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8:08 am
23 September 2011
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Micki,
Once again I am crying as I read about another wonderful Tripawd saying goodbye. Her story was one that helped us through our journey. She will be missed by all of us. I know how hard it is to say goodbye but you gave her a fantastic final day and she is now pain free, the ultimate gift.
It helps me to invision all of the Tripawds meeting and greeting at the Bridge and then having a welcome feast. Afterwards everyone runs and plays and, eventually, settles into their favorite couch for a little nap. They each have their own Barney to terrorize. There are Barney parts everywhere!! These warriors fought so hard it is now time for them to have pain free peace.
You are in my thoughts and prayers,
Tara and Spirit Fergus
2:29 pm
6 April 2011
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So sorry to read about Rio, I am all to close to the same position with Winston. Am dreading it with all my heart. Am thinking of you x
Winston started limping in Feb 11, diagnosed with osteosarcoma in his right front paw in March 11, amputation April 11. Six rounds of carboplatin. Diagnosed with HO and lung mets September 11.We sadly said goodbye on 24 May 12, sleep tight Winston dog xx
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23 August 2008
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I am so sorry! I am very glad that I got to meet Rio at the meet-and -greet last summer; I loved her spirit and attitude.
Pam
4:48 pm
25 April 2011
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So so sorry for your loss......
"My Rio had a wonderful life, and lived for years beyond what anyone thought she would — me included. She was so loved. She was happy. I was so lucky to have her for as long as I did. She was a wonder. And I was so happy to share her with all of you. I'm glad she meant so much to all of you, too. That makes my heart happy."
What a wonderful way to remember an amazing girl.
We wish you peace, healing and only wonderful memories.
the chauffeur
7:31 pm
2 February 2011
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I just went outside for a brief moment (Zeffy piddle time) and I looked to see a quick blaze of light -- a shooting star. I'm not a spiritual or superstitious person by any means, but I feel like it was definitely a sign from my Rio.... Thanks, sweet Woo... <3 <3 <3
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~ ~ Rio ~ ~ |
8:21 pm
They never leave us- they just change how we see them.
K.
7:59 am
25 August 2010
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I have been dealing with the power outtage and haven't been able to log on until today. I am so sorry I couldn't be with you sooner, you have been so wonderful here and I want to be there for you like you have been for us.
I can't begin to tell you how much Rio (our little Woo) has inspired us. She was an amazing fighter, for such a long time. She was also such a sweet girl, and with her cushings disease on top of it all, she fought on to stay by your side. We love and admire her, and you for all that you have done with her and for her.
Goodbye sweet Woo, may your reunion with our other brave fighters be full of joy and each moment be happy until you see your mom again. May heaven bless you with all good things, you are most deserving.
Elizabeth
Diagnosed with osteosarcoma in the right front leg 8/23/10,
leg fractured 8/27/10,
leg amputated 8/30/10
http://sammyand.....pawds.com/
I couldn't begin to say how special Sammy is to us. Living and laughing with and loving this wonderful boy is priceless.
11:40 am
14 August 2009
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A shooting star is her message to you for sure. She is free of pain and is happy.
Comet - 1999 to 2011
She departed us unexpectedly January 23, 2011 at the age of 12 1/2.
She was born with a deformed front leg and a tripawd all of her life.
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25 September 2009
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I fully believe that signs like this our from our loved ones who have passed on, to remind us that our love never dies. How beautiful she sent this to you.
Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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9:11 am
2 February 2011
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The reality of her loss seems to settle in a little more each day, and moving forward seems to get more difficult. I miss my little shadow, my guardian, my helper so very much.
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9:28 am
29 October 2010
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I know what you mean. I think it gets worse before it starts to get easier. At least that's how it was for me. Hang in there.
Sending hugs!
Abby: Aug 1, 2009 – Jan 10, 2012. Our beautiful rescue pup lived LARGE with osteosarcoma for 15 months – half her way-too-short life. I think our "halflistic" approach (mixing traditional meds + supplements) helped her thrive. (PM me for details. I'm happy to help.) She had lung mets for over a year. They took her from us in the end, but they cannot take her spirit! She will live forever in our hearts. She loved the beach and giving kisses and going to In-N-Out for a Flying Dutchman. Tripawds blog, and a more detailed blog here. Please also check out my novel, What the Dog Ate. Now also in paperback! Purchase it at Amazon via Tripawds and help support Tripawds!
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25 September 2009
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I agree. The first few days are filled with shock, you're numb and don't really know which end is up. As we watch others go on living life, that's when reality sets in and it hurts sooo much. But it does get better, I promise.
Did you ever read about our "remember when?" game? Maybe, but if not, I'll repeat it here for other who may not have seen it...
When I earned my wings, my pawrents cried, a LOT. After a week or so when their eyes were so swollen and they were just exhausted, they decided that each time they felt like breaking down, they would stop. See, crying really freaked me out, I hated it more than anything. So to honor my wishes, they would catch themselves in the midst of the sad thought, and reach deep within themselves to find a hoppy memory of our life together.
For example, one of them would say "Remember when Jerry .... ate the rotted salmon on the beach...went swimming in Waterdog Lake...gnawed a log in half with his teeth....etc."
Each time they brought up a new memory, the tears moved aside for a smile. And it slowly got easier to stop crying and start living again.
Try it, I hope it helps.
Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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2:37 pm
14 August 2009
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The reality of her loss seems to settle in a little more each day, and moving forward seems to get more difficult. I miss my little shadow, my guardian, my helper so very much.
Awwww Micki. I wish there were magic pills we could take to mend a broken heart! It's not the day of death that is the hardest, I guess because we are in shock. But it's the following days and having that emptiness in your heart.
Each day gets a tiny, tiny, tiny bit easier. Not much but a tiny bit. You know. And then one day, the tears for some reason dry up and then something magical happens - you look back with smiles and wonderful memories! You still have a yearning in your heart for those days with your sweet Woo but time heals the utter devastation you feel today.
During your terrible grief, like Rene said - think up something that made you laugh about Rio. Talk about her to anyone that will listen. Surprisngly people do want to hear your stories. Talking is so theraputic. When I was younger, no one talked about the ones that died. It was almost like forbidden! I thought I've never be able to tell stories about my dad who died young. As I got older, I realized - that is so wrong! We should talk until we can't think of anything else to say about someone that has died that we loved! Dammit! <----------for Shari - since I have never said dammit before on the site but I have now! 
Give the Zippy-doo and Tosca an extra hug. And tell them - Monkeybutt Rocket sends them a sweet Monkey Kiss.
Comet - 1999 to 2011
She departed us unexpectedly January 23, 2011 at the age of 12 1/2.
She was born with a deformed front leg and a tripawd all of her life.
3:13 pm
7 November 2011
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The price we pay for loving our pets is high and the fall when we loss them is hard and far but I couldn't imagine a life without them how dull and painless it would be. They are only with us for a fraction of our lives but the whole of theirs and a peice of all the animals we have lost will be carried in our hearts for ever because the impact they had on us is huge and none will ever be forgotten!! We are better people for sharing our lives with our fur babys and loving them unconditional but like I said before the price of that love is so very high!
Signs like the shooting star are a blessing to hold on to and to know that your sweetheart made it to the other side and will never forget you and the love you shared, the games, the cuddles and the kisses. but most of all the unconditional devotion to each other.
Time does make it easier to be able to remember them with a smile instead of tears and talking about them helps you to heal.
Big Hugs
Sarah and Kayla
