Save time spent searching, download the new Tripawds e-book for immediate answers!

Bookmark Jerry's Required Reading List for more amputation recovery advice and care tips.

Review the Tripawds Featured Blogs for the best three legged dog care product recommendations.

Tripawds is a user supported community. Please do what you can to help keep it online.

Tripawd Talk Radio Interview with Speaking for Spot Author Dr. Nancy Kay
Miss the show? Listen to the podcast now!

Please consider registering
guest

Log In RegisterMembers

Register | Lost password?
Advanced Search:

— Forum Scope —



— Match —



— Forum Options —




Wildcard usage:
*  matches any number of characters    %  matches exactly one character

Minimum search word length is 4 characters - maximum search word length is 84 characters

Topic RSS
Valentina Angel Dane
5 February 2012
6:57 pm
Member
Forum Posts: 61
Member Since:
13 March 2010
Offline

Angel,

I am so sorry that you had to let Valentina go. Hopefully the knowledge that, at the end, you gave her the greatest gift that you could, will ease your pain. Your 'magical love' will always be with you and Valentina will always be in your heart, and ours. Thank you so much for sharing her story, your love for her, and hers for you.

Travis Ray and the OP +1

6 February 2012
12:31 am
Washington
Member
Forum Posts: 939
Member Since:
1 February 2011
Offline

Oh Angel,

I am so, so sad for you. I know how much pain you must be in right now. And I know that there are no words to ease that pain for you. You did the best thing you could for your special girl, and soon the happy memories will outnumber the sad. We are with you tonight in spirit…. Hugs to you,

Rio's momma

the Woo

~ ~ Rio ~ ~
Forever in my heart...

April 2000 – January 20, 2012
Diagnosed with Mast Cell Cancer in June 2007. Left rear leg amputated Feb. 8, 2011.
Mets discovered Aug. 31, 2011. Read more of Rio's story here.

6 February 2012
11:17 am
Calgary, AB
Member
Forum Posts: 268
Member Since:
30 January 2010
Offline

I'm so sorry to hear about Valentina. I was hoping she would bounce back. It is so very difficult to lose your "heart dog" . Her spirit will remain with you forever. Sending hugs.
Laura , Kali, and Angel Tai

Tai – 9 yr old lab. Diagnosed Osteosarcoma Dec 18/09. Front right leg amputated Dec 21/09. Started chemo Jan 7/10. Lung mets discovered Sept 16/10. Valiant to the end on Oct 26/10 when cancer reappeared in a leg and we made the decision to set her free. Forever in my heart where not even cancer can take her from me.
6 February 2012
1:58 pm
Member
Forum Posts: 447
Member Since:
8 July 2011
Offline

Thank You everyone so very much for all of your caring and kind words. I am still in shock somewhat. I keep asking myself  "What did I do?"  "Had things really gotten bad enough to put her to sleep?" Well as many times as I keep asking myself that I still keep telling myself Yes! I keep replaying everything that happened leading up to my decision and it confirms to me that I did make the right decision. But I think I miss her so terribly much and I wish she was still here that it's hard not to ask myself that. I just wish it could have been some other way. We are all expecting the time to come but when it actually does it may not be at all what we expected. I am still trying to stay positive but it is so hard to go through the day when my day used to center around her and she is not there anymore. It does feel very very lonely. sad  

Valentina Angel Dane diagnosed with Osteosarcoma in front left leg May 21st 2011. Amputation July 5th 2011. DOB:11/3/03 DOD:2/3/12 . Valentina was the Love of my Life!!! There is nothing like a Dane!!!
6 February 2012
5:54 pm
Los Angeles
Member
Forum Posts: 843
Member Since:
2 November 2009
Offline

Angel – I am so so sorry for your loss.  It is one of the most devastating and difficult losses we have to face unfortunately – especially the loss of our beloved pets that we are so strongly connected to.    I feel your pain and completely understand how lonely and empty things feel now.  But please find comfort in knowing that Valentina is still with you by your side and will always be forever in your heart- she's watching over you making sure that you're going to be ok. 

My thoughts and prayers are with you.  My deepest condolences.

Kami, Angel Mackenzie

My sweet golden Mackenzie.  She became my angel on Dec 29, 2010 at the age of 8 1/2  although she was always my angel from the time we brought her home.  She was diagnosed with osteosarcoma in Sept 2009 and officially became a tripawd (front leg) on Nov 5, 2009.  She will be forever in my heart and now she's running free with all of our other tripawd heroes.  I love you Mackenzie!
6 February 2012
6:23 pm
Colorado
Member
Forum Posts: 20
Member Since:
21 October 2011
Offline

Angel,

I just wanted to let you know that I am so sorry for your loss and I have been thinking about you and Valentina today.  Unfortunately, we are taking our dog Gaby to the vet tomorrow and I'm so afraid of what may come from this visit.  The posts on this thread have helped me prepare if the decision needs to be made.

 

Joanie and 'Still Fighting" Gaby

6 February 2012
7:54 pm
The Rainbow Bridge

Team Tripawds
Forum Posts: 7621
Member Since:
25 April 2007
Offline

Angel, you have every right to question how you came to decide whether or not it was Valentina's time, but in your heart I know you know the answer.

I think one of the hardest parts of adapting to such great loss is not having our routines that we once had. When that's gone, it takes a while to find our bearings and find another new normal. I know you will find yours though, it just takes time to find your path again. We're here to help you get there.

xoxo

It's better to hop on three legs than to limp on four.™
Latest Tripawds News
Read my story here.
6 February 2012
10:47 pm
California
Member
Forum Posts: 344
Member Since:
16 January 2011
Offline

Angel -
I am just so so sorry… My heart is breaking for you right now.

Sending hugs
KaCee

7 February 2012
12:03 am
Member
Forum Posts: 163
Member Since:
18 January 2012
Offline

I'm so sorry for your loss.  Your decision showed your strength and your caring.  May your memories of your beautiful girl help to fill the hole in your heart. 

Judy and Baby

Forum Timezone: America/Denver

Most Users Ever Online: 165

Currently Online: gillian
62 Guest(s)

Currently Browsing this Page:
1 Guest(s)

Top Posters:

AngelAbbysMom: 1503

Emilysmom: 1231

fightingforsammy: 1120

jakesmom: 1111

Cooper: 976

10711: 942

riosmom: 939

Cherry: 930

Member Stats:

Guest Posters: 443

Members: 3489

Moderators: 8

Admins: 3

Forum Stats:

Groups: 4

Forums: 22

Topics: 5885

Posts: 81437

Moderators: betaman (91), tazziedog (1232), hugapitbull (3175), testmod (7), Tazzie (1338), cometdog (4147), krun15 (2017), etgayle (1599)

Administrators: jerry (7621), admin (7746), jim (47)