metronomic therapy, lung mets found 30 Nov 2016. 3 courses of doxorubicin, PET scan 26 Jan 2017 showed more mets so stopped chemo. Holistic route April 2017. Lung X-ray 5 May 2017 showed several tennis ball size mets, started cortisone and diuretics. Miss Cow earned her XXL silver wings 12 June 2017, 13 months and 1 week after amputation and 6 1/2 months after lung mets, she was the goofiest dawg ever and is now happily flying from cloud to cloud woof woofing away :-)
Thank you for staying connected. This is such a rough time. I found it comforting to be here surrounded by people who TRULY understood every aspect of this journey.
Everything you are going through, we all get it. The intensity of the time leading up to their transition, to the actual transition itself, dominates our thoughts for a long, long time. Eventually that "replay" gets pushed further and further into the background, but it wull always be there. Why we do that, I'm not sure. While it's a gift to be able to release our loved ones from an earthly body that no longer serves the., it is an agonizing and gut wrenching process to find the "right" time. So much emotion and thought, so much stress and intensity...such an overwhelming process to have to deal with...grateful that we can do that for them...and wishing we would never have to!
It stinks to be human sometimes. We have to remind ourselves that none of these stressful emotions were felt by our dogs! They were just stayi g in the present not "agonizing" over one single thing! They are always teachi g us to Be More Dog ...even from the Bridge! Remembering that helps to free us.
What you will find with time, and are starting to see it now, the "intensity" (and we're talking a "good intensity") of all the joy you shared, the happy and loving times....all these great feelings will become dominate in time.
As far as being wuiet with the car keys....go ahead and make noise. Up at the Bridge dogs get car rides anytime they want! And they can stidk their heads out the window without worrying about bugs getting in their ears or teeth! 'No bugs at the Bridge! So when you pock up the keys from now on, just know that Madison is javing great rides at rhe Bridge! And she's still getting her seafood platter everyday!
Stay connected. We're here. Have you gotten any specific messages fro. Madison yet? Pay attention, she's still.making her presence known.
Lots of love
Sally and Alumni Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle and Frankie
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
I'm so sorry that you had to let Madison go. I love that she told you it was okay through her eyes. You were obviously very connected.
I recently read that each tear we shed for our pet is one moment of joy we had with them in our life. May you hold those joyful memories in your heart.
Many hugs,
Kerren and Tripawd Kitty Mona
My heart is hurting to know what loss you feel, but what a beautiful, happy last day you had with Madison. A beautiful capstone to a happy and blessed life. I know you miss her keenly, but a gentle, easy, dignified transition, wrapped in love, well that is the best anyone could hope for.
Hoping the joy of her companionship overshadows your pain more and more each day. And for Madison I wish happy dreams of a wonderful life as a cherished member of your family.
Best,
Lisa and Pofi
Lisa, Minneapolis
On October 27, 2016, nearly 6 months after amputation, and 18 months since his cancer likely started, we lost Pofi to a recurrence of Soft Tissue Sarcoma in his spine quite suddenly. His canine sister also succumbed to cancer on March 1, 2019 - we lavished her with our love in the interim, but life was never quite the same without her only real canine friend. Cliff kitty had to leave us, too, suddenly, in August 2019. Lucia kitty grieved all these losses, but helped us welcome two new Lurchers into our home and our lives, Shae and Barley.
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