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After much careful thought and consideration we have made the decision to surgically remove his dozen bladder stones, amputate the leg and hope and pray for the best outcome. It is extreme, but he can live with three legs and I just don't want to gamble on the high probability of the wound not closing or it coming back in in the same location with a vengence. He hates having a cone on his head and repeated treatments/surgeries would make his life miserable. I just don't want to do that to him.
I work for a department that supports individuals with developmental disabilities. Making the decision to "disable" (for lack of a better term) my dog was not made lightly. It took forever for me to make the painful decision, but people and animals live long happy lives with a disability and I wanted to give him that option.
For a number of years I also cared for a parent with Alzheimers before making the painful decision to put her into a nursing home. I know all too well what the words "quality of life" mean. I believe he would have a far better life adapting to three legs vs. nursing a wound that could bring endless months of recovery that may lead to amputation anyway. I'm also aware it may come back somewhere else, but it's a risk we're willing to take.
This weekend I brought "adaptive equipment" stuff for him to help him through the transition. I got an orthopedic bed that is easy for him to get in and out of, a lambswool lined harness (used in cars) to assist him with getting up/doing stairs and some dog socks that have rubber on the bottom to put on his front right paw (to avoid slipping). I also bought a raised food dish (so he doesn't have to lean down so much) and changed his food to Dr. Harveys Miracle Dog Food (the testimonials are true, I'm amazed at how much he loves it).
I know some folks may not agree with my decision, but hope there will be support available. His surgeries are scheduled for tomorrow. I'm not a very religious person, but I do pray he will come out ok and hope you will keep him in your prayers as well. I will post pictures (both pre and post surgery) once I get them from my daughter.
Thank you so much for your kindness and support.
You have done your research, consulted professionals, and made a decision based on what will work for your family and what will help Willy. Good for you!
Now it's time to move forward. Surgery recovery has it's ups and downs for sure. Make sure to get plenty of rest (you and Willy). You sound super prepared with some new Tripawd gear! You may want to wait until his incision is healed to use the harness. We kept a T-shirt on Bo for a good 2 weeks to keep the incision clean and to keep him from scratching it. Also, the meds after surgery can make them loopy and mess with their appetite. You may play "what will the dog eat today" for a few days.
I know the feeling of thinking you are "disabling" Willy by amputating. He will soon show you that it is not at all the case. Willy will amaze you and teach you wonderful life lessons. Listen to them. Life throws us these wild curve balls sometimes and we don't always know why. I do know that having a tripawd is a true blessing and you will cherish every moment.
Good luck to Willy and keep us updated!!
7:13 pm
29 October 2010
OfflineI'm glad to hear you have reached your decision and are moving forward with everything. It's hard to know what to do when you have such different options, but it sounds like you made the best decision for him.
I hope the surgery goes well. Will be thinking of Willy tomorrow. Once he gets through the rough recovery period, I'm sure he'll begin amazing you.
All the best,
Jackie, Abby's mom
7:55 pm
Moderator
18 October 2009
OfflineWe all know how hard these decisions are to make, especially when there are extra health issues to consider.
The only people who have to agree with your decision are you, your daughter, and your vets! I don't think you will find anything but support here. You have chosen your path forward with Willie's best interest at heart- therefore you have made the right decision!! I hope making the decision has brought a little relief, now you can move forward with the next phase of your life with Willie.
You sound like you are well prepared and ready to bring Willie home after his surgery. Please come ask any questions as they come up. While only a few here have dealt with mast cell cancer, most everyone has dealt with making these tough decisions, amputation and recovery. There is a lot of experience here to share.
I will be thinking about you and Willie tomorrow- I hope the surgeries go well. Please post an update when you can.
Karen and the pugapalooza
p.s.- you might think about starting a new topic in the Treatment and Recovery forum (that's my moderator voice!). It makes it easier for members to follow Willie's progress.
8:57 pm
Moderator
14 August 2009
OfflineIs it selfish of me to not want to put him through the pain of multiple surgeries, save myself from going into a financial hole and opt to amputate?
No! It is not selfish! Just remember, it doesn't matter what anyone thinks. We are here to support and would never tell you what is right for your situation! It's totally understandable from my perspective…you want it behind you! The thought of future surgeries do suck!
And yes, dogs live long happy lives hopping along. Mine was born with a deformed leg and she lived a full long life!
Sending lots of healing thoughts your way. Let us know when everything is okay. (Perhaps you should start a topic)
Comet - 1999 to 2011She departed us unexpectedly January 23, 2011 at the age of 12 1/2.
She was born with a deformed front leg and a tripawd all of her life.
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