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15 October 2014 - 10:03 am
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I hope it's okay to share this here...
 
It's with a sad and heavy heart that I share with all of you that my mom passed away last week. Some of you may remember from a few of my previous posts that my mom and Willow had a very special bond. Mom suffered from a progressive neurological disease, and had paralysis due to a sacral fracture after a fall. When we adopted Willow, she made it her job to take care of my mom...and she took that job very seriously. Willow would always run over to "help" transfer my mom in and out of her wheelchair , and once my mom was settled on the couch, Willow would jump up next to her and cuddle with her all afternoon. As the end was near, I told my mom that our dogs who have already passed were waiting for her and that I knew Willow was first in line, waiting to jump up on a couch next to her. It brings me some comfort to think that Mom and Willow are together again.
 
Love to all of you,
Carol
 
 
Willow and Mom
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15 October 2014 - 10:34 am
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Carol,

So sorry to hear of your mom's passing! Knowing that Willow was waiting for your mom as she crossed the Bridge hopefully  provides you some comfort. Willow sounds like an amazing dog and companion and she was definitely broght into your home for many reasons.

All our best during this difficult time,

Stirling and Guardian Tahoe

"Tahoe" - Our Amazing Superman and Best Friend.

Dec. 01-03 to Aug. 19-14

Diagnosed with Periarticular Hystiocystic Sarcoma Feb 14-13; Amputation March 18-13, and diagnosed with STS April-14. Tahoe touched so many people while visiting us, leaving a massive void in our lives. Always Missed, Never Forgotten!!

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15 October 2014 - 10:55 am
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Oh Carol... I am so sorry for you loss... you bet 100% Willow was there to greet your mom!

I wish I had better words of comfort but losing a parent, like losing a pet, is one of the greatest heartaches in life. I will send you lots of love and positive energy ...

Alison with the Spirit of Shelby fur-ever in her heart (and little Jasper too) 

Shelby Lynne; Jack Russell/Shiba Inu mix. Proud member of the April Angels of 2014.

October 15, 2000 to April 8, 2014

Our story: Broke rear leg in June 2013 - non-conclusive results for cancer so leg was plated and pinned. Enlarged spleen in September 2013 and had it removed and was diagnosed with Hemangiosarcoma and started chemotherapy. Became a Tripawd January 8th, 2014 and definitive Hemangiosarcoma diagnosis. Three major surgeries in 7 months and Shelby took them all like a champ only to lose her battle to cancer in her brain. We had 8 amazing extra months together and no regrets. #shelbystrong #loveofmylife

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15 October 2014 - 11:18 am
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Carol,

I'm so sorry for your loss, but your mom and Willow are no doubt enjoying all the great things they can do together now that they are freed from their tired bodies.

You are in my thoughts. Sending lots of love.

Rachel and Snaggliest Angel Theodore

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15 October 2014 - 12:21 pm
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Carol, dear sweet Carol....I'm so glad you posted here today....and I remember that picture so welk of Willow and your mom.....such a bone....sich a oneness. Two beae souls together again indeed.

I KNOW Willow was there right by her side as she was freeing herself from her earthly body that no longer served her. I'm sure your Mom hung around awhile after Willow passed to make sure you would be okay. And now you have some incredible Guardian Angels lrotectingnyou and surrounding you in their Light.

You jave had the privilege of being your Mom's loving caregiver for so long.....your adjustment to the void will not be any easy one.

PLEASE, PLEASE lean in us Carol. My heart just breaks for you. Your Mom is our family too!

The heavens just gained another eternal light. Look up on the next clear midnight sky and see if there aren't two twinkling lights right next to each other that catch your eye........yeah......your Mom and Willow.

Your mom felt so loved and so safe with you Carol. She is sooooooo proud of you and in absolute awe of your strength and devotion. Everyone would want to jave a daughter like you. And I know your Mom was a compassionate and loving soul.........look at the daughter she raised!!!

Sending you all the love in the world and hugging you tightly...

Sally and My Eternal Light Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

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15 October 2014 - 12:24 pm
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HUG!!!!!!!

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15 October 2014 - 12:46 pm
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Carol,

I'm so sorry that you are dealing with the loss of your dear mother.  I know that Willow was there waiting for your mom to lead and comfort her on this new journey.  The relationship between your mom and Willow is indeed a special one.

I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and sending you a hug!

Sahana and her Angel Leland

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November 17, 2009 - June 30, 2014

May you finally be healthy and running free at the Rainbow Bridge. Until we meet again my sweet boy!

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15 October 2014 - 1:59 pm
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Carol, I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. I am very sure that Willow was there to meet her. You can just see the love that Willow had for her in the picture. May your many memories bring you some comfort today and in the days to come. Love from, Lori and Ty

TY GUY, Best Black Lab ever! Diagnosed  and had amp in January, 2014. Kicked MRSA's butt. Earned his angel wings on April 16, 2014. Run Free my boy and don't forget a shoe. Ty is a proud member of the " April Angels". Ty sent us Daryl, a Tripawd rescue in Sept. of 2016. Daryl is 5 +or -. We are also Pawrents to Chandler, a Border Collie mix who is 15 and 1/2, Lucy, a Corgi who is 7, 2 minis, 2 horses, and a feisty cat named Zoe. Zoe had a non skeletal Osteosarcoma removed in July 2015. No Chemo, she was at least 16. She is going strong although she is now completely blind. She is now close to 20 and her hobbies are eating and sleeping in front of her personal heater. 

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15 October 2014 - 2:35 pm
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Carol, of course it's OK to post here and we are glad you did. I'm so very very sad to hear about your Mom, please accept my condolences. She had such a long, long journey and to think that she now free of pain and in a beautiful, peaceful place with no more hurting and Willow, and all your other animals, by her side, well I hope that brings you comfort as you cope with your aching heart. Like Sally said, your own journey was equally as long, but wow you really shined as her daughter, what a great caregiver you were for so many years. Any parent would be so lucky to have you as their child.

We are here too for you, so please know you can lean on all of us. I've haven't lost a parent but I do understand how tough it is, I'm so sorry.

Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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15 October 2014 - 5:57 pm
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Oh Carol, 

Please accept my most sincere and heartfelt condolences.....losing our parents is such a heartbreaking and difficult thing in life. You took very loving care of both of them in their life with all the illness that befell them both, and now I truly believe they both will be looking out for you as your guardian Angels.......and yes, they are once again reunited....

I am praying for peace in your heart, and also hoping your heartache of dealing with so much the last few years heals in time....may happy memories take the place of pain as well....

Keeping you within my heart, thoughts, and prayers always

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Bonnie & Angel Polly

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15 October 2014 - 7:51 pm
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Carol I am so sorry to hear about your mom's passing.  Of course Willow was one of the first to greet her and probably jumped up on the couch up there and gave her big big hugs.  I pray for peace for you during this time of grief.

 

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Michelle & Angel Sassy

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05/04/2006 -  Bosch, Sassy's pal, earned his wings 03/29/19  fought cancer for 4 months.

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15 October 2014 - 8:53 pm
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Carol, I want to correct my above post....I wanted to say, that you took very loving care of both your mom and Willow.... When Willow came into yours and your mom's life, you helped them both through all the illnesses that befell them, and Willow and your mom helped each other .......I re-read it and it didn't sound right......hope this makes more sense.

Love, 

B & AP

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16 October 2014 - 8:03 am
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Carol....   my condolences.... (((hugs)))

The circle of life sucks...  we know this is the way it is supposed to be... but it still sucks.  We are supposed to say goodbye to our parents, they are not supposed to say goodbye to us.. but it still sucks... 

You know you always have online friends here to vent to, to share with, and you know for a fact.. that Willows tail was wagging faster than a gerbil on a candy wheel when she saw your mom coming over the rise!!!

I bet they are snuggled right now...... 

Chritine.. with Franklin in her heart♥

Franklin, he was the Happiest Dog on Three Legs! Diagnosed 09/26/2012 with Osteosarcoma, amputated 12/4/2012.  Had a wonderful 5 1/2 months painfree until he ran for the Bridge on 5/15/2013.  Always in my heart, and always a guardian angel of my pack...   You can follow his Tripawd Adventures, before and after, in my blog, Frank'n'Farter!

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16 October 2014 - 6:01 pm
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That's a great picture, thank you for sharing.

i am so sorry you had to say good bye to your mom. I still have my mom but lost my dad to liver failure almost 3 years ago (Nov 17).it was hard to lose him & I really miss him, but it was harder seeing him ill.

I hope you find comfort in knowing Willow & she are with each other!

Sonya & "Millie"--born Feb 1999, diagnosed with OSA 8/27/14, set free 9/27/14
(RIP baby girl)

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16 October 2014 - 8:09 pm
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Carol,

I too remember that wonderful picture of Willow and your mom. It is so nice to think of them together again. I lost my mom in February. It was so hard to watch her decline and I am glad that she is no longer suffering. It was a relief right after she passed but I find I miss her more and more as time goes on. I have no words of advice except that of course it is OK to post your loss here. We're family.
Sending you lots of tripawd love and strength,
Martha

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