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Hi Xena's mom,
We all totally understand what you're going through-the decisions, surgery, and recovery-all difficult. So many of us would do the same thing all over again. My greyhound,Lily, had the lump on her right leg also-where Xena's is. She got up one day and was limping-then I saw the lump-off to the vets, and the horrible diagnosis. I cried all the way home-then went into fight mode. Two days later, she had her amputation surgery. Recovery was rocky for at least two weeks. Then we did carbo for chemo. Her surgery date was December 11, 2011!!! Her 33 month ampuversary is next week!!! We have been so very fortunate. I don't know what I would have done without this group on Tripawds--they are wonderful
I did get a lot of rug runners so Lily could walk without slipping-yoga mats work well also. I agree with others-try to confine her to a few rooms in the beginning-it's easier for everyone. By the way, Xena and your girls are all beautiful! We're all here for you.
Thinking of you and sending hugs,
Joan and Lily
Our beautiful Lily was diagnosed with osteosarcoma in her front leg on 12/14/11 at age 8 and had amp on 12/16/11. She completed 5 rounds of carbo. She was so brave and kicked cancer's butt daily! She lived life fully for 4 years, 3 months, and 15 days after her amp. My angel is a warrior princess. I miss her so much.
Good Morning all,
It is two days after surgery. We brought her home last night. I'll start posting under the other topic after this post. I have alot more to read too. It's definitely not as easy as I thought it might be. Xena is not wanting to walk at all and is not really helping. If my husband wasn't here to lift all 119 lbs of her I don't know what I would do. She wouldn't walk and then just ended up peeing where she laid for the night. We tried again this morning, got her outside to the grass. She was exhausted. Still wouldn't pee, so thinking of buying the puppy pee pads and just letting her do it while she is laying, until she gets strong enough. She will not eat yet either which makes giving the pills a chore cause usually I would wrap them up in sliced cheese or turkey sandwich meat. She is clamping her jaw shut too when I give them the old fashioned way. So, at this point I am regretting my decision. She is just soo big to not be able to walk. I know she will get the hang of it, at least I am praying that she does! She looks at me too like she hates me. I know I'm seeing things cause she did give me kisses, but I just feel so bad. Ugh, I know I am on an emotional roller coaster right now. I know it will get better. This is just going to be so hard for her. I will keep doing my research in your forums. I know things will get better. For those of you with 100lbs plus dogs, how did you do it? My husband goes back to work Monday and I don't know how I'll get her into the yard if she doesn't help me. We have a little sun room off the downstairs family room. Was just thinking about putting a bunch of pee pads down in there for her so its not a long walk out to the grass. OK...I'm going to read all the recovery threads now. Thank you for listening and any insight you have. Pic below of Xena resting right now.
Lisa & Xena
Lisa...stop beating yourself up. We have all been there and done that. It takes time. Xena isn't mad at you she is in a drug haze and still trying to figure out what is going on. Try to treat her as normal as possible (easier said than done). Don't worry that she won't eat.. offer her water- served fresh were she lays intermittently. If she likes ice cubes give her one every once in a while. Treats and carrots too. Don't worry about the pee, we dog lovers simply wipe it up and carry on lol. As far as help with lifting her, you will be surprised at how strong you can be. My Jake was 90 pounds and once you get the hang of it will be second nature. It get easier with time! Have you tried a folded beach towel under her belly or a custom made (cut a canvas handled bag) and slip it under her belly to help you hoist? We are here for you every step/hop of the way. Stay connected.
Laurie
Yep!! The what did I do? We all have been right where you are standing right now. Good suggestions made above. She will get the hang of it. The first 2 weeks are the hardest. If you get time, read Sally's one early post after Hannah had her surgery,maybe she will chime in, but Hannah was pretty fluffy if you know what I mean. Not sure what drugs she is on, but they can make them so tired and loopy. There are meds also to increase appetite if she does not start eating soon. Lori and Ty
TY GUY, Best Black Lab ever! Diagnosed and had amp in January, 2014. Kicked MRSA's butt. Earned his angel wings on April 16, 2014. Run Free my boy and don't forget a shoe. Ty is a proud member of the " April Angels". Ty sent us Daryl, a Tripawd rescue in Sept. of 2016. Daryl is 5 +or -. We are also Pawrents to Chandler, a Border Collie mix who is 15 and 1/2, Lucy, a Corgi who is 7, 2 minis, 2 horses, and a feisty cat named Zoe. Zoe had a non skeletal Osteosarcoma removed in July 2015. No Chemo, she was at least 16. She is going strong although she is now completely blind. She is now close to 20 and her hobbies are eating and sleeping in front of her personal heater.
Ditto, can't begin to tell you how often I looked at Jerry and wondered what the heck we had done. And many, many people say that here too, so you are not alone in those feelings. Try as hard as you can to remind yourself that this will get better, she will get stronger and you will get on with your life once again. Many dogs, especially large dogs, need extra time, not every single dog hops out of the clinic, many will just take it easy the first few weeks (meanwhile worrying the heck out of their pawrents!).
- Remember, she isn't mad, she's doped up on pain meds and this is major surgery. Humans would be about the same exact way, if not worse, during recovery.
- The pee pads are definitely a good idea. Let your vet know she isn't wanting to get up and urinate but I have a feeling this is due to her being dopey on medication and just feeling so tired from the procedure.
- Do you have a harness for her? They are so important for recovery. In the meantime you can use a canvas grocery bag with the sides cut open as a temporary sling to help her get up (use the handles to hoist). Don't force her to get up; she will do it when she's ready. But when you think she is, this is a good way to assist her in balancing during pottying.
- The sun room recovery area is a good idea as long as she doesn't feel isolated and you can be near her if she needs something the next few days.
Hang in there and breathe, she will get better and stronger. Keep your vet in the loop too for extra peace of mind and just take things day by day and when you need anything at all stop on by here. Keep us posted OK?
Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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OHHHHH YEAH.....WE UNDERSTAND EVERY SINGLE EMOTION YOU JUST LAID OUT!!
Lor's referring to mynfirst post...sorry...I don't know how to do links....but it started with
"Six days after rear leg amp. And I fear I've made a HORRIBLE decision" (or something like that)
My Happy Hannah "is" a big "Plus sized Model Fluffy Bull Mastiff. Prior to amp. she was around 125 lbs...and it's just myself and my dogs ...and I'm in my sixties.....and this recovery stuff was sooooooo hard!!!! No close neighbors...no one to help with anything......until I found this LIFESAVER of a site!!!!!
Okay myfriend, let's take some deep breaths....and I'm serious......inhale really fully and slowly....B R E A T H E.....and exhale s l o w l y..........B R E A T H E...
Now.....everything you are experiencing is "normal"...especially for large dogs. Xena is still very diped up from hospital meds which will be in ner system another day or two. A lot of what you are seeing is, as much as anything, a result of pain meds.
What is she taking? Does she have a morphine patch? (Some do, my Happy Hannah didn't). Did the vets have her walking at all? It may be...MAY be, that you can back off her pain meds just a touch with a Vet's supervision. You certainly can back them right back up if she seems in too much pain.
Front leggers do have a little harder time adjusting generally also, as they carry the majority of the weight on their front legs.
TRY...TRY....not to worry. Yeah, as Laurie said, we dog lovers just wipe up pee...no problem. While your husband is there though, I would try to take her out just for potty and then come right back in IF it's not too far. Sounds like the sunroom might be a good place for her to rest if it's closer to the outside. I can tell you that Happy Hannah did NOT like a sling of any sort and would basically freeze and refuse to budge. I did have a ramp built for her to go outside so she could avoid stairs.
I love that she's showing a touch of sparkle by clamping her jaw shut and refusing pills!!!! That silly girl!!
Try anything stinky...liverwurst is a good pill hider. AND, make sure all scent is covered from the pill! Tramadol is supposed to be one nasty tasting pill. I actually started picking the pill up with tweezers...insert it deep in the liverwurst....covered it backnup with the meat and never let my hands touch the pill so there was no scent of thenpill. Avig ole ball of cream cheese works sometimes too. Of course, always offer one or two globs of "whatever" and then let the third one be the one with the pill in it.
Now, this is real important......no joke....eat chocolate!!!!!! Everytime Xena takes her pain meds, eath three Hershey Kisses, followed up by a couple of mini Reese's Peanut Butter Cups! And do your breathing exercises......nah.....skip those.....just eat more chocolate!
I can tell you, the amputation was THE BEST DECISION!!!!! My Happy Hannah and I had THE most glorious one year and two months of loving and spoiling and fun than anyone could ever imagine!!!!
Your Xena will get her sparkle back and will be having a great pain free QUALITY life!!!!!!!!
Sending you tons of HUGS and lots of LOVE!!!!
Sally and Alumni Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle too!
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
benny55 said
OHHHHH YEAH.....WE UNDERSTAND EVERY SINGLE EMOTION YOU JUST LAID OUT!!Lor's referring to mynfirst post...sorry...I don't know how to do links....but it started with
"Six days after rear leg amp. And I fear I've made a HORRIBLE decision" (or something like that)
Here's Sally's post she is referring to. Read it all the way through and you'll see how much better things got.
Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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Thank you all!! I have an update already. You guys are right she is doped up on pain meds. She is taking Tramadol, Carprofen and Amantadine and Cefodoxime; antibiotic. She had no patch when she came home. The vet tech said they had her up walking but with lots of support. You would think they wouldn't release them until they can walk on their own?
But anyway, I had bought some wet dog food that says it tastes like Filet Mignon and Porterhouse steak. Two flavors. I brought down the little container of the Filet Mignon and she perked right up. I opened it and put it in her dish and SHE ATE IT! Doing the happy dance! THEN, my husband and I were outside discussing the the ramp and she had been laying in the middle of the floor. I heard nails on the glass door. Looked around and she was laying down in front of the patio door. She had hopped from the middle of the room. SHE CAN DO IT!! So, after hubby got the ramp done we said come on lets go pee. She got up by herself, We do have a sling, we put that around her, hubby got her down the ramp and then took the sling off so she could pee. She hopped around, doing some nose plants, but found her spot and took a looooong pee. I was so excited to see my dog peeing outside!! I cannot even begin to tell you the relief I feel right now. That this will get better. We can beat this! Thank you all so much for your support. I know there is a long road ahead, but one step (hop) at a time, we will beat it and enjoy our time together.
STANDING OVATION GOING N OVER HERE!!!!!!!!!!!! You should be able to hear us all cheering....yeah.....it's that loud!!!!!!!!!!
WOOF! WOOF!!!
Sally and Alumni Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle too!
Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!
Woot! Woot! You BOTH feel relieved I'm sure! YAAAAY
Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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You think you are happy now? Just wait until she does her first BM! You'll be over the moon .
(BTW Maggie didn't have a BM for 6 days).
Ditto to what everyone else has said. Maggie was a little pug so I didn't have trouble moving her. Also, she was hopping the day of surgery so she could get around. She was just a slug for six weeks! I spent lots of time wondering what I had done...
You may still have some ups and downs during the next couple weeks, but now you KNOW she can do it, and that is a great thing to know!
Karen and Spirit Maggie
Tri-pug Maggie survived a 4.5 year mast cell cancer battle only to be lost to oral melanoma.
1999 to 2010
Yeah! See one day at a time. Xena will get there. Without you hovering (we have all been helicopter moms/dads) she did what she wanted to do. Sooo happy for you! Doing the pee pee dancecuz we celebrate all. Just wait for the poop lol.
Keep us posted and give lots of loving
Laurie
Hi Lisa,
How is Xena doing today?
I just noticed the Raider's blanket, are you located in the Bay Area? We have a fairly active Nor Cal group that gets together in Mill Valley once in awhile.
Karen
Tri-pug Maggie survived a 4.5 year mast cell cancer battle only to be lost to oral melanoma.
1999 to 2010
Good Morning all - doing the happy "Poo Poo" dance this morning. She had her first BM since the surgery. 4 days post op today. She is still doing fine. I am still helping to get her out to the yard but then i remove the sling and let her sniff around on her own and do her stuff. She is learning how to balance herself. Still hard to watch when she loses her balance.
She is being a little bit hard headed with all the pills though. I've read through some posts and you all have said liverwurst is good for hiding the pills? I have tried cheese - that worked before the surgery but no more. Tried turkey sandwich meat. That is hit and miss. If she smells a pill, it's over. Then went to the wet dog food that she has been eating and tried to hide the pills in there. She ate some and then figured it out and now won't eat that. Ugh. I hate having to give them to her by forcing them down her throat. Where do I even find liverwurst in the grocery store? Any other ideas if she doesn't like that?It's rough when she has six pills to take in the morning. I know its only temporary until the end of this week but would like it to be as smooth as possible for her.
Also was wondering if stairs will ever be an option for a front leg amputee? We live in a split foyer house and it is not tripawd friendly at all. We are renting and when we buy a house we will not be buying one with this layout. There are stairs everywhere. We have her down in the basement now, but the main area is upstairs. The basement is finished and we have a family room down here but cooking and everything goes on upstairs on the main level. Hate being up there when she is down here. She prefers it upstairs; she hardly ever came down here before the surgery. I ordered a stretcher so that we can carry her up and down. She weighs 119 lbs so it'll be tough, but was just wondering if anyone has a large dog who eventually mastered the stairs or is she doomed to live in the basement?
Thank you all for your help and your support. Going to order one of the rough wear harnesses now.
Lisa & Xena
Karen - we used to live in Southern California, north of San Diego. We just moved to Maryland last November. California was just getting to expensive and my husband got laid off from his job. So, I transferred within my job and here we are. Loving the east coast. Don't miss California.
We used to like the Raiders, but no more. THat's why the dog has the blanket.
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