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		<title>Golden Memories of Scout on his Birthday</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 20:40:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerry</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pet loss grief is made easier by celebrating the life of your beloved animal companion and family member.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class="sfforumlink"><a href="http://tripawds.com/forums/coping-with-loss/golden-memories-of-scout-on-his-birthday/"><img src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/forum-styles/icons/two-en/bloglink.png" alt="" /> Join  the forum discussion on this topic.</a></span><p><em>The first milestones we face without our Tripawd family member are some of the hardest challenges we will endure in our grief. Here at Tripawds, you are never alone in these circumstances.<br />
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<p><em>Today, Tripawds member and supporter <a title="OK Scout" href="http://tripawds.com/forums/?forum=all&amp;value=2642&amp;type=9&amp;search=1">OK Scout</a> (Catherine Ronck) is facing a first difficult milestone herself, after Scout&#8217;s <a href="http://tripawds.com/forums/coping-with-loss/scout-how-wonderful-life-was-with-you-in-the-world">courageous, nine-month cancer battle ended</a> in November. Today would have been Scout&#8217;s 10th birthday.<br />
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<p><em><img class="ngg-singlepic ngg-left alignleft" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/tripawd-stories/scout5.jpg" alt="Scout" width="301" height="239" /></em><em>To honor his memory, Catherine sent Tripawds a generous gift of support and also wrote this touching essay, which we would like to share it with you as we wish her Golden boy a very hoppy birthday, and send lots of hugs out to Catherine.<br />
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<p>&#8220;Today is Scout&#8217;s first birthday at the bridge; it would have been his 10th birthday here on Earth.</p>
<p>We had big plans for today, but instead of celebrating, we are left reflecting on Scout&#8217;s life. It was a good life, too short, but sadly, when dogs are concerned, there is never enough time. It&#8217;s been nearly three months since Scout died, and there are so many things I miss.</p>
<p>I miss our morning and evening walks. In the mornings, we&#8217;d head towards the elementary school to deliver my eldest daughter and go on from there.</p>
<p>In the evenings, we&#8217;d hit the streets again. In the summer, Scout would return from the walk and jump right into the pool for a quick dip&#8211; the purpose of this was not to swim, but to get soaking wet so that when he got out and rolled in the dirt, he would be completely and utterly filthy. When we lived in Houston, we&#8217;d usually start out in the neighborhood and then head over to the bayou.</p>
<p>Our neighborhood was mid-Century; each home had a large window in the front. Scout loved to center himself in front of those windows to do his business. When my daughter was toilet training, she too, loved to go potty in front of those darn windows, just like Scout. We had a portable potty for her, but you can imagine the scene&#8230;</p>
<p><img class="ngg-singlepic ngg-right alignright" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/tripawd-stories/scout3.jpg" alt="Scout" width="302" height="226" />One night as we were taking a nighttime perambulation (and Scout was doing his business in front of one of those giant windows), a police car pulls up and a police officer gets out. I make a big show of my poop bag thinking someone has finally called the cops on us, but it turns out she was just warning us of a suspect in an armed robbery&#8211; he was dressed all in black&#8211; had we seen him? Scout and I decided then and there to take up jogging.</p>
<p>I miss Scout grabbing the leash as we rounded the corner towards home. He loved to play tug of war with the leash on the home stretch. I&#8217;d eventually let him have the leash and he&#8217;d take himself home.</p>
<p>I miss Scout running from sprinkler to sprinkler on our hot summer walks. I always brought water along, but Scout preferred the neighbors&#8217; sprinklers.</p>
<p>I miss closing doors after Scout. Scout was wickedly clever and could open any door that involved turning a handle and pushing. How he could figure out the opening of the doors and never the closing, I&#8217;ll never know.</p>
<p>I miss settling down on the sofa to read to my kids and having Scout, ever so politely, force his way into the best spot&#8211;scoot over little humans.</p>
<p>I miss immediately clearing off the counters after cooking&#8211; now I can bake a pan of muffins and leave the half full muffin pan on the stove to cool. I hate this.</p>
<p>I miss the sound of Scout drinking&#8211; it was always in threes&#8211; <em>slurp, slurp, slurp</em>&#8230; pause&#8230; <em>slurp, slurp, slurp</em>. Sometimes I imagine I hear this&#8230;.</p>
<p><img class="ngg-singlepic ngg-left alignleft" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/tripawd-stories/scout4.jpg" alt="Scout" width="302" height="230" />I miss Scout&#8217;s nighttime routine. First, he would lay next to my bed, then, after about 30 minutes, he&#8217;d pad over to sleep next to my eldest daughter, then at about 3 AM, he&#8217;d come back to my room and lie near the open doorway. Finally, around 5, he&#8217;d return to his bed next to me.</p>
<p>I miss the whistling sound Scout would make every time you said &#8220;RIDE.&#8221;</p>
<p>I miss driving with Scout&#8217;s enormous head jammed under my armpit.</p>
<p>I miss Scout being constantly by my side&#8211; no matter what room I was in, Scout would be there.</p>
<p>I miss the sound of Scout running to the kitchen any time a packet of cheese was opened&#8211; that dog could be in the farthest corner of the back yard and hear a cheese wrapper.</p>
<p>I miss his soft fur&#8211; goldens have a bad reputation for being shedders, but in fact, golden fur is fantastic as it forms &#8220;tumbleweeds&#8221; and these tumbleweeds collect discretely under the sofa or under the bed. No bother at all.</p>
<p>I miss those sparkling, mischievous, intelligent brown eyes.</p>
<p>I miss my furry vacuum cleaner. I have used the vacuum ten times as often since Scout died&#8211; turns out 3 small kids make ten times the mess with their food as Scout did with his fur tumbleweeds.</p>
<p>I miss Scout leaping over the front flowerbed to greet visitors. I miss running wildly after him to prevent him leaping up on their cars. More than one paint job Scout ruined&#8230;</p>
<p>I miss Scout offering his paw &#8212; he loved paw massages.<img class="ngg-singlepic ngg-right alignright" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/tripawd-stories/scout2.jpg" alt="Scout" width="302" height="202" /></p>
<p>I miss Scout&#8217;s &#8220;love noises&#8221; when he was receiving a paw massage or other petting. Love noises were also heard in anticipation of food. Always a glutton.</p>
<p>Scout loved to lie at the foot of the stairs. I miss the final, furry step.</p>
<p>Scout&#8217;s vets blew his diagnosis&#8211; so he walked hundreds of miles on a cancerous, moth eaten leg. No problem for my too tough boy. However, if a a sticker should get lodged in his paw, he&#8217;d go down like he&#8217;d been shot, writhing in pain. You were an odd dog, Scout.</p>
<p>So many things I miss about you.</p>
<p>I am not usually a big fan of poetry, but <a title="Grief support poem" href="http://tripawds.com/forums/coping-with-loss/letting-go-a-poem-to-help-let-go/#p3937">the poem OKim1 posted in 2008</a> really spoke to me. Here it is again.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong> I ONLY WANTED YOU</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">They say memories are golden<br />
well maybe that is true<br />
I never wanted memories,<br />
I only wanted you.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">A million times I needed you,<br />
a million times I cried.<br />
If love alone could have saved you<br />
you never would have died.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">In life I loved you dearly,<br />
In death I love you still.<br />
In my heart you hold a place<br />
no one could ever fill.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">If tears could build a stairway<br />
and heartache make a lane,<br />
I&#8217;d walk the path to heaven<br />
and bring you back again.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Our family chain is broken,<br />
and nothing seems the same.<br />
But as God calls us one by one,<br />
the chain will link again.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>— Anonymous —</em></p>
<p> <strong>Happy Birthday Scout.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="ngg-singlepic ngg-center" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/tripawd-stories/scout1.jpg" alt="Scout" width="342" height="455" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>In Memory of Scout Ronck</strong><br />
<strong> January 31, 2002 &#8211; November 8, 2011</strong></p>
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		<title>Angel Abby Tribute Day Shows How to Help Heal a Broken Heart</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jan 2012 05:57:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerry</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tribute to Abby Day shows the honor and spirit of Tripawds three legged dog community.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class="sfforumlink"><a href="http://tripawds.com/forums/special-events-and-scheduled-maintenance/angel-abby-tribute-day-shows-how-to-help-heal-a-broken-heart/"><img src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/forum-styles/icons/two-en/bloglink.png" alt="" /> Join  the forum discussion on this topic.</a></span><p>The Tripawds community spirit sparkled earlier this week, when five members gathered at the <a title="Fiesta Island Off Leash Dog Beach San Diego" href="http://www.doggoes.com/parks/california/san-diego/fiesta-island-off-leash-dog-area">Fiesta Island Off-Leash Dog Beach</a> in San Diego, California.</p>
<p><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-nj72j8T9oV4/TwjGGIbamGI/AAAAAAAAAqU/6q8NStl0ZxI/s320/0107-03+Ab%2526Waves.jpg"><img class="alignright" title="Angel Abby" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-nj72j8T9oV4/TwjGGIbamGI/AAAAAAAAAqU/6q8NStl0ZxI/s320/0107-03+Ab%2526Waves.jpg" alt="" width="267" height="178" /></a>They were there to honor the spirit of <a title="Sad Farewell to Angel Abby" href="http://tripawds.com/forums/coping-with-loss/angel-abby">Tripawd Warrior Princess Abby</a>, a special girldog who left us far too soon on Tuesday afternoon, when she found the perfect set of wings to help her soar through the heavens.</p>
<p><strong>Tribute to Abby Day</strong></p>
<p>Abby&#8217;s momma Jackie, who less than 24 hours earlier unexpectedly had to say goodbye to her princess, somehow found the strength to bravely meet up with everyone.</p>
<p>Perhaps it was because Tripawds members who were there had all been through the heartbreak of losing a pup to bone cancer and knew what Jackie was going through. When your grief seems unbearable, maybe being surrounded by people who can empathize is the only thing that can ease the pain, just a little?</p>
<p><a href="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/tripawd_parties/img_0263.jpg"><img class="ngg-singlepic ngg-right alignright" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/tripawd_parties/img_0263.jpg" alt="Tribute to Abby Day" width="268" height="192" /></a><a title="Spirit Maximutt Tribute" href="http://tripawds.com/2010/01/18/tribute-to-a-three-legged-beach-boy/">Spirit Maximutt&#8217;s people,</a> John and Diane, their infamous <a title="Bernie Bin Laden Goes on Tour" href="http://tripawds.com/forums/anything-goes/bernie-bin-laden-the-abandon-all-hope-tour-2011">Bernie Bin Laden</a> and sweet pup Linda, were there to support Jackie on her first day without Abby, along with the notorious <a title="Tripawds Spoksedog Wyatt Ray Dawg" href="http://wyattraydawg.tripawds.com/">Tripawds Spokesdawg Wyatt Ray</a> and my pawrents, Jim and Rene.</p>
<p>The afternoon was dubbed “<a title="Coping with Loss Tribute to Abby Day" href="http://tripawds.com/forums/coping-with-loss/tribute-to-abby-day/">Tribute to Abby Day</a>” and instead of everyone individually mourning the loss of one of the all-time greatest Tripawd Warrior Princesses ever, the power of the pack came together to watch fun, crazy canine antics take place between Wyatt, Linda and Bernie. What a beautiful day it was, on one of Abby&#8217;s favorite places on earth.</p>
<p>“If you&#8217;d told me I&#8217;d go back to Fiesta Island the day after losing our girl, I&#8217;d have said you were crazy,” said Jackie, in <a title="Jackie and Abby's Pooch Smooches Blog" href="http://poochsmooches.blogspot.com/">Angel Abby&#8217;s blog</a>. “But that&#8217;s what I did today. And I&#8217;m so glad I went.”</p>
<p>Later, the gang went to In &#8216;N Out Burgers after, to salute Abby at her favorite restaurant, with her signature <a title="Flying Dutchman In N Out Secret Menu" href="http://poochsmooches.blogspot.com/2010/10/flying-dutchman.html">Flying Dutchman</a> hamburger.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-q0ljTZAJMAc/Tw5GIATBVuI/AAAAAAAAAqk/y6fMSHcknqQ/s320/0111+JerrywAbby2.jpg"><img class="alignright" title="Little Jerry and Angel Abby" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-q0ljTZAJMAc/Tw5GIATBVuI/AAAAAAAAAqk/y6fMSHcknqQ/s320/0111+JerrywAbby2.jpg" alt="" width="259" height="173" /></a></strong>One of the best parts of the day was when Jackie presented my people with her handmade version of ME! My Momma got all watery-eyed when she saw it, it looks so much like me.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s me and Angel Abby. Aren&#8217;t we a match made in heaven?</p>
<p><strong>Tripawds Members are There for Each Other</strong></p>
<p><strong></strong>That night, my pawrents reflected back on the days following my initiation into Spirit Dog status. They recalled how alone they felt as they sat in their RV and cried through many dark, rainy nights in the Pacific Northwest.</p>
<p>And then they remembered . . . the only thing that made them feel better during that time, was meeting up in Washington with <a title="Rocco's Pawrents Tell About Their Osteosarcoma Journey" href="http://tripawds.com/2008/11/10/video-interview-with-rocco-and-his-people/">a fellow Tripawds member, Rocco</a>.</p>
<p>Rocco and his pack made my Mom and Dad&#8217;s hearts sing once again! He was such a beautiful dog, and his people were so gracious to my grieving pawrents. The meet-up gave them the strength to smile and see that life does get better after the heart wrenching loss of a best friend. They hoped that Jackie felt the same way after their Tribute to Abby Day.</p>
<p><strong>How to Help a Grieving Tripawd Pawrent</strong></p>
<p><strong></strong>We lose far too many Tripawds to cancer, and each time, a human&#8217;s heart shatters into millions of pieces. As a bystander, it&#8217;s natural to feel like there&#8217;s nothing you can do to ease their pain, but you know what? There IS one way you might be able to help:</p>
<p><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-099Ubj1W36Y/Tw5GPgt7t4I/AAAAAAAAAtE/W5HD_oRiR4M/s320/DSC_6190.jpg"><img class="alignright" title="Tribute to Abby Day at In N Out Hamburgers San Diego" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-099Ubj1W36Y/Tw5GPgt7t4I/AAAAAAAAAtE/W5HD_oRiR4M/s320/DSC_6190.jpg" alt="" width="270" height="180" /></a>Reach out and ask a grieving Tripawds member if they would like some company, either on the phone or in person.</p>
<p>While everyone grieves differently, some folks would love to have an empathetic person to lean on, to listen and share the memories of their very special family member.</p>
<p>We will miss Angel Abby so much, but it&#8217;s great to know that her dazzling spirit will live on in so many ways, like how Tripawds members so often reach out and help one another.</p>
<p>Jackie, we know your heart still hurts, but we hope this day helped ease your grief a little. Thank you for  your kindness and meeting us on the beach, we&#8217;ll never forget it.</p>

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		<title>Ask an Animal Communicator on Tripawd Talk Radio, Sunday 1/8 6pm EST</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2012 06:55:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerry</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pet parents can ask animal communicator Stacy Krafczyk questions on Tripawd Talk Radio Show Sunday January 8 2012.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Back by popular demand!</strong> <a href="http://www.blogtalkradio.com/tripawds/2011/12/11/animal-communication-and-spirit-healing-with-stacy-krafcyzk" target="_blank">Our first interview</a> with professional animal communicator <a href="http://allspirithealing.com/" target="_blank">Stacy Krafczyk</a> was so popular, we&#8217;ve asked her back for another question and answer session with <a href="http://tripawds.com" target="_blank">Tripawds</a> members.</p>
<p><a href="http://tripawds.com/2011/12/08/meet-animal-intuitive-this-sunday-on-tripawd-talk-radio-6pm-est/tripawdblogtalkavatar2/" rel="attachment wp-att-5891"><img class="alignright  wp-image-5891" title="Tripawdblogtalkavatar2" src="http://tripawds.com/files/2011/12/Tripawdblogtalkavatar2-300x300.jpg" alt="" width="177" height="177" /></a>Ask Stacy questions about your beloved animals of past and present, by tuning in or joining us in <a href="http://tripawds.com/chat" target="_blank">our chat room</a> on:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Date:</strong> Sunday, January 8, 2012</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Time:</strong> 3:00pm PST (4:00 MT, 6:00 Eastern)</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Duration:</strong> 30 min.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Call In Number:</strong> (310) 388-9739*</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Tune In Here: <a title="Animal Spirit Communication Tripawd Talk Radio Interview Q and A" href="http://www.blogtalkradio.com/tripawds/2012/01/08/more-animal-communication-and-spirit-healing" target="_blank"><strong>More Animal Communication and Spirit Healing with Stacy Krafcyzk</strong></a></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Share Link: </strong><a title="Share link to this topic" href="http://bit.ly/ttr010812" target="_blank">bit.ly/ttr010812</a></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>*You do not need to call to hear the show. <a title="Listen to Tripawd Talk Radio Live Online" href="http://www.blogtalkradio.com/tripawds/2012/01/08/more-animal-communication-and-spirit-healing" target="_blank">Listen live here</a> and join us in the <a title="Chat Live During Tripawd Talk Radio" href="../chat/" target="_blank">chat room</a> or call (310) 388-9739 with your questions.</em></p>
<p>Stacy is a professional animal communicator from West Allis, Wisconsin. You&#8217;re welcome to ask her questions about your alive or deceased animal in <a href="http://tripawds.com/forums/tripawd-talk/ttr0112-stacyk">this Discussion Forum topic</a> or call in live to <a href="http://www.blogtalkradio.com/tripawds/2012/01/08/more-animal-communication-and-spirit-healing" target="_blank">this Tripawd Talk Radio episode</a> on 01/08/12.</p>
<p><strong>ABOUT STACY:</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/forum-image-uploads/admin/stacy-pic-2-295x300.jpg" alt="Animal Communicator Stacy" width="173" height="175" />Stacy Krafczyk works as a Professional Animal Communicator, Intuitive Reader, Medium and is a Reiki Master. She has worked with animals for over a decade doing humane work on a professional level and has assisted thousands of animals, domestic and wildlife, throughout the years.</p>
<p>Stacy has always had a strong bond and passion for animals since a child and is now being carried throughout her professional and personal life.</p>
<p>Her unique approach and gentle guidance will give you great perspective and understanding in all areas of your life and help you reach your greatest potential.</p>
<p>Also experienced with Energy healing modalities, Stacy is a Reiki Master Practioner and uses essential oils that are 100% natural and safe for humans as well as animals to help them overcome emotional and/or physical ailments.</p>

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		<title>Meet Animal Intuitive this Sunday on Tripawd Talk Radio, 6pm EST</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2011 18:32:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerry</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ask animal communicator Stacy Krafczyk questions about your three legged dog and other beloved pets of the present and past.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you always wanted to talk to a communicator about your animal but were too afraid to ask? <a title="Meet Animal Communicator Stacy on Tripawd Talk Radio" href="http://www.blogtalkradio.com/tripawds/2011/12/11/animal-communication-and-spirit-healing-with-stacy-krafcyzk" target="_blank">Now&#8217;s your opportunity</a>!</p>
<p><a href="http://tripawds.com/2011/12/08/meet-animal-intuitive-this-sunday-on-tripawd-talk-radio-6pm-est/tripawdblogtalkavatar2/" rel="attachment wp-att-5891"><img class="alignright" title="Tripawdblogtalkavatar2" src="http://tripawds.com/files/2011/12/Tripawdblogtalkavatar2.jpg" alt="" width="169" height="169" /></a>Thanks to <a title="Tripawd Gerry in Wisconsin" href="http://gerry.tripawds.com/">Tripawd Gerry in Wisconsin</a>, we heard about <a title="All Spirit Healing Animal Communicator" href="http://allspirithealing.com/">Stacy Krafcyzk of All Spirit Healing</a>, whose intuitiveness has shed a lot of light on what Gerry is thinking! Now, you can meet Stacy yourself this <a title="Meet Animal Communicator Stacy on Tripawd Talk Radio" href="http://www.blogtalkradio.com/tripawds/2011/12/11/animal-communication-and-spirit-healing-with-stacy-krafcyzk" target="_blank">Sunday on Tripawd Talk Radio</a>.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Date:</strong> Sunday, December 11, 2011<strong><br />
Time:</strong> 3:00pm PST (4:00 MT, 6:00 Eastern)<strong><br />
Duration:</strong> 30 min.<strong><br />
Call In Number:</strong> (310) 388-9739*<strong><br />
Tune In Here: <a title="Animal Communication Tripawd Talk Radio Program Page" href="http://www.blogtalkradio.com/tripawds/2011/12/11/animal-communication-and-spirit-healing-with-stacy-krafcyzk" target="_blank"><strong>Animal Communication and Spirit Healing with Stacy Krafcyzk</strong></a><br />
Share Link: </strong><a title="Share link to this topic" href="http://bit.ly/ttr121111" target="_blank">bit.ly/ttr121111</a></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>*You do not need to call to hear the show. <strong><a title="Listen to Tripawd Talk Radio Live Online" href="http://www.blogtalkradio.com/tripawds/2011/12/11/animal-communication-and-spirit-healing-with-stacy-krafcyzk" target="_blank">Listen live here</a></strong> and join us in the <a title="Chat Live During Tripawd Talk Radio" href="../../chat/" target="_blank">chat room</a> or call (310) 388-9739 with your questions. You may also post your question for Stacy in our <a title="Meet Animal Communicator Stacy on Tripawd Talk Radio" href="http://tripawds.com/forums/tripawd-talk/ttr1211-stacyk/" target="_blank">Discussion Forums.</a><br />
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<p><img style="float: right;" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/forum-image-uploads/admin/stacy-pic-2-295x300.jpg" alt="Stacy" width="167" height="169" />Meet <a href="http://allspirithealing.com/" target="_blank">Stacy Krafczyk</a>, a professional animal communicator from West Allis, Wisconsin. You&#8217;re welcome to ask her questions about your alive or deceased animal in our  or call in live to Tripawd Talk Radio on 12/11. Just tell Stacy what your animal friend looks like, and post your question or call in with it.</p>
<p><strong>ABOUT STACY:</strong></p>
<p>Stacy Krafczyk works as a Professional Animal Communicator, Intuitive Reader, Medium and is a Reiki Master. She has worked with animals for over a decade doing humane work on a professional level and has assisted thousands of animals, domestic and wildlife, throughout the years.</p>
<p>Stacy has always had a strong bond and passion for animals since a child and is now being carried throughout her professional and personal life.</p>
<p>Her unique approach and gentle guidance will give you great perspective and understanding in all areas of your life and help you reach your greatest potential.</p>
<p>Also experienced with Energy healing modalities, Stacy is a Reiki Master Practioner and uses essential oils that are 100% natural and safe for humans as well as animals to help them overcome emotional and/or physical ailments.</p>

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		<title>GoD, DoG and Molly the Honorary Tripawd</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2011 04:43:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerry</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tripawd member's reflection on what happens to animals in the afterlife.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class="sfforumlink"><a href="http://tripawds.com/forums/coping-with-loss/god-dog-and-molly-the-honorary-tripawd/"><img src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/forum-styles/icons/two-en/bloglink.png" alt="" /> Join  the forum discussion on this topic.</a></span><p><em>For many humans, the closest comparison to the unconditional love of one&#8217;s Creator is the beauty of Dogs. As <a title="GoD and DoG" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H17edn_RZoY">the video GoD and DoG</a> illustrates, the similarities are uncanny. </em></p>
<p><em><img class="ngg-singlepic ngg-none alignleft" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/tripawd-pals-5/1011_molly.jpg" alt="Three Legged New Amputee Dog Molly " width="299" height="217" />We thought about this recently when Karen from Connecticut wrote to us to tell us the heartbreaking news about the tragic death of her dog, Molly.</em></p>
<p><em>Molly passed away immediately following her amputation surgery, the same afternoon her Webmaster harness arrived from Tripawds. Grief stricken and heartbroken, Karen shared the devastating news with us. We were heartbroken to say the least.<br />
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<p><em>In her grief, Karen sent us this beautiful letter reflecting on the afterlife of animals. With her permission, we are sharing it with you today. We think you&#8217;ll find it as touching as we do.</em></p>
<p>&#8220;I know that so many people have their own concept of what happens to animals when they die. I&#8217;m sure we&#8217;ve all heard of &#8220;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0590417010/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=agredacommunicat&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399369&amp;creativeASIN=0590417010">Doggie Heaven</a>.&#8221;<img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=agredacommunicat&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0590417010&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399369" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" /></p>
<p>Well, I&#8217;ve been a born again Christian now about 20 years and in all that time I&#8217;ve never heard any real positive talk about animals or pets and Heaven. I&#8217;ve just mostly heard that dogs don&#8217;t have spirits and so I assumed they can&#8217;t go to Heaven. The Bible talks about there being animals in Heaven. . .</p>
<p>The Lord Jesus Himself is to return on a horse, so you <span style="text-decoration: underline;">know</span> there must be animals in Heaven. . . . . so why not our pets?</p>
<p>I was speaking with my Pastor&#8217;s wife today about Molly and how I had this funny image of Jesus with Molly. It almost looked liked the old 38mm home movies where everyone waves into the camera. I couldn&#8217;t hear what the Lord was saying, but Jesus was waving at the camera and was talking to Molly as if to say &#8220;Look! There&#8217;s Mommy!&#8221;</p>
<p>The image went away, but then it came again. I thought that it must have been something that I just created out of my own heart because that&#8217;s what I wanted to believe. But, then I remembered that God gives us the desires of our hearts and so I thought that perhaps He really did give me that picture.</p>
<p>After telling my Pastor&#8217;s wife about that experience she said,</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Well, animals don&#8217;t have spirits because they&#8217;re not made in the image of God, who is Spirit, but they have souls.</p>
<p>And just like our souls are our will, emotions, memories and who we are, their souls are the same. And although our soul goes with our spirit when our body is gone, their souls go to Heaven &#8211; back to the Creator, when their bodies are gone.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>I may not have chapter and verse to prove it, but in my heart it just seems right. God&#8217;s so good so why wouldn&#8217;t He make a way for them to be alive in Heaven? Our pets have souls and souls never die!</p>
<p>That&#8217;s really something you can hold onto!&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: right;"><em> - Karen L., Southbury Connecticut</em></p>
<p><em>Rest in peace Molly. You will always be an honorary Tripawd in this community.</em></p>
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		<title>Goodbye Is Never Forever</title>
		<link>http://tripawds.com/2011/10/03/goodbye-is-not-forever/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Oct 2011 03:04:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerry</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Missing Spirit Jerry, founder of the world's largest community for canine amputees, on the third anniversary of his passing.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class="sfforumlink"><a href="http://tripawds.com/forums/shout-outs/goodbye-is-never-forever/"><img src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/forum-styles/icons/two-en/bloglink.png" alt="" /> Join  the forum discussion on this topic.</a></span><h3>Spirit Jerry, October 1, 1998 to October 3, 2008</h3>
<p>Jerry, has it really been <a title="Saying Goodbye to Spirit Jerry" href="http://tripawds.com/2008/10/03/my-spirit-shall-live-on-forever/">three years since the last moments</a> when we rubbed your velvety ears and smelled your sweet puppy breath?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a class="shutter" href="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/sight-seeing/ME_bangor01.jpg"><img class="aligncenter" title="Jerry Visits Sea Dog Brewery Bangor Maine" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/sight-seeing/ME_bangor01.jpg" alt="" width="402" height="288" /></a></p>
<p><a class="shutter" title="Sea Dog Brewery " href="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/misc_2011/img_0265.jpg"><img class="ngg-singlepic ngg-center alignright" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/misc_2011/img_0265.jpg" alt="Jerry memento at Sea Dog Brewery" width="261" height="348" /></a></p>
<p>Time moves so fast, but your spirit, your lessons, your life, stay forever young and always a part of us. Even as you soar through the heavens, you continue to do your job, spreading the word about all that really matters in life . .</p>
<p>Like when you paid a visit to our friends who were visiting Bangor, Maine, a few weeks ago. They knew you from <a title="Jerry Stars on PBS in Nature, Why We Love Cats and Dogs" href="http://www.tripawds.com/2009/02/23/check-local-listings-for-nature-reruns/">the PBS show</a>, but never got the chance to meet you in pawson. One day they decided to grab a beer, and being dog people that they are, decided to head downtown to visit the <a title="Sea Dog Brewery, Bangor, Maine" href="http://www.seadogbrewing.com/">Sea Dog Microbrewery</a>.</p>
<p>As they roamed the bar to check out the dog mementos, something made them look up on a wall full of pictures. And who, out of the hundreds of photos tacked to the wall, barked out to them?</p>
<p>You! In this early Tripawds business card that we left in the bar, the day you hopped in on all threes and charmed all the bar flys, back in September, 2007.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a class="shutter" title="Jerry memento at Sea Dog Brewery" href="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/misc_2011/img_0264.jpg"><img class="ngg-singlepic ngg-center aligncenter" title="Jerry memento at Sea Dog Brewery" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/misc_2011/img_0264.jpg" alt="Jerry memento at Sea Dog Brewery" width="288" height="384" /></a></p>
<p>Thank you for making our friends smile, and bringing back so many good memories of that momentous occasion <a title="Jerry reaches the East Coast on his 10 month ampuversary" href="http://tripawds.com/2007/09/26/from-one-ocean-to-another-jerry-reaches-the-atlantic/">when you reached the East Coast</a>, despite all odds.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a class="shutter" href="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/beach_days/ME_sandbeach03.jpg"><img class="aligncenter" title="Jerry splashes in the Atlantic on his 10 month ampuversary" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/beach_days/ME_sandbeach03.jpg" alt="" width="400" height="314" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Fear not, brave Spirit Jerry. For today we will will not grieve, or cry.<br />
<strong>We will cast aside our tears and celebrate your life!</strong><br />
<strong>Here&#8217;s to you, a very special pup who will go on living in the hearts of many,<br />
from sea to shining sea.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><p><a href="http://tripawds.com/2011/10/03/goodbye-is-not-forever/"><em>Click here to view the embedded video.</em></a></p></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>In Memory of<br />
Jerry G. Dawg, Fearless Leader and Furever Friend</strong><br />
<strong> October 1, 1998 &#8211; October 3, 2008</strong></p>

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		<title>See You on the Trail, Calpurnia</title>
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		<dc:creator>jerry</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tribute to Calpurnia, three legged senior sled dog Calpurnia leads the Odoloroc Team in Colorado.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class="sfforumlink"><a href="http://tripawds.com/forums/coping-with-loss/see-you-on-the-trail-calpurnia/"><img src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/forum-styles/icons/two-en/bloglink.png" alt="" /> Join  the forum discussion on this topic.</a></span><p>Calpurnia. Tripawd Queen of the Sled Dogs. <a title="Calpurnia Tripawd Sled Dog Hero" href="http://tripawds.com/2007/10/06/calpurnias-story-a-working-dogs-graceful-recovery-from-bone-cancer/">Wise pack leader</a>. Gentle old soul. The love of my life.</p>
<p><a class="shutter" href="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/on_the_road/20080510w_calpurnia38.jpg"><img class="alignleft" title="Three legged sled dog hero Calpurnia" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/on_the_road/20080510w_calpurnia38.jpg" alt="" width="279" height="209" /></a>You came into my world back in the day, when I was still running and playing and loving life on the road. The stars aligned to bring us together.</p>
<p>The <a title="Jerry and Calpurnia Meet on the Colorado Trail" href="http://tripawds.com/2008/05/25/sprinting-along-with-calpurnia-the-sled-dog/">day we met on the Colorado Trail</a> (three years ago this month!), it was heaven on earth.</p>
<p>Ever since that day, I was in love.</p>
<p>You never let life on three legs keep you from <a title="Three legged dog Cali does canicross sport" href="http://tripawds.com/2007/11/16/canicross-cali-tripawd-dog-kicks-butt-in-colorado/">doing what you wanted to</a>, from showing your pack who was <em>really </em>in charge!</p>
<p><a class="shutter" href="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/tripawd_parties/20080510w_calpurnia14.jpg"><img class="alignright" title="Three legged dog party with Calpurnia and Jerry" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/tripawd_parties/20080510w_calpurnia14.jpg" alt="" width="290" height="217" /></a>My pawrents, and all the other peeps at Tripawds, are so sad, knowing that got your wings yesterday.</p>
<p>These silly humans of ours wish we could live forever!</p>
<p>But you and I know that we have more <a title="Calpurnia Celebrates Three Years on Three Paws" href="http://tripawds.com/2010/08/31/three-years-three-paws-no-problem/">impawtant work to do</a>, more people to help, more places to make better.</p>
<p>We can&#8217;t stick around as long as they want us to, but we always leave a part of us with them, in that mysterious place they call their soul. Why don&#8217;t you drop everyone a hint to let them know you&#8217;ll always be around?</p>
<p><a class="shutter" href="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/tripawd_pals-3/20090613w_calpurnia01.jpg"><img class="alignleft" title="Happy three legged sled dog Calpurnia" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/tripawd_pals-3/20090613w_calpurnia01.jpg" alt="" width="280" height="209" /></a>Now that you&#8217;re a Spirit Tripawd, you can come join me in this beautiful place, where you can <a title="Three legged Cali goes to Alaska" href="http://tripawds.com/2010/12/07/3-legged-mushing-across-the-tundra/">run the trails</a> like you used to as a kid, leading the pack with all four legs.</p>
<p>Maybe you can show me n&#8217; <a title="Inspirational three legged great dane Moose" href="http://tripawds.com/2010/02/02/inspawrational-great-dane-moose-leads-the-big-dog-parade/">Moose </a>and all of the other old school Tripawds from back in the day how to pull a sled!</p>
<p>Hurry Cali, we&#8217;re waiting!</p>
<p><strong>Run Free Forever, Calpurnia! Tripawd Queen of the Sled Dogs!</strong></p>
<p>View this playlist of five favorite <a href="http://tripawds.com/videos" title="see all tripawds video playlists">videos</a> featuring Calpurnia, Tripawds founder <a href="http://tripawds.com/2010/05/11/jerrys-story-how-tripawds-came-to-be/" title="how tripawds came to be">Jerry</a> and spokespup <a href="http://wyattraydawg.tripawds.com">Wyatt</a>:</p>
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		<title>End of Life Care Tips from a Pack Mom</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 May 2011 18:46:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerry</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Three legged sled dog Calpurnia and Mom TC Wait share advice for coping with loss, grief and end of life decisions for animal companions.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class="sfforumlink"><a href="http://tripawds.com/forums/coping-with-loss/end-of-life-care-tips-from-a-pack-mom/"><img src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/forum-styles/icons/two-en/bloglink.png" alt="" /> Join  the forum discussion on this topic.</a></span><p>The end of life discussion is difficult, but necessary for pawrents to ensure a peaceful transition for their beloved animal companion. In a <a title="Tripawd Talk Radio Discusses Pet Hospice Care and Euthanasia Decisions" href="http://tripawds.com/forums/tripawd-talk/pet-hospice-050811/">recent Tripawd Talk Radio show</a>, we gleaned valuable advice about this topic. And an in an ongoing <a title="When Pack Mates Must Say Goodbye" href="http://tripawds.com/forums/coping-with-loss/when-pack-mates-must-say-goodbye/">discussion about how pack mates say goodbye</a>, Tripawd <a title="Calpurnia Mushes Across the Tundra" href="http://tripawds.com/2010/12/07/3-legged-mushing-across-the-tundra/">Calpurnia</a>&#8216;s Mom, TC Wait, offered more enlightenment.</p>
<p><a class="shutter" href="http://odaroloc.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/1033067303.jpg"><img class="alignleft" title="Odaroloc Sled Team in Alaska" src="http://odaroloc.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/1033067303.jpg" alt="" width="292" height="193" /></a>If anyone knows about coping with this process, TC does. As <a title="Adventures of the Odaroloc Sled Dogs" href="http://odaroloc.wordpress.com">a sled dog family</a>, TC and her husband have always had a large pack comprised of rescue dogs of all ages.</p>
<p>Sadly, they&#8217;ve gone through end-of-life care many times. It never gets easier, but TC has learned a lot through the years and wants to share it with this community.</p>
<p><strong>Transitions<br />
</strong><em>by TC Wait</em><strong><br />
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<p>“One of the hardest things to face when you have a large pack of dogs you live your life with is when one becomes sick, old, or otherwise ailing. These dogs give us their all, consistently, all the time. They give our lives direction and meaning. Our dogs are family members. Each one is individual and cherished.</p>
<p><a class="shutter" href="http://odaroloc.files.wordpress.com/2011/05/p1030183.jpg"><img class="alignright" title="Sweet Tripod Sled Dog Calpurnia " src="http://odaroloc.files.wordpress.com/2011/05/p1030183.jpg" alt="" width="336" height="194" /></a>Calpurnia, our 16-year old, three-legged dog, is not doing well. She has had a long life, lead more teams than I can count, logged thousands of miles in harness, has survived starvation, a broken femur, laryngeal paralysis, and cancer.</p>
<p>But she has reached a point in her life where we are not able to fix what is wrong.</p>
<p>You can’t fix old age. Dying is part of living, and she has indeed lived a long and glorious life. We have been blessed to be a part of it.</p>
<p>After <a title="Odaroloc Sled Dogs Return to Colorado" href="http://odaroloc.wordpress.com/2011/03/30/re-entry-part-1/">our return from Alaska</a>, she started winding down. Almost as if she had crossed the last thing off her “bucket list” that she wanted to accomplish. We took her to the vet to make sure there wasn’t anything treatable going on. But we guessed from her gaze that she was seeing trails and teams that we could not see.</p>
<p>Dogs know things that people don’t, or won’t see. The pack behaves differently when a member is in transition, getting ready to cross over. This week the younger dogs started bringing Cali “gifts” of pine cones and sticks, and laying close to her. Even Ivy the cat has been curling up with Cali on her bed.  Sitting vigil. Saying their good-byes.</p>
<p><strong>Things to Consider When Facing End-of-Life Decisions</strong></p>
<p><a class="shutter" href="http://odaroloc.files.wordpress.com/2011/03/p1020403.jpg"><img class="alignright" title="Odaroloc Sled Dogs " src="http://odaroloc.files.wordpress.com/2011/03/p1020403.jpg" alt="" width="220" height="330" /></a>Transitions can take a long time, but really there is no way to tell. There are cycles of good days and bad days. End-of-life care for a friend requires patience and comfort.</p>
<p>I have been down this road many times, and with as many furry family members as we have, have only scratched the surface of how many more times we will be here. I don&#8217;t have any answers, but I do have some thoughts to share on the end-of-life that we ALL will face at some point.</p>
<p><strong> There is no &#8220;right&#8221; or &#8220;wrong&#8221; here. </strong>Each dog, each situation, each day varies. All you can do is what is best for your particular friend on that particular day. Maybe it is allowing nature to do its thing, maybe it is aggressively treating an issue, maybe it is euthanasia.</p>
<p>I have gone all these routes (and some others too) based on each unique situation. No one can tell you what is best for your situation. YOU know your animal better than anyone else, and you need to keep their needs in mind.</p>
<p><strong>Everyone dies. </strong>No one gets out of this contract. Dying isn&#8217;t something to fret or worry about because it is pointless. We do what we can with the time we have – as long or as short as that may be. Each day is a gift, each moment precious. Make them count.</p>
<p><a class="shutter" href="http://odaroloc.files.wordpress.com/2011/05/p1000836.jpg"><img class="alignleft" title="Calpurnia at Home" src="http://odaroloc.files.wordpress.com/2011/05/p1000836.jpg" alt="" width="269" height="201" /></a>I don&#8217;t remember being born, but I can&#8217;t imagine that it was a painless process (certainly not for my mom). In that same light, I think that there is some natural discomfort in dying also. Our bodies are programed to keep fighting, sometimes beyond what they are capable of.</p>
<p>That being said, as a pet owner <strong>I think you need to closely evaluate what level of discomfort your friend is facing and do what you can to help.</strong> I wouldn&#8217;t be afraid of pain, rather see it for what it is and try to figure out what it is telling you. Go with your heart.</p>
<p><strong>Lots of people like to tell you what to do. They don&#8217;t know. </strong>They can&#8217;t possibly know. YOU do.  YOU have to make the decisions, do the hard work, get up a million times during the night, etc.  Every time someone makes a snide comment about your decisions, keep that in mind. And try not to punch them in the neck, that just leads to legal issues.</p>
<p><strong>Transition from life to death can sometimes take a long time. </strong>It definitely takes a stress toll on you, and pack mates that may live with you. As much as you can, try to keep life as normal as possible. Get out and walk, watch a sunset, make a nice meal, laugh. Do the things that keep your spirit filled. Your energy keeps the pack happy, stable, and feeling secure.</p>
<p><strong>Calpurnia Chooses Her Own Path</strong></p>
<p><a class="shutter" href="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/friends_family/20090613w_calpurnia02.jpg"><img class="alignleft" title="Calpurnia, TC and Dave" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/friends_family/20090613w_calpurnia02.jpg" alt="" width="265" height="198" /></a>Calpurnia is very peaceful. She does not appear to be stressed or in pain. We have had a series of cool, snowy days which seems to have perked her up a bit. She watches life around her, but makes little effort to be involved. More as if she is reminding herself of this life so she has memories to take with her. She takes comfort in her team members being around her.</p>
<p>We will not rush her – we will allow Calpurnia to choose her own path and her own time as she has her whole life. We will take each day as they come and enjoy the precious moments we have left with our sweet girl.</p>
<p>When the time comes, she will follow that trail to her teammates waiting on the other side who will be so happy to see her. Her spirit will live on in the lessons she has taught us, the memories we have shared together, and the continuation of the journey we started together.”</p>
<p>Written by TC Wait. <a title="Adventures of the Odaroloc Sled Dogs" href="http://odaroloc.wordpress.com/2011/05/14/transitions/">Read this in its entirety at The Adventures of the Odaroloc Sled Dogs</a>.</p>
<p><em><a class="shutter" href="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/tripawd_parties/20080914w_jerrycali03.jpg"><img class="alignright" title="Calpurnia and Jerry Lead the Team" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/tripawd_parties/20080914w_jerrycali03.jpg" alt="" width="263" height="197" /></a>Calpurnia has a special place in our hearts. She has been a member of Tripawds since 2007. When she and Spirit Jerry met in 2008, it was love at first sight. We&#8217;ll never forget it.<br />
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<p><em>Our hearts are breaking knowing that she will no longer be leading us down trails here on earth, but we take comfort in knowing that Spirit Jerry will be there to welcome her into eternity</em>.</p>
<p><strong>More Ways to Cope with End of Life Decisions and Grief:<br />
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<p><strong><a title="End of Life and Grief Support Resources" href="http://tripawds.com/2011/01/25/tripawds-grief-support-resources/">Tripawds Grief Support Resources</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a title="Pet Loss Help for Coping with Anticipatory Grief" href="http://amazon.tripawds.com/2011/02/16/pet-loss-grief-help/">Help for Coping with Anticipatory Grief</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a title="Pet Loss Books to Ease a Child's Broken Heart" href="http://amazon.tripawds.com/2011/02/05/pet-loss-books-to-ease-a-childs-broken-heart/">Pet Loss Books to Ease a Child&#8217;s Broken Heart</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a title="For Every Dog An Angel Book Helps Pawrents Cope with Pet Loss" href="http://amazon.tripawds.com/2010/02/22/for-every-dog-an-angel-celebrates-our-bonds/">&#8216;For Every Dog an Angel&#8217; Celebrates our Bonds</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a title="How to Recover from Pet Loss" href="http://amazon.tripawds.com/2009/10/15/grieve-no-more-how-to-roar-and-recover-from-pet-loss/">How to R.O.A.R. and Recover from Pet Loss</a></strong></p>
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		<title>Tripawd Talk Radio Discusses Hospice Care this Sunday 5/8, 5:30 pm EST</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 May 2011 17:21:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerry</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tripawd Talk Radio talks about end-of-life care for animals with Home at Last Pet Hospice and Euthanasia's Dr. Sheila Kurt on Sunday May 8 2011.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tune in to <a title="Tripawd Talk Radio Pet Hospice Discussion" href="http://www.blogtalkradio.com/tripawds/2011/05/08/pet-hospice-and-euthanasia-with-dr-sheila-kirt">Tripawd Talk Radio</a> this Sunday, May 8 at 5:30 Eastern to meet Dr. Sheila Kirt, DVM, of <a title="Home at Last Pet Hospice and Euthanasia" href="http://euthanasiatucson.com/" target="_blank">Home at Last Pet Hospice and Euthanasia</a> in Tucson Arizona.</p>
<p><a href="http://euthanasiatucson.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/about_image.png"><img class="alignleft" title="Dr. Sheila Kirt Home at Last Hospice and Euthanasia Tucson Arizona" src="http://euthanasiatucson.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/about_image.png" alt="" width="299" height="222" /></a><a title="Home at Last Pet Hospice and Euthanasia" href="http://euthanasiatucson.com/" target="_blank">Home at Last</a> is a mobile veterinary practice focusing on end of life care for companion animals. Although this is a difficult topic to think about, at some point, all of us will confront it. On Sunday, we&#8217;ll hear from Dr. Kirt to find out how we can ensure that our beloved animals&#8217; last days are as comfortable and peaceful as pawsible.</p>
<p>Tripawd Talk Radio is a 30-minute Internet show that brings you the latest information about canine amputation, recovery tips and canine cancer care treatments.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Date: This Sunday 5/8/2011</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Time: 5:30 PM (Eastern), 2:30 PM (Pacific)</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Tune in here: <a title="Tripawd Talk Radio Pet Hospice and Euthanasia Discussion" href="http://www.blogtalkradio.com/tripawds/2011/05/08/pet-hospice-and-euthanasia-with-dr-sheila-kirt">Tripawd Talk Radio</a><br />
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<p>Remember, you can ask any questions <a title="Tripawd Talk Radio Questions" href="http://tripawds.com/forums/tripawd-talk/pet-hospice-050811/">here in the Forums</a> before the show, or listen live online and ask your questions in the Tripawds <a title="Chat live during Tripawd Talk Radio" href="http://tripawds.com/chat" target="_blank">Chat Room</a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Call in live during the show </strong>with your questions or join us in the </span><a title="Chat live during Tripawd Talk Radio" href="../chat" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Chat</span></a><span style="color: #ff0000;">. </span></p>
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<p>Can&#8217;t make the show? Then <a title="Tripawd Talk Radio Agility and Homeopathy Discussion" href="http://tripawds.com/forums/tripawd-talk/pet-hospice-050811/">check our Discussion Forum</a> topic for the on-demand audio podcast.</p>
<p><small><em>DISCLAIMER: Information provided at Tripawd Talk Radio and Tripawds.com is not a substitute for medical care by your personally selected, qualified veterinary professional. Always seek the advice of a licensed veterinarian prior to making any medical decisions or undergoing treatments or therapies, or if you have questions about your dog’s health. We advise against any medical decisions made without the direct involvement of your veterinary team. Tripawds.com is a project of Agreda Communications, which is not responsible or liable, directly or indirectly, for any form of damages whatsoever resulting from the use (or misuse) of information contained in or implied by the information available at Tripawd Talk Radio or Tripawds.com.</em></small></p>

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		<title>Hospice Helps Cope with Loss</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Apr 2011 03:16:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jerry</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Veterinary hospice care helps humans cope with the impending loss of a pet and grief.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class="sfforumlink"><a href="http://tripawds.com/forums/coping-with-loss/hospice-helps-cope-with-loss/"><img src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/forum-styles/icons/two-en/bloglink.png" alt="" /> Join  the forum discussion on this topic.</a></span><p>End of life care. We don&#8217;t like to think about it, but this is a part of life that we all must face at some point. And no matter how many times we go through the process, it never gets any easier to say goodbye.</p>
<p><a class="shutter" href="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/glamor_shots/20080916w_cherrycreek05.jpg"><img class="alignleft" title="Jerry Earns His Wings" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/glamor_shots/20080916w_cherrycreek05.jpg" alt="" width="280" height="209" /></a>When I was diagnosed with terminal bone cancer, my parents had never been through the death of a fur kid before.</p>
<p>From the earliest days of my diagnosis, they wondered how they would know when my time had arrived. Would it be dramatic? Would I slowly deteriorate? Would we have time to say goodbye?</p>
<p>They found <a title="Tips to measure dog's quality of life." href="http://www.pet-loss.net/quality.shtml" target="_blank">tips to help measure my quality of life,</a> talked to my vet, and when it became clear that no amount of medical intervention was going to make me feel better, we all knew it was <a title="Spirit Jerry's Final Days" href="http://tripawds.com/2008/11/01/saying-goodbye-how-we-knew-part-1/" target="_blank">time to say goodbye</a>.</p>
<p>But sometimes end of life decisions aren&#8217;t so clear. When things look murky, finding someone who can help guide you through the process is something to consider. That&#8217;s when animal hospice care is a good idea.</p>
<p><strong>Hospice Care for Dogs?</strong><strong></strong></p>
<p>In an article called &#8220;<strong><a title="Coping with Death through Hospice Care for Dogs" href="http://dogslifemagazine.com/hospicecarefordogs/" target="_blank">Hospice Care for Dogs</a></strong>&#8221; (<em><a title="Dogs Life Magazine Winter 2010" href="http://dogslifemagazine.com/issue-14-winter-2010/" target="_blank">Dog&#8217;s Life Magazine, November 2010</a></em>) author <a title="Freelance writer Kyra Kirkwood" href="http://www.kyrakirkwood.com/" target="_blank">Kyra Kirkwood</a> says hospice care is:</p>
<blockquote><p>“A type of care system or facility that focuses on providing comfort and support to patients nearing the end of their lives. It doesn’t prolong life or cure any disease; it is palliative care.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Hospice care focuses on keeping pain to a minimum and letting the last months, weeks or days be as peaceful and dignified as possible. It’s about quality of life, not quantity. It’s about living the rest of the days as pain-free and humanely as possible. A team of qualified professionals, from doctors to counselors, work with the patient and family to provide this.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Hospice care also focuses on the loved ones left behind. Bereavement and counseling services are often part of hospice programs, which can take place in the patient’s home or in a medical-type facility.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Now, this same operating model is being used with dogs. Hospice care, which almost always takes place at the dog’s home, allows pet guardians to enjoy the time left with a pet, wrap their minds around the diagnosis and eventual outcome, and say goodbye. It’s about making the most of what is left, and then letting go.”</p></blockquote>
<p><a class="shutter" href="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/procedure/20080416w_apptcheckup07.jpg"><img class="alignright" title="Jerry's Cancer checkup" src="http://tripawds.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/1/files/procedure/20080416w_apptcheckup07.jpg" alt="" width="302" height="226" /></a>In her article, Kirkwood says that “Hospice care is relatively simple. It involves the use of pain medications to keep the dog comfortable, fluids for hydration, and possibly other services such as:</p>
<ol>
<li>Nutritional assessment and recommendations (perhaps a feeding tube or other feeding assistance, too).</li>
<li>Steroids to decrease inflammation and increase appetite.</li>
<li>Acupuncture, massage therapy and acupressure.</li>
<li>Subcutaneous fluids and anti-nausea medication. These are done at home, most often by the guardian.”</li>
</ol>
<p>We strongly encourage pet pawrents to <strong><a title="Coping with Death Through Hospice Care for Dogs" href="http://dogslifemagazine.com/hospicecarefordogs/" target="_blank">read Kirkwood&#8217;s fantastic article</a></strong> to learn more about how hospice can help make a heart wrenching time of life just a little bit easier for the family. Even if you don&#8217;t need it now, if you have pets, at some point you will want to refer to it, so be sure to bookmark it.</p>
<p><strong>Have you been through hospice with an animal before? If so, how did it work for you? Would you recommend it to others?</strong></p>
<p>We would love to hear your experiences.</p>

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