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		<title>By: jerry</title>
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		<dc:creator>jerry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2010 15:54:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We are deeply sorry for your loss. Shelli Belle taught you well though, about loving every moment of life you&#039;ve got, and knowing when to love enough to let go. We have no doubt her spirit remains strong, and she is very, very proud of you. 

We can completely relate. Hugs coming your way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We are deeply sorry for your loss. Shelli Belle taught you well though, about loving every moment of life you&#8217;ve got, and knowing when to love enough to let go. We have no doubt her spirit remains strong, and she is very, very proud of you. </p>
<p>We can completely relate. Hugs coming your way.</p>
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		<title>By: ritables</title>
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		<dc:creator>ritables</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2010 15:44:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The same thing happened to us a couple weeks ago. Our Shelli Belle had Lymph Node sarcoma that was spread to the liver and we only had 1 month prognosis. with Prednisone we had 7 glorious weeks with her, but she wasted away and the last 2 days...well...your article just summed it up. It was a quick decision, and all the wondering about &#039;is it time&#039; became very apparent. you just KNOW. She just looked so tired and ready to give up; she was a very brave girl and hung in there like a trooper. Miss ya Shelli Belle...one love.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The same thing happened to us a couple weeks ago. Our Shelli Belle had Lymph Node sarcoma that was spread to the liver and we only had 1 month prognosis. with Prednisone we had 7 glorious weeks with her, but she wasted away and the last 2 days&#8230;well&#8230;your article just summed it up. It was a quick decision, and all the wondering about &#8216;is it time&#8217; became very apparent. you just KNOW. She just looked so tired and ready to give up; she was a very brave girl and hung in there like a trooper. Miss ya Shelli Belle&#8230;one love.</p>
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		<title>By: admin</title>
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		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 23:54:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for the heartfelt comment, and bless you for giving Sasha the beautiful life you did. This &lt;a href=&quot;http://tripawds.com/about&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Tripawds Blogs community&lt;/a&gt; is full of members who totally understand.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the heartfelt comment, and bless you for giving Sasha the beautiful life you did. This <a href="http://tripawds.com/about" rel="nofollow">Tripawds Blogs community</a> is full of members who totally understand.</p>
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		<title>By: Noelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Noelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 23:48:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I cannot thank you enough for making me realize I&#039;m not the only one who would have stopped the world to make my dog happy. My pitbull Sasha died almost 2 years ago and it is still the hardest thing I&#039;ve ever experienced. I am a young single woman living in NYC and she was my best friend. She saw me through 9/11 when after walking home that afternoon and coming in the door knowing my life would never be the same she didn&#039;t leave my side for 3 straight days. Everytime I cried, had my heart broken or just plain old felt sorry for myself she would sit on my left side and put her head on my heart. She was so spry and had it out for the squirrels in Central Park, so much so that she would climb about 3/4 up the tree and then realize she didn&#039;t have a way back down other than to fall. When I saw your video of Jerry&#039;s last days it made me think of Sashas last days which unfortunately weren&#039;t as lovely. She was 9 and had begun to slow down which I didn&#039;t think was unusual, just some middle aged grumpiness but suddenly she began having seizures after her walks to the bathroom. It seemed as if she didn&#039;t want to embarass herself so she would hold them off until she made it to the stairs to the apartment or once she got in the door but once she was there I had to prepare myself to catch her everytime. After bringing her into her regular vet they tested her and said it was a glandular problem and put her on meds. She seemed better but thats when I saw a lump on her right side, it was quite large and in my heart I knew it was cancer. I took her back into the vet, pointed out the lump and the veteranarian ( a new one) looked at it and that looked me in the eye and said it&#039;s not a lump she&#039;s just fat, she said she thought she had a thryoid problem and gave her a new prescription. I, being scared and hoping I was being paranoid, believed her. 
Sasha&#039;s greatest joy was riding in cars and going upstate to the mountains so I thought since she&#039;s getting older lets do this as often as we can. We were able to do it four more times before the world crashed down after her thyroid diagnosis. Then I realized I was wrong to believe the vet and saw that my little girl was extremely sick. Her seizures had gotten worse and she was now agitated whenever she tried to go to the bathroom. I took her back to the vet demanded an ultrasound and when it came back I saw that she had a tumor that filled almost the whole lower right quadrant. She was dying, so I thought ok let me make her last days the best ever, let me get the car for the following morning and take her to the hills let her lie in the grass and roll wherever she wants and in whatever she wants but thats not what Sasha wanted. She knew I knew and the next day we woke up very early and went outside and she showed me that today was the day she got &quot;her wings&quot;. She died a day after the ultrasound, in my lap. I&#039;m sorry this is so long but I had to tell you that watching your video made me cry but also made me realize that what matters most is our animals happiness, I will kick myself forever for not demanding an ultrasound sooner but I thank God for everyday I had her in my life. Your love for Jerry makes me realize that I&#039;m not the only one who looks at these animals as our children and best friends so thank you for this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I cannot thank you enough for making me realize I&#8217;m not the only one who would have stopped the world to make my dog happy. My pitbull Sasha died almost 2 years ago and it is still the hardest thing I&#8217;ve ever experienced. I am a young single woman living in NYC and she was my best friend. She saw me through 9/11 when after walking home that afternoon and coming in the door knowing my life would never be the same she didn&#8217;t leave my side for 3 straight days. Everytime I cried, had my heart broken or just plain old felt sorry for myself she would sit on my left side and put her head on my heart. She was so spry and had it out for the squirrels in Central Park, so much so that she would climb about 3/4 up the tree and then realize she didn&#8217;t have a way back down other than to fall. When I saw your video of Jerry&#8217;s last days it made me think of Sashas last days which unfortunately weren&#8217;t as lovely. She was 9 and had begun to slow down which I didn&#8217;t think was unusual, just some middle aged grumpiness but suddenly she began having seizures after her walks to the bathroom. It seemed as if she didn&#8217;t want to embarass herself so she would hold them off until she made it to the stairs to the apartment or once she got in the door but once she was there I had to prepare myself to catch her everytime. After bringing her into her regular vet they tested her and said it was a glandular problem and put her on meds. She seemed better but thats when I saw a lump on her right side, it was quite large and in my heart I knew it was cancer. I took her back into the vet, pointed out the lump and the veteranarian ( a new one) looked at it and that looked me in the eye and said it&#8217;s not a lump she&#8217;s just fat, she said she thought she had a thryoid problem and gave her a new prescription. I, being scared and hoping I was being paranoid, believed her.<br />
Sasha&#8217;s greatest joy was riding in cars and going upstate to the mountains so I thought since she&#8217;s getting older lets do this as often as we can. We were able to do it four more times before the world crashed down after her thyroid diagnosis. Then I realized I was wrong to believe the vet and saw that my little girl was extremely sick. Her seizures had gotten worse and she was now agitated whenever she tried to go to the bathroom. I took her back to the vet demanded an ultrasound and when it came back I saw that she had a tumor that filled almost the whole lower right quadrant. She was dying, so I thought ok let me make her last days the best ever, let me get the car for the following morning and take her to the hills let her lie in the grass and roll wherever she wants and in whatever she wants but thats not what Sasha wanted. She knew I knew and the next day we woke up very early and went outside and she showed me that today was the day she got &#8220;her wings&#8221;. She died a day after the ultrasound, in my lap. I&#8217;m sorry this is so long but I had to tell you that watching your video made me cry but also made me realize that what matters most is our animals happiness, I will kick myself forever for not demanding an ultrasound sooner but I thank God for everyday I had her in my life. Your love for Jerry makes me realize that I&#8217;m not the only one who looks at these animals as our children and best friends so thank you for this.</p>
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		<title>By: Mark</title>
		<link>http://tripawds.com/2008/11/01/saying-goodbye-how-we-knew-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-33341</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 May 2010 19:13:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, 
 I hope I am not writing to much here but it is so nice to find people like us. This is for everyone and Jerry too. Its a poem by Jimmy Stewart. You can also find it on &quot;You Tube&quot; he read  it to Johnny Carson on the Tonight Show. Take care all...

 Beau

He never came to me when I would call
Unless I had a tennis ball,
Or he felt like it,
But mostly he didn&#039;t come at all.

When he was young
He never learned to heel
Or sit or stay,
He did things his way.

Discipline was not his bag
But when you were with him things sure didn&#039;t drag.
He&#039;d dig up a rosebush just to spite me,
And when I&#039;d grab him, he&#039;d turn and bite me.

He bit lots of folks from day to day,
The delivery boy was his favorite prey.
The gas man wouldn&#039;t read our meter,
He said we owned a real man-eater.

He set the house on fire
But the story&#039;s long to tell.
Suffice it to say that he survived
And the house survived as well.

On the evening walks, and Gloria took him,
He was always first out the door.
The Old One and I brought up the rear
Because our bones were sore.

He would charge up the street with Mom hanging on,
What a beautiful pair they were!
And if it was still light and the tourists were out,
They created a bit of a stir.

But every once in a while, he would stop in his tracks
And with a frown on his face look around.
It was just to make sure that the Old One was there
And would follow him where he was bound.

We are early-to-bedders at our house--
I guess I&#039;m the first to retire.
And as I&#039;d leave the room he&#039;d look at me
And get up from his place by the fire.

He knew where the tennis balls were upstairs,
And I&#039;d give him one for a while.
He would push it under the bed with his nose
And I&#039;d fish it out with a smile.

And before very long
He&#039;d tire of the ball
And be asleep in his corner
In no time at all.

And there were nights when I&#039;d feel him
Climb upon our bed
And lie between us, And I&#039;d pat his head.

And there were nights when I&#039;d feel this stare
And I&#039;d wake up and he&#039;d be sitting there
And I reach out my hand and stroke his hair.
And sometimes I&#039;d feel him sigh
and I think I know the reason why.

He would wake up at night
And he would have this fear
Of the dark, of life, of lots of things,
And he&#039;d be glad to have me near.

And now he&#039;s dead.
And there are nights when I think I feel him
Climb upon our bed and lie between us,
And I pat his head.

And there are nights when I think
I feel that stare
And I reach out my hand to stroke his hair,
But he&#039;s not there.

Oh, how I wish that wasn&#039;t so,
I&#039;ll always love a dog named Beau.

~ Jimmy Stewart</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey,<br />
 I hope I am not writing to much here but it is so nice to find people like us. This is for everyone and Jerry too. Its a poem by Jimmy Stewart. You can also find it on &#8220;You Tube&#8221; he read  it to Johnny Carson on the Tonight Show. Take care all&#8230;</p>
<p> Beau</p>
<p>He never came to me when I would call<br />
Unless I had a tennis ball,<br />
Or he felt like it,<br />
But mostly he didn&#8217;t come at all.</p>
<p>When he was young<br />
He never learned to heel<br />
Or sit or stay,<br />
He did things his way.</p>
<p>Discipline was not his bag<br />
But when you were with him things sure didn&#8217;t drag.<br />
He&#8217;d dig up a rosebush just to spite me,<br />
And when I&#8217;d grab him, he&#8217;d turn and bite me.</p>
<p>He bit lots of folks from day to day,<br />
The delivery boy was his favorite prey.<br />
The gas man wouldn&#8217;t read our meter,<br />
He said we owned a real man-eater.</p>
<p>He set the house on fire<br />
But the story&#8217;s long to tell.<br />
Suffice it to say that he survived<br />
And the house survived as well.</p>
<p>On the evening walks, and Gloria took him,<br />
He was always first out the door.<br />
The Old One and I brought up the rear<br />
Because our bones were sore.</p>
<p>He would charge up the street with Mom hanging on,<br />
What a beautiful pair they were!<br />
And if it was still light and the tourists were out,<br />
They created a bit of a stir.</p>
<p>But every once in a while, he would stop in his tracks<br />
And with a frown on his face look around.<br />
It was just to make sure that the Old One was there<br />
And would follow him where he was bound.</p>
<p>We are early-to-bedders at our house&#8211;<br />
I guess I&#8217;m the first to retire.<br />
And as I&#8217;d leave the room he&#8217;d look at me<br />
And get up from his place by the fire.</p>
<p>He knew where the tennis balls were upstairs,<br />
And I&#8217;d give him one for a while.<br />
He would push it under the bed with his nose<br />
And I&#8217;d fish it out with a smile.</p>
<p>And before very long<br />
He&#8217;d tire of the ball<br />
And be asleep in his corner<br />
In no time at all.</p>
<p>And there were nights when I&#8217;d feel him<br />
Climb upon our bed<br />
And lie between us, And I&#8217;d pat his head.</p>
<p>And there were nights when I&#8217;d feel this stare<br />
And I&#8217;d wake up and he&#8217;d be sitting there<br />
And I reach out my hand and stroke his hair.<br />
And sometimes I&#8217;d feel him sigh<br />
and I think I know the reason why.</p>
<p>He would wake up at night<br />
And he would have this fear<br />
Of the dark, of life, of lots of things,<br />
And he&#8217;d be glad to have me near.</p>
<p>And now he&#8217;s dead.<br />
And there are nights when I think I feel him<br />
Climb upon our bed and lie between us,<br />
And I pat his head.</p>
<p>And there are nights when I think<br />
I feel that stare<br />
And I reach out my hand to stroke his hair,<br />
But he&#8217;s not there.</p>
<p>Oh, how I wish that wasn&#8217;t so,<br />
I&#8217;ll always love a dog named Beau.</p>
<p>~ Jimmy Stewart</p>
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		<title>By: Mark</title>
		<link>http://tripawds.com/2008/11/01/saying-goodbye-how-we-knew-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-33339</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 May 2010 18:51:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I tried to post a picture but the sight would not let me. Jerry was awesome same spirit as Bailey. 
Thanks so much for you reply &quot;all happiness to you and yours&quot;

Mark and Kim.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I tried to post a picture but the sight would not let me. Jerry was awesome same spirit as Bailey.<br />
Thanks so much for you reply &#8220;all happiness to you and yours&#8221;</p>
<p>Mark and Kim.</p>
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		<title>By: jerry</title>
		<link>http://tripawds.com/2008/11/01/saying-goodbye-how-we-knew-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-33334</link>
		<dc:creator>jerry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 May 2010 17:09:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mark and Kim, thank you for watching and taking the time to come here and share Bailey&#039;s story. 

We don&#039;t think you&#039;re crazy at all, and we understand completely why you have given this girl a fighting chance. In fact, everyone here will understand it too. This is a circle of compassionate, caring people who will always do right by their pups. They ask for so little, how can we not? Sad for those who don&#039;t get it.

We&#039;re cheering over here because of your devotion and dedication to here, when so many others would have given up. How wonderful to hear that she&#039;s happy and making the best of life. Her courage is real, her spirit is unbreakable and she was clearly put on this earth to show all those doubters that animals can teach us so much about overcoming adversity and hardship. You obviously understand this, thank you for being there to spread the word for our animal family.

Many hugs, 
Spirit Jerry, Rene, Jim &amp; Wyatt Ray</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mark and Kim, thank you for watching and taking the time to come here and share Bailey&#8217;s story. </p>
<p>We don&#8217;t think you&#8217;re crazy at all, and we understand completely why you have given this girl a fighting chance. In fact, everyone here will understand it too. This is a circle of compassionate, caring people who will always do right by their pups. They ask for so little, how can we not? Sad for those who don&#8217;t get it.</p>
<p>We&#8217;re cheering over here because of your devotion and dedication to here, when so many others would have given up. How wonderful to hear that she&#8217;s happy and making the best of life. Her courage is real, her spirit is unbreakable and she was clearly put on this earth to show all those doubters that animals can teach us so much about overcoming adversity and hardship. You obviously understand this, thank you for being there to spread the word for our animal family.</p>
<p>Many hugs,<br />
Spirit Jerry, Rene, Jim &amp; Wyatt Ray</p>
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		<title>By: Mark</title>
		<link>http://tripawds.com/2008/11/01/saying-goodbye-how-we-knew-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-33326</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 May 2010 15:45:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was so moved by your story I slept last night on the floor with my dog Bailey. 
 Bailey is ten and has had many complications since we got her as a puppy. We replaced both her ACL&#039;s in her back legs at age 1 year and 2 year. People thought we were crazy spending that kind of money on a dog. She recovered and 8 years later is still here. 

She went blind once and we had to take her to an eye specialist, her retinas reattached and see can now see again. 

One she she had big lumps on her neck that doctors thought were cancer , but they went away. We knew it was an alergic reation, doctors thought the worst.

Bailey also needs medicine for seizures, she has them at least twice a month and some months even more. 

The medicene for the siezures has made her put on weight and her back legs make the walks short, but this dogs courage is unreal. We would never let her suffer. She still climbs stairs plays and is by no means lacking quility of life. Thank god she found us.. 

Mark and Kim
Buffalo NY.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was so moved by your story I slept last night on the floor with my dog Bailey.<br />
 Bailey is ten and has had many complications since we got her as a puppy. We replaced both her ACL&#8217;s in her back legs at age 1 year and 2 year. People thought we were crazy spending that kind of money on a dog. She recovered and 8 years later is still here. </p>
<p>She went blind once and we had to take her to an eye specialist, her retinas reattached and see can now see again. </p>
<p>One she she had big lumps on her neck that doctors thought were cancer , but they went away. We knew it was an alergic reation, doctors thought the worst.</p>
<p>Bailey also needs medicine for seizures, she has them at least twice a month and some months even more. </p>
<p>The medicene for the siezures has made her put on weight and her back legs make the walks short, but this dogs courage is unreal. We would never let her suffer. She still climbs stairs plays and is by no means lacking quility of life. Thank god she found us.. </p>
<p>Mark and Kim<br />
Buffalo NY.</p>
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		<title>By: jerry</title>
		<link>http://tripawds.com/2008/11/01/saying-goodbye-how-we-knew-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-33241</link>
		<dc:creator>jerry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2010 17:06:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Our hearts go out to you SG, we are so sorry. That kind of profound grief takes so long to recover from, but we know that your next pup will help bring the sunshine back into your life. They do that, they lighten the load and show you that things can be good. And poodles are so darn smart, we really love them. What an honor to know that you&#039;re bestowing the name &quot;Jerry,&quot; on your future family member, we are so touched. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for writing, you made our day.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our hearts go out to you SG, we are so sorry. That kind of profound grief takes so long to recover from, but we know that your next pup will help bring the sunshine back into your life. They do that, they lighten the load and show you that things can be good. And poodles are so darn smart, we really love them. What an honor to know that you&#8217;re bestowing the name &#8220;Jerry,&#8221; on your future family member, we are so touched. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for writing, you made our day.</p>
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		<title>By: SG</title>
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		<dc:creator>SG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2010 16:20:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My beloved standard poodle, Bob, died at age 10 on August 10, 2009. My father died a year before whose name was Jerry. Both were devastating losses. My next standard poodle will be named Jerry in memory and honor of both my father and your beautiful, smart German Shepherd. Thank you for sharing your remarkable story.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My beloved standard poodle, Bob, died at age 10 on August 10, 2009. My father died a year before whose name was Jerry. Both were devastating losses. My next standard poodle will be named Jerry in memory and honor of both my father and your beautiful, smart German Shepherd. Thank you for sharing your remarkable story.</p>
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