Dear Wendy,

Everyone has already given you such good advice – I don't have any advice to add but want you to know that we are holding you in our hearts, hands, and paws at this time. We also agonized over chemo – it is a very difficult decision. Whatever you decide is best for Henri, we're all here for you. Best wishes, and healing thoughts across the miles…
Hugs,
Holly and Holly's mom

Wendy, this is the most difficult time.  I think you've received a collection of the very best advice there is and still there is no firm, absolute answer. 

By contrast, chemo was not an option for Cemil because of the cost.  The best I could do is an alternative treatment.  I started down that path determined to enjoy him as long as I could, and for us, it has worked out well.  I don't know what tomorrow holds but I don't spend much time thinking about it (denial is my friend).  Today is all there is.  Somehow, you'll have to make a choice, and then don't look back–don't waste any days you have with Henri–enjoy the love you share.  That's what it's all about.

Praying you'll find peace with your decision…

Mary

Wendy,

I'm sorry for this tough decision facing you.  It is so hard, especially when a dog is older.  I don't know why I am writing because I do not have any experience with that chemo drug.  I just wanted to tell you we are thinking about you and Henri and wish the best for you both and your family.  Opie's mom (Nancy)

Dear Wendy: How are you and Henri holding up? How is Henri recovering. We've been thinking of you and sending good, healing thoughts your way. The first few weeks are really rough. I think I cried every day, but also rejoiced in the small steps. We just kept repeating, "We did this to save Romeo's life."

We did not follow as strict a holistic regime as some, but in the beginning we did Chinese herbs, Vit E and fish oil supplements, and acupuncture. I think it gave Romeo a good start. If you decide to try this, just make sure your acupuncturist/herbalist is a licensed

veterinary acupuncturist (you can find this info on line—let me know if you need help and I will dig out the link). Now we try to do acupuncture every 4-6 weeks. Also, I think Dasiquin is a great supplement for joints.

A few weeks ago there was the story of Lilli—a lab/boxer mix who made it two years post-surgery just on love! No extra treatments.

Many different paths. Please let us know how you and Henri are doing.

Love, Eve