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Hospice Guide and Grief Support
22 October 2008
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Came across a hospice guide line  … It is very beautiful, please read:



Kim & Angel Buster "Until one has loved an animal, a part of one's soul remains unawakened." –Anatole France
22 October 2008
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Thanks for sharing that! Beautiful indeed ….

… Promise to keep my memory alive
in all you do everyday.

That's one promise that is easy to keep!

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22 October 2008
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I loved this and am so grateful that I can say we pretty much did all these things. It helps ease the pain to know I really did make Abbey last days as comfortable and loving as we knew how to. I miss her so much but still have no regrets, just a void. Peace to all, Diane Riley

8 November 2008
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Kim, The "Animal Hospice Guidelines" were beautifully written and I have saved them to an email to myself, so I will be able to read it again in the future.  It will be helpful for some people who have doubt in their hearts when it's the right time to release their beloved animals from a life that has become to hard to endure.  I am still a great believer in the fact that our animals have given us so much devotion all through their lives, that it is so important to be there when we must say goodbye, so they can hear a familiar voice, or a soft hand stroking them and giving them reassurance in their final moments.  No one should ever have to go to their end alone, especially when that someone is a beloved animal who has given us nothing but love and loyalty throughout their entire lives.

Love, Blazer, Kitty Kimber & Mom (Vicki)

 

8 February 2009
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Kim, thank you so much for sharing this- it is beautiful and spot on.

Christine & Sophie

10 March 2009
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Second try…hope I do this right…

I want to thank you so much for the link to the hospice guide…there is nothing more I can possibly add that is adequate..

Kirby & Sundance

23 March 2009
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That is one of the best reads ever. A lesson on life. Right now i'am going through the hospice guide with my best friend Dasha. When I get depressed about the situation with her I pull this out and it gives me strenght to continue. following the guide is the best gift I can give her.

25 April 2009
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Here are some excellent, comforting resources we located when you are mouning the loss of a beloved furry family member:

Lighthearted Press' Pet Loss Comfort Articles and Books

Helpguide.org, Grieving the Loss of a Pet

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7 June 2009
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From Kim & Angel Buster:

"I just came across this saying & I wanted to share;

'It came to me that every time I lose a dog they take a piece of my heart with them. And every new dog who comes into my life, gifts me with a piece of their heart. If I live long enough, all the components of my heart will be dog, and I will become as generous and loving as they are.'

~Author Unknown


 

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21 June 2009
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Here's a great online grief support guide, as well as information on how you can get help directly from this organization:

Colorado State University's Argus Institute

"The Mission of the Argus Institute is to strengthen veterinarian-client-patient communication and support relationships between people and their companion animals. We do this by:

1. Offering support to people who are facing challenges surrounding their pet's healthcare.
2. Teaching compassionate communication to veterinary professionals.
3. Conducting research in veterinarian-client-patient communication.
4. Providing community outreach through the student-run Pet Hospice Program and the Human-Animal Bond Club.

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7 September 2009
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Our friends at Land of Pure Gold Foundation just posted this excellent article called Veterinary Hospice or End of Life Care: an Evolving Field.

In the article, they reference their “Compassionate Veterinary Hospice Resources,” page, which, if you scroll down about 1/3 of the way, you'll find a compilation of animal hospice care and grief counseling resources.

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23 August 2010
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I am really having a hard time tonight and reading this helped a little bit even though my keyboard is dripping wet. I feel good in knowing I am and have done all this things and will see things til the end. i hope  i will know when the time is right and that i can be strong enough for my precious Jersey May.

Jersey May , Mr Red and Jon

My Sweet Jersey May. Lost her back left leg in 2001 at 1 year old. diagnosed with osteosarcoma in the remaining right rear leg May 2010 Left our world September 2010. We miss you Pea Pie   http://jerseyma.....pawds.com/
24 August 2010
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jerseymay said:

I am really having a hard time tonight and reading this helped a little bit…

We're glad for that, thanks for letting us know. Others have found Doug Koktavy's book about his dogs Beezer and Boomer helpful in coping with the anticipatory grief your facing.

We shared our experiences of setting Jerry free, and many have commented that it helped them through their own difficult decisions too.

It's been said before about many a dog, but it's true … Jersey May will let you know when the time is right. Until then, Carpe Dog!

"Dogs are born with three legs and a spare."
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15 April 2011
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Another great article about hospice care by author Kyra Kirkwood:

Hospice Care for Dogs” (Dog’s Life Magazine, November 2010)

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5 July 2011
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Just came across this helpful post from the Humane Society:

Coping With the Death of Your Pet: How to cope when it's time to say goodbye

Here are a few suggestions to help you cope:

  • Acknowledge your grief and give yourself permission to express it.
  • Don't hesitate to reach out to others who can lend a sympathetic ear. The Delta Society offers a list of pet loss hotlines for those grieving over the death of a pet.
  • Write about your feelings, either in a journal or a poem.
  • Call your local humane society to see whether it offers a pet loss support group or can refer you to one.
  • Prepare a memorial for your pet.
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