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It all seems so surreal to me, I don't believe it is going to happen until he will be driving off in a different car. I know I will not change my mind again this time, the woman is so kind to do this for him. I will tell her to come here, but not sure if she will I don't think she uses the internet... but I could be wrong. If she don't come here I will definitely keep y'all updated.
Just keep reminding yourself when your heart is aching - that he'll be getting everything he needs for a better life. And if he stays with you, you'll feel so utterly guilty because you can't do what is needed. And look at the financial strain it will cause if you were to do anything. You have a disabled child that needs your attention and financial resources .
Chin up!
You are doing a good thing - A VERY GOOD THING.
Comet - 1999 to 2011
She departed us unexpectedly January 23, 2011 at the age of 12 1/2.
She was born with a deformed front leg and a tripawd all of her life.
I would like to second cometdog's statement-- you are strong, you are brave, you are selfless to the extreme, and you are doing a very, very good thing. I would like to think I'd do the same in your shoes, because it is the right thing to do.
I know it's easier said than done, but try to be upbeat for the next few days, and then you can cry your eyes out Sunday evening. Dogs are so in tune with our emotions, and you'll want your last few days with Apollo to be happy ones. I do hope you'll get to see him from time to time, and his new owner stays in touch.
thinking of you,
Catherine and Spirit Scout
Scout: January 31, 2002 to November 7, 2011
Scout's diagnosis was "poorly differentiated sarcoma"; amputation 1/11/2011. Scout enjoyed 9 fantastic years on 4 legs and 9 glorious months on 3 legs. If love alone could have saved you…
Hello, it will be extremely hard for a while but once you see that Apollo's medical problems are being taken care of and he is healed and doing much better you will know without a doubt that you made the right decision and you will feel better about it. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. (((Hugs)))
Hey y'all... I actually did it 🙁 Apollo is with Laura now each passing hour I miss him more and more. The house seems so quiet and empty without him hogging the entire couch. Laura said tomorrow he will be going to start the acupuncture with her vet so hopefully I will have some news to share tomorrow. Thank you all for the tremendous amount of support, that is really what I need to make me feel better about my decision.
It must have been hard to let him go, but just keep reminding yourself that he's now going to get the therapy he needs to be a healthy pup. I'm sorry this experience has been so hard on you - but you did the right thing! I hope she has good updates for you on how he does with the accupuncture and then you'll have peace, knowing for certain that what you did was best for him.
Hang in there!
Jackie, Angel Abby's mom
Abby: Aug 1, 2009 – Jan 10, 2012. Our beautiful rescue pup lived LARGE with osteosarcoma for 15 months – half her way-too-short life. I think our "halflistic" approach (mixing traditional meds + supplements) helped her thrive. (PM me for details. I'm happy to help.) She had lung mets for over a year. They took her from us in the end, but they cannot take her spirit! She will live forever in our hearts. She loved the beach and giving kisses and going to In-N-Out for a Flying Dutchman. Tripawds blog, and a more detailed blog here. Please also check out my novel, What the Dog Ate. Now also in paperback! Purchase it at Amazon via Tripawds and help support Tripawds!
We are here for you as we know this is extremely hard. I'm so sorry for your sadness.
I had to give up a puppy that I had for 5 months because he and my dog got into a scuffle and my dog never liked the puppy after that. It would have been dog fight after dog fight and I knew it. I tried to manage them but knew my guy was not happy. It was very hard to give him up but I knew everyone would be happier. Much like your situation, the new parent keeps me updated when I start feeling sad and even just recently brought him over. It's been 7 months now and after seeing him and seeing how much he loved his new mommy, I am finally have peace.
Apollo will never be but a phone call or email away, just try to remember that.
Comet - 1999 to 2011
She departed us unexpectedly January 23, 2011 at the age of 12 1/2.
She was born with a deformed front leg and a tripawd all of her life.
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