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Shelby is at peace
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Los Angeles, CA
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9 April 2014 - 7:59 am
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My heart breaks as I sit here and type this. Shelby crossed the rainbow bridge last night, at the park by the beach that she loved so much. The vet graciously allowed me to spend all day in the hospital, a doggy hospice, since she wasn't well enough to leave. I held her on the floor for 8+ hours and told her that I loved her and as always, I would never leave her.

My friend and I then transported her to the beach and it was instant. We layed her in her bed in the grass and her breathing relaxed. She was so peaceful. She was home and she was safe. She was happy.

She could no longer walk, hold her own head up, open her eyes but she could smell and feel and I was there. As I said goodbye, she knew how very loved she was.

This pain is unlike anything and my reality this morning is the same. I don't know where to go, what to do with myself, who I am without her.

She was strong to the end and she fought a courageous battle. I am so proud of her.

Thank you all for allowing me to share her with you. I know she would have loved you all.

Shelby Lynne - October 15, 2000 to April 8, 2014

Shelby Lynne; Jack Russell/Shiba Inu mix. Proud member of the April Angels of 2014.

October 15, 2000 to April 8, 2014

Our story: Broke rear leg in June 2013 - non-conclusive results for cancer so leg was plated and pinned. Enlarged spleen in September 2013 and had it removed and was diagnosed with Hemangiosarcoma and started chemotherapy. Became a Tripawd January 8th, 2014 and definitive Hemangiosarcoma diagnosis. Three major surgeries in 7 months and Shelby took them all like a champ only to lose her battle to cancer in her brain. We had 8 amazing extra months together and no regrets. #shelbystrong #loveofmylife

New York, NY
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9 April 2014 - 8:11 am
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Alison,

 

I am so deeply heartbroken and sorry for your loss.  You know we are all here for you, whatever you need.

Shelby was indeed a fighter and the two of you fought this thing with pride, dignity and grace. 

We are all mourning today with you.

All my love ,

Erica

Jill is a 9-year-old tuxedo kitty. She was diagnosed with Osteosarcoma in June 2012 on her toe in her right hind leg. Her leg was amputated on 12/12/12 and she completed four rounds of chemo (2 of Carbo, 2 of Doxy) in April 2013. "Like" Jill's facebook page: https://www.fac.....tty?ref=hl Proud member of the WINTER WARRIORS!!!! Her blog can be read at http://jillsjou.....ipawds.com. xoxo

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9 April 2014 - 8:17 am
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Alison, our sympathies and love can't even begin to express how every sorry we are, this is such a heartbreak for the entire community and I know especially for you. As terrible as her loss is, I'm glad that you were able to give her the send off that you both wanted, no dog could ever ask for a better way to transition into an everlasting life.

Shelby was such a lucky, happy girl who found a soul mate the day you took her into your arms, what a life-changing event. I know that for a long time you will feel like you're without a leader, that's certainly the way many of us have felt, you are not alone. Don't think about the future or even they day after tomorrow, just take things one hour, one day at a time and know that with each passing hour, Shelby is never far from you, always guiding you in your decisions and making sure that you enjoy every day to the fullest just as she did. Her lessons will never fade as long as you keep your heart open and follow her lead. I know you can do that.

We are so fortunate to have had the opportunity to be a part of your life together, thank you for that honor. Shelby's spirit will always be a part of this community.

Much love and hugs coming your way.

 

 

Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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Livermore, CA




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9 April 2014 - 8:38 am
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You are amazing Alison- as you did every day of Shelby's life you made her last day on earth perfect.  It is of little consolation now, but what a beautiful place to let Shelby go across the Bridge.

I know it seems now like it will never be better, that you don't know who you are without her.  This is the price we pay for loving so much, it is going to hurt for a while.  It will get better, you will get through it.  I know because you were strong enough to make the cancer journey with Shelby.

I hope you let us ease your burden just a little as we grieve for Shelby as a community.

 

Shelby will always live in your heart and so will always, always be by your side.

 

Karen and Spirit Maggie

 

Tri-pug Maggie survived a 4.5 year mast cell cancer battle only to be lost to oral melanoma.

1999 to 2010

 

              Maggie's Story                  Amputation and Chemo

Westminster, MD
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9 April 2014 - 8:51 am
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Alison, what a fitting and beautiful way for sweet Shelby to spend her last moments, at the place she loved.....but especially being with the one person that made her life happier and more fulfilled than she could ever imagine. You brought so much joy and happiness to each other in this life, it will NEVER be diminished.

The days ahead will be so very hard for you, but we will surround you with all the love, support and anything you need to help you through this ending journey with precious, adorable, brave, Shelby.

I can no longer see or write through my sobs and tears, so just know that ALL of us share your heartbreak and un-ending tears.....also know that my Polly was there waiting, to greet her over the Bridge.....

Sending all my Love and hugs....
Bonnie & Angel Polly

Idaho
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9 April 2014 - 8:59 am
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Run free, sweet girl. You will always be Shelby strong. We know for sure now that there is a beach at the Bridge.

Alison, my heart breaks for you. Thank you for allowing us to know Shelby, even for a short time. What a wonderful send off you were able to give her. So many do not get to do this on their own terms.

Pleas stay with us through these hard times. Our arms are always available for needed hugs.

Kathi and Murphy

Murphy is a five year old Lab/Chessie cross. He was hit by a car on 10/29/12 and became a Tripawd on 11/24/12. On 2/5/13, he had a total hip replacement on his remaining back leg. He has absolutely no idea that he has only three legs!

UPDATE: Murphy lived his life to the fullest, right up until an aggressive bone lesion took him across the Rainbow Bridge on April 9, 2015 and he gained his membership in the April Angels. Run free, my love. You deserve it!

Kelowna, British Columbia Canada
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9 April 2014 - 9:13 am
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Our thoughts and sympathies are with you Alison and Shelby! Very sorry to hear of you tremendous loss.  What an amazing thing you did for Shelby to provide her the beautiful and peaceful crossing over the Rainbow Bridge. Not a dry eye around here.

 

Hang in there!! Thoughts and prayers are with you both.

Stirling and Tahoe

"Tahoe" - Our Amazing Superman and Best Friend.

Dec. 01-03 to Aug. 19-14

Diagnosed with Periarticular Hystiocystic Sarcoma Feb 14-13; Amputation March 18-13, and diagnosed with STS April-14. Tahoe touched so many people while visiting us, leaving a massive void in our lives. Always Missed, Never Forgotten!!

Fort Wayne, IN
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9 April 2014 - 9:34 am
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Dear Alison, I know how lost you feel.  Everything comes to a screeching halt and you don't know where to turn or what to do.  You will be out of sorts for awhile, no way around it.  It WILL get better but it hurts like hell right now.  Like Jerry said, one hour at a time for now.

What an absolutely beautiful goodbye you gave Shelby.  You've always put Shelby first and she felt that.  You've done right by her from beginning to end.

My heart goes out to you.  You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.  We are all here for you.

Love and hugs,

Amy & Spirit Libby

Liberty (Libby) was diagnosed with OSA on 1-22-13.  Right front amputation on 1-31-13. No IV Chemo. Metronomic Therapy started 2-19-13 along with supplements and some home cooking. Lungs clear until 1-06-14.  She's still her happy, hoppy, bossy self.  Living the dog life to the fullest and a proud Winter Warrior. :) RIP my Libby 4-21-03 to 3-19-14





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9 April 2014 - 9:37 am
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Alison,

I am so sorry for your loss.  I know you gave everything you had to Shelby.  You gave her the greatest gift of all just now by letting her go.  I know how hard that is.  You gave her the most beautiful crossing that anyone could have.  Just to have the sand in her paws and you with her.  My heart breaks with grief for you. 

Run Free Shelby you are with all the other Warriors & Princess Warriors. 

 

Hugs

Michelle & Angel Sassy

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Sassy is a proud member of the Winter Warriors. Live long, & strong Winter Warriors.
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07/26/2006 - Sassy earned her wings 08/20/2013

05/04/2006 -  Bosch, Sassy's pal, earned his wings 03/29/19  fought cancer for 4 months.

"You aren't doing it TO her, you are doing it FOR her. Give her a chance at life."

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9 April 2014 - 9:41 am
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I'm so sorry Alison.... It sounds like you got to live up to your promise with shelby. It sounds peaceful. What a lucky dog to havea mom who loved her so much. She'll always be with you...
All our love
Lori, Angel Chuck and the family

Virginia







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9 April 2014 - 9:58 am
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You gave her a beautiful passage to an open door as she entered the next phase of her journey, just as you gave her a beautiful life full of love and happiness when she entered the dorr to her earthy journey with you.

I'll write ore later Alison, ..stupid computer freezing.

Sendingyo so much love and surroundingyo with Shelby's eter al grace.

Sally and Happy Hannah

Happy Hannah had a glorious additional bonus time of over one yr & two months after amp for osteo! She made me laugh everyday! Joined April's Angels after send off meal of steak, ice cream, M&Ms & deer poop!

Westminster, MD
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9 April 2014 - 9:58 am
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Alison, this was sent to me by a good friend when I lost my Polly......I want to share it with you today....

Much Love, 

Bonnie & Angel Polly

 

I stood by your bed last night, I came to have a peep.
I could see that you were crying, You found it hard to sleep.
I whined to you softly as you brushed away a tear,
"It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here."

I was close to you at breakfast, I watched you pour the tea,
You were thinking of the many times, your hands reached down to me.
I was with you at the shops today, Your arms were getting sore.
I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.

I was with you at my grave today, You tend it with such care.
I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.
I walked with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key.
I gently put my paw on you, I smiled and said " it's me."

You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair.
I tried so hard to let you know, that I was standing there.
It's possible for me, to be so near you everyday.
To say to you with certainty, "I never went away."
You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew...
In the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.

The day is over... I smile and watch you yawning
and say "good-night, God bless, I'll see you in the morning."
And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,
I'll rush across to greet you and we'll stand, side by side.
I have so many things to show you, there is so much for you to see.

Be patient, live your journey out...then come home to be with me.

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Virginia
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9 April 2014 - 10:13 am
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I'm so sorry. Shelby knew she could always count on you to take care of her and you lived up to that right to the very end. She was so lucky to have you as her mom. HUGS

Mom to Tripawd Angels Jake (2001-2014) and Rosco (2012-2015) and Tripawd Tanner. “Whatever happens tomorrow, we had today; and I'll always remember it”  

      

New Haven, CT
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9 April 2014 - 10:54 am
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We're all a mess.  I'm a teary blob again.  I cry for you and Shelby.  She was a beautiful dog and one of the best spirits out there.  13 years is a long time and you two saw and did so many things together.  Damn straight your world has changed.  We get it.  HUGS, my dear, HUGS.

How nice of your vet to let you invade the space the whole day!  Wow!  And then I guess a vet came to the beach, too, to send her on her way?

That goodbye you gave her is beautiful.  Just beautiful.  We should all be so lucky.  I know it's a weird thing to read, say, and think right now, but I hope there's a warm place in your heart and mind when you think back to her sendoff.

She's now looking out for all of us right now, well, mostly at you.

Cry it out, Alison.  Let it out.  I hope you can take the rest of the week to mourn.

HUGS and LOVE.  Shelby was given the BEST life possible.  She was THE luckiest to have you.  Relish in that...

~ Katy & Jackson

ACL tear in right hind leg 12/5/12 and scheduled ACL repair surgery 12/21/12. Pre-op xrays revealed osteosarcoma. Amputation 12/28/12.  Chemo (carboplatin) started Jan 10, 2013 and ended on April 5, for a total of 5 doses. He handled carbo like a champ!  No side effects.  We started metronomic therapy at his third chemo and have been also doing some holistic treatments.  He's a lively, playful 10 year old huskie-boarder collie and a very proud member of the Winter Warriors!  Our love. Our funny little guy!

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9 April 2014 - 11:36 am
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Oh Alison, I am so sorry! what a beautiful sendoff you gave to her. What a gift to her. Know that we are here to support you and we all understand. Not all the world does you know. As hard is this time is to walk through, Know that in the future, you will look back on your life with Shelby with fond memories. 13 years is a long time together. She was blessed to have you as you were to have her. You are in my thoughts and prayers! Shelby will always live on, tucked away inside a corner of your heart.  Lori & TY

TY GUY, Best Black Lab ever! Diagnosed  and had amp in January, 2014. Kicked MRSA's butt. Earned his angel wings on April 16, 2014. Run Free my boy and don't forget a shoe. Ty is a proud member of the " April Angels". Ty sent us Daryl, a Tripawd rescue in Sept. of 2016. Daryl is 5 +or -. We are also Pawrents to Chandler, a Border Collie mix who is 15 and 1/2, Lucy, a Corgi who is 7, 2 minis, 2 horses, and a feisty cat named Zoe. Zoe had a non skeletal Osteosarcoma removed in July 2015. No Chemo, she was at least 16. She is going strong although she is now completely blind. She is now close to 20 and her hobbies are eating and sleeping in front of her personal heater. 

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