Please don't think me insensitive because I know from experience how hard this is.  I think that if Henri has been like for awhile he is telling you it is time.  It broke my heart to say goodbye to Emily but I knew that she lost her desire for all things when she couldn't run. or even walk without extreme help.  We were lucky in that we found out it was the cancer had gone to her spine.  We didn't really have to make a decision; the cancer did it for us  With Henri it is different and a horrible decision to have to make. 

One article I read said put a red marble/pebble in a jar for good days and a blue one for bad days.  When there are more blue marbles than red it is time.

I will definately keep Henri in my prayers.  And you even more so because we do suffer with our fur babies.

Part of my prayer is that the oncologist was able to give you answers and give Henri some meds that will bring joy back into his life.

Debra & Angel Emily

Oh this does indeed suck big time…..I am currently on the same watch as you are and my heart just aches for you..just aches.

You know him best….it is so so hard and know that we are all here to support you as you go through this and know that tonight there are many tears being shed for you and Henri…bless you

Oh I'm so sad for you and my heart goes out to you…..I can just feel your pain.  This is the most difficult decision to make.  I lost my other dog to lymphoma and was heartbroken when we let her go but we knew it was time as difficult as it was.  It's such conflicting emotions and you don't want to make a decision too early or too late.  But one of the things I remember from reading on this website that always stuck in my mind is that sometimes it's better to let them go before they let you know vs. letting them go when it's past their time to let go.  I hope that makes sense.  You are in my thoughts and prayers and I hope you are able to find peace with whatever decision you do make.   Good luck with the oncologist and I really pray that Henri will be ok. 

Kami (Mackenzie's Mom)    

 I am so sorry to hear that Henri is having such a difficult time. I hope you get good news from the oncologist. We will be praying for you and Henri.

Jo Ann & Tasha

Dear Henri's Mum,

I know what you are going through right now,I have been there with my Don, Golden as well, exacly two months ago. So I understand and feel your pain and sadness,it almost feels like am reliving it all again. And was definatly the sadest time of my life…. but…in the end I didnt find a decision that hard to make cos I just knew the time has come and he made sure to let me know. And yes Goldens are very stoic dogs that dont complain much and its really very hard to tell when they are in some pain and discomfort. What you should do,and probably are is talk to him… I know I used to lay beside Don and just whisper in his ear telling him that its ok to show he has had enough,and that I will be ok and will do everything to ease his pain no matter how hard it will be for me,but just want him to show me a clear sign that he is ready to move on. A couple of days later he completley started to refuse food,couldnt even get on his back legs,but the most clear sign was in his eyes. You wont miss it,you will just know. All glow is gone from them and they just look tired like they are saying: Mum,I am ready,let me go.

But well,before I was completley sure to make that decision I wanted to make sure at vets that there is nothing they can do for him anymore,or at least nothing longer term. So,I suggest you dont give up just yet,see his onclogist which can try determine is there some met going on or something,or maybe something that could be fixable for a while. Hope to hear from you soon with some better news.

Henri and you are in my prayers…hang on,you are not alone.

       Lots of hugs,

    Daniela, Angel Don's Mum 

Henri and family, so sorry that you are at this part of the journey. From the start of our journey the main goal was quality of life for Gus, and the fact that I think he knows we have taken his pain away with the amputation and he can be himself again  makes all my decisions easier because he knows we are helping him feel better. Just know you have done everything you could for Henri, and I truly believe he knows that, and whatever you decide from here is for for his best interest and comfort. This part never gets easier, my heart goes out to you all, know we are thinking of you and that  you are part of the family and your not alone. Gus and Dan