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Jake Earned His Wings Today
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23 July 2014 - 5:51 pm
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Today was the day that we were to follow up and make a plan for Jake's new tumor. He was 5 weeks post amputation.  The secondary tumor appeared 2 weeks after surgery.  We were going to consult about palladia or other options, but... The OBNOXIOUS CANCER grew by the moment. Being a stoic lab he took it all with a sloppy kiss and goofiness.  Since Monday his appetite was decreasing, and vomited a few times. I have been off this week and we spent quality time!  The tumor was beginning to stretch the skin so much that it was abraded and oozing.  Knowing what was happening I kept it to myself.  My husband took the day off to go to the appointment with me.  Before the appointment I told him that I thought we should do the humane thing.  He agreed but could have never said those words.  We arrived at the appointment and I told them that we had a change of plans. Both the MD and Surgeon came in and spoke with us.  They agreed that we had done everything in our power to help Jake.  His passing was very peaceful and comforting!  I have no regrets about deciding to make him a tripawd, that was the least of his worries.  I want to thank everyone on this site for all the help and suggestions that you gave.  You all are wonderful people and truly love your animals.  Thank You!

Laurie aka Jake's Mom

Westminster, MD
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23 July 2014 - 6:35 pm
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Dear Laurie,
I feel as if I was just punched in my stomach, and want to puke........I am so very sorry for your loss of sweet Jake. I don't know what to say right now, I need to let you know I am thinking about you and your husband, and I will return when I can get my thoughts together........

Much Love, Bonnie & Angel Polly

Virginia
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23 July 2014 - 7:01 pm
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I am so sorry. Its just not fair. My Jake earned his wings almost exactly 6 months ago, from a second tumor, and when I saw your subject line I just felt sick. I am so glad you had the week off and got to spend quality time with him. That is so special. Its really hard to let them go, but its the last unselfish act of love we can give. Hugs and much love to you. I'm sure my Jake has found your Jake and they are running free together, with Shelby, Happy Hannah, Polly, Ty and the rest of the angel pack right on their tails! 

Mom to Tripawd Angels Jake (2001-2014) and Rosco (2012-2015) and Tripawd Tanner. “Whatever happens tomorrow, we had today; and I'll always remember it”  

      

Rio de Janeiro, Brazil
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23 July 2014 - 7:05 pm
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Dear Laurie,

so, so sorry for your loss.  You did all you could to give Jake the best quality of life possible, and therefore no regrets.  Time will take care of erasing these bad moments and leave you only with the wonderful memories of time spent with Jake.

warm regards from Daniela & Johnnie

Our awesome Golden Boy was diagnosed for OSA in April 2014 in the proximal humerus, front-leg amp on 05/20/2014. Finished chemo (Carbo6) on 07/10/2014. Ongoing treatment: acupuncture + K-9 Immunity Plus ( 3chews) and home-cooked no-grain diet.   Stopped Apocaps because of liver issues.   Liver issues: controlling altered enzymes with SAM-e and Milk Thistle.  October 17:  started having seizures.  Taking fenobarbital for seizures.  April 18: started prednisone.





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23 July 2014 - 7:39 pm
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Laurie,

I am so sorry this happened.  You gave Jake the greatest gift of all his dignity.  I know its not easy and will be hard for a long long time.  Do not let anyone tell you when the right time to stop grieving is.  We all have different times. 

RIP Jake.   Run Free

 

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Michelle & Angel Sassy

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Sassy is a proud member of the Winter Warriors. Live long, & strong Winter Warriors.
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07/26/2006 - Sassy earned her wings 08/20/2013

05/04/2006 -  Bosch, Sassy's pal, earned his wings 03/29/19  fought cancer for 4 months.

"You aren't doing it TO her, you are doing it FOR her. Give her a chance at life."

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23 July 2014 - 8:17 pm
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Laurie,

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm so glad you were able to have time with him before he crossed the rainbow bridge. 

RIP to Jake, you have lots of tripawd friends with you!

-Carolyn and Keira

Orrtanna Pa.
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23 July 2014 - 8:48 pm
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Oh Laurie, I am so very sorry! It is just so hard. You did the right thing today. Just so many emotions that go along with it. I bet Ty came running up to him to drop a shoe at his feet. Hannah brought the ice cream. I can see them all now like Elizabeth said, other Jake, Shelby, Polly, Leland, Snoop and all of our angel babies. I also agree with Michelle on the grieving time. Take as long as you need and if people do not understand it, well then , it is their problem. Hugs from, Lori and Ty

TY GUY, Best Black Lab ever! Diagnosed  and had amp in January, 2014. Kicked MRSA's butt. Earned his angel wings on April 16, 2014. Run Free my boy and don't forget a shoe. Ty is a proud member of the " April Angels". Ty sent us Daryl, a Tripawd rescue in Sept. of 2016. Daryl is 5 +or -. We are also Pawrents to Chandler, a Border Collie mix who is 15 and 1/2, Lucy, a Corgi who is 7, 2 minis, 2 horses, and a feisty cat named Zoe. Zoe had a non skeletal Osteosarcoma removed in July 2015. No Chemo, she was at least 16. She is going strong although she is now completely blind. She is now close to 20 and her hobbies are eating and sleeping in front of her personal heater. 

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23 July 2014 - 8:55 pm
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 I am so sorry for your loss.... I also took the week off when Shelby passed... it was the best thing for me and I was able to spend her last 48 hours with her. You did everything for Jake and he knows it. 

Sending you lots of hugs and love in your time of intense sadness....

 

alison & her shelby fur-ever in her heart 

Shelby Lynne; Jack Russell/Shiba Inu mix. Proud member of the April Angels of 2014.

October 15, 2000 to April 8, 2014

Our story: Broke rear leg in June 2013 - non-conclusive results for cancer so leg was plated and pinned. Enlarged spleen in September 2013 and had it removed and was diagnosed with Hemangiosarcoma and started chemotherapy. Became a Tripawd January 8th, 2014 and definitive Hemangiosarcoma diagnosis. Three major surgeries in 7 months and Shelby took them all like a champ only to lose her battle to cancer in her brain. We had 8 amazing extra months together and no regrets. #shelbystrong #loveofmylife

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23 July 2014 - 9:37 pm
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I am so, so sorry Laurie & family, my heart aches for you and Jake, please accept my condolences. It's just awful when things move this fast.

In the end, you and your husband did the most courageous and kindest thing possible for your brave boy. That had to have been so hard! But what a blessing that you were on the same page about deciding when it was time. Jake was able to leave this world peacefully because he knew his pack was all in agreement. Some day, all of you will be a family again but until then, many his generous spirit and big heart fill your lives with light and love.

Lots and lots of hugs coming your way. We'll light a candle for Jake.

Tripawds Founders Jim and Rene
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24 July 2014 - 2:56 am
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Hi Laurie

I'm so very sorry to hear about your loss of Jake.

Jake knew he was loved - and will continue to be so - as he will be part of your memories forever.

Many hugs

Linda and Tucker

Martinsburg, WV
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24 July 2014 - 9:41 am
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Laurie,

I'm so sorry for your family's loss of sweet Jake.  It has been 3 weeks and 3 days since my husband and I had to let our Leland go.  We both still cry at least once a day because we miss him...but that's ok.  As others have said don't worry about what other people think and take as long as you need.  Take comfort in knowing that you did right by Jake in easing him from the pain of his body.  It's really tough when our fur babies have to pass on and leave their humans behind but I PRAY we get to see them when our time comes to move on.  How wonderful of a thought that all our dogs and kitties are just waiting for us to catch up.

Keeping you in my thoughts and sending you a BIG HUG!

Sahana and her Angel Leland

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Leland

November 17, 2009 - June 30, 2014

May you finally be healthy and running free at the Rainbow Bridge. Until we meet again my sweet boy!

New Jersey
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24 July 2014 - 1:23 pm
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Dear Laurie,
Our sympathies to you and your family for your lists of Jake. It's never easy saying goodbye, but letting him go as you two did was out of pure love.

In our thoughts,
Esther and my Angel Snoop

Orange County, CA
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24 July 2014 - 1:58 pm
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I'm so sorry you've lost your handsome boy.  Jake fought a very brave battle.  Sending healing thoughts to you.

Fort Wayne, IN
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24 July 2014 - 2:49 pm
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Laurie,

I'm so sorry for your loss.  Many of us here know your pain.  Jake had a wonderful life with you and you let him go with his dignity.  No regrets...that's what I have always said too.

Amy & Spirit Libby

Liberty (Libby) was diagnosed with OSA on 1-22-13.  Right front amputation on 1-31-13. No IV Chemo. Metronomic Therapy started 2-19-13 along with supplements and some home cooking. Lungs clear until 1-06-14.  She's still her happy, hoppy, bossy self.  Living the dog life to the fullest and a proud Winter Warrior. :) RIP my Libby 4-21-03 to 3-19-14

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25 July 2014 - 9:21 am
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Took me till now to read this.  With tears streaming down my face... You are all wonderful people. Despite having two other goofy labs there is a huge hole in our house and my heart!  I do not regret making the decision, and I have consolation in knowing that he had a GREAT life and we let him go before he got too uncomfortable.  Funny how each pup has their own personality and idiosyncrasies. Jake was the kindest, most gentle boy.  He was a big talker and whistler.  He would carry on conversations as one of us would rub his belly! Until May he enjoyed fetching a soccer or tennis ball, running and running until I thought he would drop.  Oddly enough he hated water and would drink out of the doggie pool rather than join his brother and sister.  These are the things I will always remember.  AGAIN THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR MAKING THIS WHOLE PROCESS BEARABLE!

Laurie AKA Angel Jake's Mom 

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